If I told you I was bi after we had been going together for several months, would you stay with me or get out of the relationship?
2007-09-29 08:58:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd support you finding happiness but its not good to be objectified - ie some men will think "i can use this to get threesomes" and then you become their fantasy and not someone "real" that is deserving of love
2007-09-30 13:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Spartacus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A solid kick to the curb here.
Then possibly a curb-stomp.
Then I would beat my chest like Tarzan and feel that I had done the world a great justice.
2007-09-29 16:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with you.
I have no problem if you want to play with women as long as you aren't playing with other men. Stupidly, perhaps, I don't see this as the same thing.
But yes, if the chance of a 3some was offered, I would grab that too.
2007-09-29 16:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's mature, it should only be an issue if you've cheated on him. After all, if you were only attracted to guys, he'd probably only have an issue if you were unfaithful. Just keep the lines of communication open.
2007-09-29 16:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by laura_e_perry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on the level of your tendencies toward women, if you like men and women the same (50% both), I'd leave you, but if you like women like 10% and men 90%, i'd stay.
2007-09-29 16:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cat Stevens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, I've wondered the same thing, I've just never told the guys that I've been with. So if they don't stay with you after you tell them than gimme a call....=)
2007-09-29 16:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by browneyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd stay. I'm open minded and would give it a fair shot. I would be very pissed at you for not letting me know from the start though. Very pissed.
2007-09-30 15:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on if I really loved you or not.
I told my husband I was bi when we met.
2007-09-29 16:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i liked u i would stay wit u but many guys all they want is a 3some n thats it well good luck
2007-09-29 16:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexual = 2 chicks at the same time!!!!
Rock on! Haha, J/k. Probably not.
2007-09-29 16:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋