me and this guy had talked alot over the summer but then we stoped we didn't really hang excpt once and we fooled around he called me a tease because i wouldent **** him& we didn't talk for the rest of the summer i called him a few times after that but he iggnored my calls.at the begening of this year i txted him and told him i was really horny(i was) he said he was busy. well later that week he asked me if i wanted to hang out and if i was still horny and i said sure me and 2 of my friends went over to his older brothers house and one of my friends started to have sex with his older brother. she didn't even know this guy well then me and my guy started to fool around it lead to sex. i didn't want to he couldent really get it in because my hole was too small. afterwords i txted him and told him we would of doen it if my hole wasnt so small. he told me he wont try anymore and pritty much that he is tired of me being a tease now i feel so unpure and grose.
2007-09-29 11:56:09 · 17 answers · asked by Chan X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure how old you are, but take it from someone with experience....you should be glad that you guys didn't end up having sex. It sounds to me like your relationship isn't all THAT serious. When you do have sex for the first time, you both should be totally in love.
Sex is the greatest thing that two people can share. It should be special...exciting like you are seeing fireworks or a shooting star...gentle like you are swimming peacefully on a warm cloudless day....but intimate like you cannot get any closer to that person physically or spiritually.
If you are not absolutely in love, how are you going to see and feel that?
Don't let guys pressure you into something before you're ready. A lot of them are only after one thing and after they get it, they're done. You're not a tease and don't think that you are.
Wait until you are ready. When you *are* ready, you won't feel all impure and gross because the time will be right....
Good luck!
2007-09-29 12:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by YSIC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are a tease sorry to say. Never tell a guy you are horny when you know for a fact you arent going to do anything ,that can lead to far worser things, like rape. All he wanted was to have sex with you and since that never happened, he dont want anything to do with you and you are better off cause he is just a jerk. If he never got his dick inside you, you are still a virgin and apparently you arent ready for sex so stop teasing people and just enjoy being a teenager
2007-09-29 12:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi you are a lady and 100% woman OK! When the right man comes into your life you would be proud of yourself that you are still a virgin. And for this jerk call you a tease....., he is not half a man than you are a real woman. You just waite horny or not:)
2007-09-29 12:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by johann_777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't throw yourself away on this guy. He sounds like an insensitive jerk...And you are neither a tease nor impure, you are at the experimenting stage. Please find someone who will treat you with love and respect and will cherish you...I don't know if this guy actually tore your hymen (popped you), but even if he did, you are still not gross. You are normal and human, like us all. This guy sounds abusive and you feel bad because he's a downer. You don't OWE anyone sex.
2007-09-29 12:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by ThatGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well people dont think before they act because they let their actions take over...now all the embarassment u encountered should be a learning experience and i hope u save it with someone special instead of someone that just wanted to use you for that....please give ur dignity some thought because the way things going nowadays with younger girls...seems like u still have a chance
2007-09-29 12:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have posted this on Answers. (you may get mean comments) However... My advice to you is just pray (if you believe in God) to give you peace of mind so you can move on. Are you feeling guilty? B/c you are still a virgin. Remember how your feeling at this moment so if you find yourself in the same situation again you'll stop yourself before something really does happen.
2007-09-29 12:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Total W%&Nker he is- he is probably embarrased and thinks he had something to do with why you both didnt have sex- he putting it back on you so he feels better- tell him your tired of him to and if he cant do the job right then you'll be better off without ;-)
2007-09-29 12:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by bondrippa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess this wasn't the proudest moment of your life was it? You are supposed to feel impure and gross, you're not ready for that stage in your life. Judging by your use of grammar you have a long way to go.
2007-09-29 12:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Barney 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That guys a total creep honey. You hold on to your virginity for someone you love and is worth taking someone very important to you.
2007-09-29 12:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
virgin is supposed to be like that, hard to get in for the first time. it is because he was inexperienced, that has nothing to do with you not giving to him. and he just wanna be your first, then he will go away, he doesn't love you, thank god you didn't let him have it, find a better guy.
2007-09-29 11:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Carborane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋