Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

im sarcastic with everybody...my friends, my parents, co workers, my boss, professors, etc....i didnt even know it was a problem until my girlfriend said she didnt like it...she asked a stupid question so i said something sarcastic and then she got mad and said she didnt like it...
but alot of people like my sarcasm..

so what am i supposed to do...just stop being sarcastic altogether...

2007-09-29 09:07:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As the mother of a 10 month old baby son I'm always being told how little boys grow up devoted to their mums! I really hope so as he is my world and I love him so much!!

However, I've also been told "Oh its better to have a daughter as boys are less close to their mums as they get older".

I don't beleive this.

So guys, what does your mum mean to you?

2007-09-29 09:04:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom verbally abuses me. She calls me names, makes fun of me. She also has severe mood swings. One minute she says how much she loves me, the next minute she is screaming at me for getting a B+ on my report card. My mom is also in denial and always somehow always tries to make everything my fault.

My dad physically/sexually abuses me. Just a few days ago he opened the door when i was showering and just stood there even after I yelled at him to leave. Then he threw his shoe at my face. As i was leaving the shower, he kicked me several times.

I would tell somebody about my parents, such as a friend or teacher, except my mom told me that if i told anyone about what she or my dad does, she will "pierce a needle through my heart."

For some reason, out of 4 kids (2 of which are moved out) I am the only child abused. Every time i go out, i act happy and no one would ever think that my parents abuse me.

2007-09-29 09:00:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what should you do about it?plz help! should you call him bac or wait for him to call you...

2007-09-29 09:00:01 · 21 answers · asked by lilshawtysh1509 2 in Singles & Dating

heeeheee!

2007-09-29 08:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by yasmin_2hot 1 in Singles & Dating

If I told you I was bi after we had been going together for several months, would you stay with me or get out of the relationship?

2007-09-29 08:58:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SOME COUPLE WHEN THEY GET MARRIED THEY PUT THEIR MONEY TOGETHER DO YOU THINK IT A GOOD IDEA.

OR YOU RATHER HAVE YOU MONEY AND HE HAS HIS MONEY AND YOU PUT MONEY TOGETHER TO PAY BILLS AND THE KIDS TOO BUT YOUR MONEY ARE SEPARATE.

2007-09-29 08:57:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 08:45:48 · 2 answers · asked by ladyotise2 1 in Family

Me and my broyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. The very first moment I saw him I knew he would change my life somehow. We were really good friends for about 4 months before we started dating. Since we have known each other a lot of drastic things have happened in my life that one would think he would leave me for, but he stood by me through every moment of it. He is always there for me when I need him. When I listen too my heart it tells me that he is the perfect guy for me and that I will never love someone as much as I love him. We started talking about getting married and have even set a date in about 8 months. He hasn't formally proposed, and states that at the one year mark he will make things definate. Either way we are still planning on getting married in May. Every part of me tells me that this is the best thing to happen to me and I am the luckiest girl in the world. I pretty much just want to know if you think that we are moving too fast or not.

2007-09-29 08:44:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The ex knows about the fiance and is trying to get my friend back from him. The fiance is a very nice man who recently lost his wife. He is spending tons of money on my friend (travel, jewelry, paying all her bills). The ex has no money and they divorced because of his cheating on her during 25 years of marriage. She can't decide who to choose and is shopping for houses with both. I feel really bad for the fiance and wonder if I should tell him what is going on?
My husband passed away 5 1/2 years ago after 40 yrs. of marriage. I am starting to finally want to be with someone again and wouldn't mind dating the fiance myself. By the way, we are all in our 60's.

2007-09-29 08:43:42 · 13 answers · asked by mariposapink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she has a 4 year old daughter which is nt mine,she was married to me forcefully by her parents,her boy friend also promised her acceptance bt he denied afterwards when she had no option she is nt leaving me too.now i m tired of streching this relationship.and want to give new start to my life by marrying the one i live since 3yrs.she is 9yrs younger to me and she knows every thing about my past ,then to she loves me,plz tell me if i marry her without taking divorce what will be the concequences,as 5 days back delhi high court has given decission in leading case NARENDRA KAUR V/S MANJIT SINGH second marriges will b considered and second wife will be liable of all the rights of first wife.PLEASE SUGGEST ME WHERE TO GO.....??????????
coz i can nt spoil her life at any cost coz we really love each other.

2007-09-29 08:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my hubby for 7 yrs. I have an 8yr old step daughter who we have had summer custody of since birth. I am no 8 months pregnant with our 1st child and now my step daughter feel lke she hates being home with her real mom b/c she has issues and my step daughters older sister gives her alot of grief. She refuses to go home and I ask why? She really didnt know how to do alot of things bc her mom never taught her anything really and b/t my hubby and my step daughter I just get frusterated and feel like I need a break from her bc she can be sooo frusterating and I feel like I'm backed into a corner but I have been around her her whole life really. Is it my hormones or what? I feel really bad about even thinking like that. I feel like I have to make up for her moms bad parenting and that for the majority of her life I have always been the one to do everything for her. I take her to museums and things like that and her mom wont bc she dont feel like and my hubby works alot.

2007-09-29 08:41:44 · 3 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family

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2007-09-29 08:40:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 08:40:13 · 21 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Weddings

Ok so this girl I have been dating has gone radio silent on me. Here's the back story. We only went out once before she had to go leave the state to visit her grandfather, who died last Sun while she was there. Although we have only been out once we have talked or chatted almost every day for the last month. Well, I haven't heard from her since Tuesday, which is uncharacteristic. I left her a few messages though. Should I be concerned?

2007-09-29 08:39:27 · 1 answers · asked by G 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are having a hard time sticking to our guest list limit. We have some really close friends who we want there, along with our family, but then we feel we get into, "well if we invite so and so, we probably should invite so and so".We really can afford to have a ton of extra guests, unless we went to more of a 'cake and punch' reception. Anyway...like I stated before, if I was invited to someone's wedding a couple years back, am I obligated to invite them to mine?

2007-09-29 08:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm dating a junior right now. I'm a freshmen in high school. He has a bad rep for being a big player, but everyone is so surprised because he normally doesnt date girls, just hook up with them. This week i found out he called this girl in his grade and asked her if she still wanted to hook up with him. She told me about it. Then there is a really cute kid who's a junior, he's the varsity football captain and he's extremely good looking; they both are. And we have been talking alot and he has told his friends he likes me... what do i do?

2007-09-29 08:38:07 · 2 answers · asked by Cara d. 2 in Singles & Dating

You know,

Like most guys I worry about improving my game.
For me, I have to market myself as someone that is exotic eventhough I'm Anglo in an Anglo country (USA),

Part of marketing is making something look more interesting by putting a "spin" on it.

I think I can make myself more exciting and attractive by making myself more of a Russian Blond...

Do you think I look like a Russian Blond?
Maybee it would help if my head was a little wider (typical of Russians) but in any case I wonder if I just pick up the Russian accent would that be good enought to pass myself of as Russian...

OK, it doesn't have to be perfect (at a club people are semi-intoxicated anyway.)

Tell me, by looking at my avatar don't I kind of look Russian.


Yeah yeah, I know “just be yourself blah blah blah”.

Well actually I am being EXACTLY myself; I’m being a guy that want to maximize his chances of getting laid with the best lookin girl.

Hey listen, I owe you ladies a lot for your consctructive answers, and when I’m “tappin’ dat azz” I’ll be owing it all to you, thank you so much.

And please, no vicious answers, (Remember ladies I’m doing all this cuz I love to entertain you and be a part of your lives,…loving you is the best part of life, really).

Take care.

2007-09-29 08:37:35 · 1 answers · asked by American Dreamer 1 in Friends

Can sum1 tell what the website is called, that u vote for songs and they go on trl?

2007-09-29 08:33:10 · 2 answers · asked by mini me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She is the mother of my granddaughter who I adore. She was backbitting her sister not wanting her sister to sleep over with her boyfriend because they live two hours away and the two couples would be going out to eat. My daughter said she didnt want to give her sister breakfast as it would cost her, she and her boyfriend make a good salary together. I told her that she was being disrespectful to her sister and cheap which she was. She is often rude and I am at a loss what to do. My other daughter would be destroyed if she knew her sister didnt want to feed her breakfast and have her sleep over.

2007-09-29 08:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-29 08:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by vehfranklin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is related to my earlier question.

My husband used his lawyer daughter who is the same age as I am, 28, to look up information about a man I was interested in seeing after I filed for divorce and moved out of the house.

His daughter came over, and I don't know if he convinced her, or she volunteered, but she used websites that law firms have access to in order to find out private informaiton/financial/divorce settlements of the person I was interested in seeing.

The issue is that his daughter works for her uncle's law firm, so even if she came to our house, used her passcode to the website, and let her father know the info, is it illegal? And if so, even if her uncle were the one handling the divorce, what could really be done about it? He used the informaiton as a weapon to make me come back to him.

2007-09-29 08:24:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. When I first met him he was going through a divorce and a custody battle. THe outcome was that he signed away his parental rights because he was in no position to pay child support. He did not see the kid or her mother for 7 years. Now the child and her mother comes to see him. I am having jealousy issues. What is up with this??? Someone please help explain. I am not there when they are there because I showed my but in front of the mother before and she wont stop if I am there

2007-09-29 08:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Family

i'm bored and curious what you thought of me. i'm 19, 6'2, brown hair, blue eyes, built, athletic, 185. tell me what you think and tell me about yourself if you wanna chat :)

2007-09-29 08:22:31 · 13 answers · asked by Brian S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 08:22:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend and and I used to date and I still really like him and he says he still likes me. But for some reason he says he can't go out with me. Everytime I try to talk this out w/ him on myspace we're always interupter by his friend who has his password and keeps telling my how ugly i m and that i should never talk to him again. But his friend pretends to be him and I can never really tell if it's him or his friend. Then the other day his friend deleted me on his myspace. How am I supposed to talk to him when he's homed schooled and i never get to see him except for like once every 2-3 weeks?

2007-09-29 08:20:27 · 3 answers · asked by peaceloverecycle 2 in Friends

Just wondering what others do ?

2007-09-29 08:19:47 · 29 answers · asked by Ski Freedom 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey girls, I was just wondering what happens on a typical romantic date with you and your man?

2007-09-29 08:18:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 08:18:16 · 15 answers · asked by LaToya W 1 in Singles & Dating

tips

2007-09-29 08:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by nicole c 1 in Singles & Dating