We go to the same highschool and I really don't want to make it weird when I see him. I just want to stay friends because he seems like he's loosing intrest. We don't really hang out anymore, all we do really is hug and kiss. Like at school in the morning we hug and kiss, and do the same after school to. But he really doesn't seem very intrested in hanging out. I need help!!! :(
2007-09-29 12:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to keep the relationship going i would first ask him how he feels about you and the situation. That way you can see if he really did loose interest or its something else. But if you do want to break up, be brave and tell him. Not on aim or email or text but to him. Just say that you think you would be a lot better together as friends.
2007-09-29 12:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by dazedandconfused0411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to spend time with you, then he has probably pretty much lost interest. It sounds as if you have as well, so you are both probably trying to find the same answer. At the next scheduled hug and kiss time, just tell him you really don't see any future in being tied down to someone who has no time to spend with you. He will either agree and you can part friends, or he will say he still wants to be with you, at which time you can choose to say no, or you can tell him what has to happen for that to happen. Either way, you win.
2007-09-29 12:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by jerryq446 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "You know, I'm thinking this whole boyfriend - girlfriend thing has turned into just a hug and kiss thing. Tell you what - let's just take a break, stay friends, and get a chance to breathe and be on our own for a while, ok? Ok."
2007-09-29 12:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and say the things that you say in the post above. Mention that you feel the relationship has stalled and feels stagnant, so you think in all honesty that the two of you should not be together anymore although you would like to remain friends since you don't have any hard feelings and you hope he doesn't either. That should say it all. Good luck.
2007-09-29 12:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally that would depend. If he is a real sensitive guy be easy about it. Say like, I'm sorry but our relationship is not working the way I expected it to so I guess I am saying that maybe we should be just friends.
2007-09-29 12:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Stracer2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a genuine, compassionate conversation. Be open and honest. It will be wierd for a while, but if you are honest, the the hurt feelings won't last long.
2007-09-29 12:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Concerned Citizen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way wen u break up w/him at first its gunna seem strange to see him or w/e. but just tell him that u dont think u guys should date anymore. and do it urselft in person...dont write it or have one of ur friends do it...it'll prolly be hard to do it in person {{at least it was for me}} but you'll be able to do it.
2007-09-29 12:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont see him any more move on with ur life and make new friends.
2007-09-29 12:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by missourigal_194420002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
print my picture and draw hearts around me and write "i love Philly" all over and glue my picture to your binder and take me on a date please. i like chinese, and make sure he sees us together, hell be heartbroken, and can we let my mom see us together, i think she's starting to worry that im gay.
2007-09-29 12:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Phillip Farnsworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him exactly how you feel....
2007-09-29 12:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by What's good? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋