My sister’s husband flirts and makes me feel really uncomfortable. He always wants to kiss me on the lips, and Yuk, he has a really wiry moustache, Yuk. I would prefer to kiss him on the cheek!.
He always wants to talk to me on the net, chat. When he does find me on the net he talks dirt to me and I hate it. If I don't let him talk to me naughty then doesn't talk to me. He just can't have a nice convo it has to be flirty and naughty. Yuk!
What would you do in a situation like this? I don't want my sister to hate me because of this?
He told me he lays awake salivating about me sometimes. YUK!
Thanks!
2007-09-29 12:34:34 · 27 answers · asked by Purity 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks so much guys!!! Yeah, i'm gona chatch the scum bag out! I'll get him on chat and then save everything.
The thing is he is all my sister has. He came into her life when her only son and child died of a heroin over dose.
2007-09-29 12:47:24 · update #1
Unless your sister's a psycho, she's not going to hate you. I would just tell him straight up to cut the crap, and ignore him if he tries to talk to you on-line. You have to be firm, and don't laugh or smile. Let him know that his behavior is disrespectful to both you and you sister. As for telling her, I'd wait. If he continues his behavior after you tell him to stop, tell her, and don't even warn him because he'll try to turn it around on you.
P.S.- Do not show him any physical affection at all because that will only confuse him.
P.P.S.- He is NOT all she has. She has you.
2007-09-29 12:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl your sister is married to a PERVERT! what type of relationship do you have with your sister? because if it's a good one i would go directly to her and tell her (not in his presence though!) and print out the evidence that he has been "talking" to you to say the least, how old are you? and where is your mother? if your sister doesn't do anything she does not have your best interest in mind. Do you live with them, i need more information, please ask another question with more info. Until then stay as far away from him as you can! do not talk to him at all on the net! HE'S A PERVERT!!! stay safe- in no way is this appropriate behavior between you two!!!!
2007-09-29 12:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by dollbabyii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is your sisters husband and you feel uncomfortable because he flirts with you and he kissed you on the lips, have you told your parents about this they can have a nice talk with him. Dont tell your sister unless your parents cant handle him. If i had and older brother i would tell him to.
best of luck
2007-09-29 12:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd make a plan. A plan where your sis like overhears everything. Without letting the couples know. It's an alternative thing if your sis doesn't believe that her husband is flirting with you, because it's just wrong.
2007-09-29 13:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bum, I say expose him. If I were you I would get a tape recorder and record his advances. Then I would play the tape on a stereo that has very loud speakers. I'm a man but I don't have the balls to do something like that, he must be white, lol.
2007-09-29 12:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by John 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister doesn't deserve this scumbag! Save the messages he's sending you online, and show them to her. She has a right to know, and hopefully once it's out in the open, you won't have to worry about it. You sister may be hurt at first, but shouldn't be upset at YOU, just HIM for acting that way.
2007-09-29 12:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your sister isn't going to hate you if you're honest with her. Tell her what he's been doing and tell her how it makes you uncomfortable.
If it were me, I'd rather not talk to him at all, then have to put up with that crap....he's a married man, and needs to behave like one...
The situation sounds pretty bad if he's doing all those things, your sister really needs to know what he's doing, because if he's doing this to you, he might also be doing this to other women.....I'm not saying he's cheating or anything, but if he's acting like that, it's really suspicious....
TELL HER!!!
2007-09-29 12:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by ღMeggღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to Stop and the very next time he does it ge a hold of her immediately and tell her...
he's not being faithful to her...
he also should not have married her if he thinks that way about you or anyone else..
you did nothing wrong he is sick and needs help
Walt
2007-09-29 12:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ronk W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister she is married to a creep and show her the messages he sends you, and tell her that you've already told him it is inappropriate and that he isn't listening to you.
Hiding this from her is going to make things worse, and if she finds out you never told her, you'll suffer far worse from her.
2007-09-29 12:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister and parents need to know. Make a copy of what he is saying to you when he chats with you so that your sister will know that you are not to blame. Do not talk to him!!!!!!! If he makes you uncomfortable you need to avoid him and she needs to know what he is doing and how he is treating you.NOW
2007-09-29 12:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋