Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

I am 29 years old..and i think my youth are going ..i am single ..what can i do to don't have regrect sense when i would be 60 years old..
older persons please ..
thank you..

2007-09-29 07:20:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so this is kind of a continuation of my last question...me & my boyfriend just broke up after about a year...he always wanted to stay together even when we couldn't see each other so it seemed like he was pretty dedicated...but he just broke up because I lied about something...should I still try to work it out or is there just no chance if he broke it off? I really want to make it work again but I don't want to bother him about if he really just doesn't like me at all anymore

2007-09-29 07:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by iheartperrier 1 in Singles & Dating

people these days give up on their marriages too quickly without going that extra mile to try to work things out?

2007-09-29 07:12:29 · 21 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here's the story...about a year ago my husband went on vacation back home without me. A friend of his introduced him to his girlfriend and her friend who's husband was deployed so she hung out with them a lot. I guess the couple this girl and my husband went out together on several occassions, which I wasn't a huge fan of. She then sent him a friend request on myspace and after he got home proceeded to email him a lot. I told him how much I didn't like it and it seemed weird that she got so 'friendly' after hanging out for like two weeks...he agreed and that was that. Then, just the other day I was taking a peek at my husband's myspace account and this chick had sent him an email out of nowhere (she hasn't been in touch with him for at least 6 months or so). The email, in my eyes, was incredibly inappropriate. She told him how she never ever has sex dreams, but had one starring him and she thanked him for putting a smile on her face all day and hoped that it made him smile too. Seriously?? Oh, and this girl is married. I'm pretty peeved about the email and was wondering what you guys think of the situation? I can't really say anything to my husband cause then it just looks like I was snooping in his myspace....bad I know....

2007-09-29 07:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by AHS429 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay.. I'm dating three guys (Not serious dating, just going out having fun.) It's so hard to find a good guy who "has it all". I'm dating one guy who isnt that attractive but he has a GREAT PERSONALITY, the other guy is drop dead gorgeous but is a jerk, the other guy is kind of has a sexy sexy body, and nice personality but is really stupid. Is it bad that im dating all three? (for about a month now)

2007-09-29 07:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by brittany7790 3 in Singles & Dating

we have a joint mortgage.What will happen when we divorce? Do we have to sell the house?

2007-09-29 07:05:01 · 14 answers · asked by mezzie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a marriage and the more I try the farther he pulls away. We bought a weight set to work out together, but he won't work out with me. He complains if I use the weights cause he can't remember what weight he had on the bar. We bought Golf glubs to play golf. I even went for golf lessons to be able to at least hit the ball. Now he won't even go drive balls with me. For our anniversary we bought a purebred German Shepard for showing and pet. Now, because the dog prefers me, I walk him, feed him, play with him, pet him, my husband won't have anything to do with him. So he gets another dog, now he won't have anything to do with her, because once again she prefers me. I walk her, feed her, play with her, groom her, he won't and has never done anything with her, except yell at her. He smokes an oz. of pot a week and I feel that thats his wife, his best friend. He will be 62 soon. Help! I don't know how to deal with this. Before u ask, no I don't do pot with him. Any ideas?

2007-09-29 07:00:43 · 4 answers · asked by suscarsct 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 06:47:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or would you disclose the matter and still respect that person even though they spread a bad message about you to other ppl...[imagine if the person was older than you]

2007-09-29 06:38:15 · 12 answers · asked by apple 5 in Family

He knows I dislike Jay Cutler the bodybuilder with a passion. So, while I was away from the office for a day he put a picture of Jay Cutler on my computer desktop background. He also taped a piece of paper with the word "Jay" on the Cutler Hammer electrical junction box in our laundry room. His pranks are more subtle but funny for the most part. And, no other person at my place of employment would notice such subtleties but they keep popping up all over the place.

2007-09-29 06:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 in Friends

*sighs*... i been with my husband since almost 5 years and married almost 2 years..i know him very good that not want cheat on me or anything he is very good person, but one thing if my mom is out with my husband to the store or anything that need her help i understand but every time she go with him i felt always funny i dont know? i m so confused myself cause i try to see their act they act normal, but i always get the funny feeling since. my mom is single but i know she like to have sex or anything cause she dont have date and does not have sex for long time im afraid for her go to my husband but i know my mom dont do that but i dont know? please help me.. is my tummy always right or is it could be wrong?.. need really BIG help! i cant stand my tummy feeling every time if they go out. and how do i found out if they really did something wrong how do i found out? please help me :(....

*please no rude comment*

2007-09-29 06:37:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hate the idea of going to acounseler i have been depressed for about 6 months and began cutting myself after my friends told me to try it i dont want to see a shrink i am finei think i am gonna run away

2007-09-29 06:31:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when you finally get alone your love is stonger then ever because of the restirctions. since you cant cuddle and stuff and then you find ways to get what you want like a kiss or a cuddle spontaniously once you get alone with him does the flame burn brighter then ever, once you get alone with the love of your life.

2007-09-29 06:23:35 · 2 answers · asked by jerseygirlprincess 3 in Singles & Dating

ok. my best friend,sarah, like this guy, abram, and well he doesn't like her.she really like him and she asked him out but nothing as a reply. so just few days ago a girl name Andrea asked him out and he said yes. andrea is sarah friend too but she kind of a b*tch. one day while i was walking home with sarah. abram and andrea was in front of us holding hand and once they got to their house they hug and kiss. sarah burst out laughing and went home. i know she was crying when she got home but what can i do to help her. she just won't let go and i told her that it must be a sign for her to move on!!!!

WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! i can see how she feel when she saw them. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-29 06:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by sweety84pie 3 in Friends

My daughter will be 2 in November and doesn't remember him actually last time she saw him she cried because he scared her. I want a divorce but can't find him. He ran to Oregon from California because he missed his felony charge court dates for holding an illegal substance. And is living in An R.V. they put out an APB for him in Oregon and in California. He hasn't payed any child support, and if they catch him he will go to prison for 2 years if not more for being a felon.

I have moved on with my life, I moved to New Jersey from California, because I met someone I am completely in love with that my daughter calls daddy. She loves him and we want to get married.

So I guess my question is this, how do I divorce him if I can't find him, so I can marry this wonderful man who loves me, and my daughter as if she was his own.

All I want is to be happy and rid of the past, please someone help me!!!!!!

2007-09-29 06:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by Tara S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my husband and I have been having issues for a year or so now and we had a really good talk and a getaway and worked things out. I've recently found out that he confided to a GIRL friend of mine absolutely everything that we were dealing with--details that I would never have wanted anyone to hear. I am so humiliated and since we live in a small town, I feel like everyone knows. He calls this girl his best friend and says that since I wouldn't be emotionally intimate with him, that he had to connect with someone. I don't trust him anymore. I'm embarassed. I feel like everyone knows. Am I overreacting? How do I let this go? What should I say to him? He's made me feel as if this is my fault.

2007-09-29 06:14:28 · 23 answers · asked by Leppard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if she doesnt have sex or anything sexual but sleeps over at guys house like cuddles with them or sleeps (JUST SLEEPS) on the same bed with them??

2007-09-29 06:10:47 · 11 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

hi... thanks for reading this... really need help... don't know what i should do now... okay, here goes. i'm a high school senior and i'm in love with the most beautiful girl in school. now, the both of us have been friends for almost 10 months now, and she knows that i like her. the first time i told her that i like her was easter sunday evening. i told her that i had feelings for her that were beyond a crush, and thankfully, she did not decide to end our friendship right there. now, here in the philippines, school starts june. a month after school starts (w/c is july), i finally told her that I love her. i also told her of the wonderful change that she has started in me when i met her, including finally breaking free from porn. now, there's another guy in school who's being linked to her, and she has a crush on this guy. now, i asked him if he also likes her, and he always tells me no. unfortunately, this guy's nos are unreliable. also, i kinda have this feeling of wanting to punch

2007-09-29 06:06:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 06:06:25 · 3 answers · asked by justmixxxit 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 22 im 21 and I have a son from a previous relationship. wen we 1st got 2gether he said he didn’t wont 2 rush things he wonted 2get 2 no me b4 we moved things in to the bedroom. a few times we got close 2 sleeping 2gether but on these occasions he would say he needed the loo or do something 2 stop it going any further. our 1st time he was shaking all over and was as white as a sheet. and 2 b honest he doesn’t no anything about wot a woman wants in the bedroom or the way 2 do things, in all respects he's a beginner.
but this is the confusing thing! he was in the army 4 5yrs and is full of story’s about the girls he had in this time.
but I think allot of the time if not all the time he is telling me something he has herd and not something he has done. allot of mutual friends think he is story telling 2!!!
wot do u think?
and how should I tell him about the story’s? because he’s becoming a bit of a joke with his m8s and work colleagues because no1 believes him any more

2007-09-29 06:01:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 05:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by ~Charity~ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I said I should not have used that word. How big of an issue would it be with you. (for one of my parents its a big deal)

2007-09-29 05:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by Love the west 4 in Friends

I'm 16 right now. Lately, my mom has been dating another guy. (she's divorced) I didn't think about it much at first until one day, he slept over at our house. That night, I went to use the toilet and on my way, I saw my mom's door opened and peeped. I was shocked when I saw him having sex with my mom. Ever since, I've always had sexual fantasies about my mom. I've even peeped in when she was bathing. I really need some help. I just can't help it. I have to admit she is quite hot for a forty-something. Its affecting my grades recently too. I'm afraid one day I'll just force myself on to her. >_>

2007-09-29 05:56:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

wel, my bf broke up wid me 4 mos ago. a while ago he is online in YM, and he chats wit me, and i admit that i still love him so much til know!. but he changed his status to "im falling for sum1 new" and a SAD SMILEY. but his display pic is OUR picture, the TWO OF US! im so BROKEN inside!! i dont know what to do!! =(( please. i cant understand him!



why is it there is a sad smiley?

and btw, these days, he keeps calling me on the fone and he is hugging me, and there is a time when he said "i love you" on the fone.. i really cant understand him. i am not xur if he really loves me!! =((

2007-09-29 05:50:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just need some advice. I am 22. I lost my Mom last year. I didn't have time to grieve as I had to quickly pack up all of my stuff as well as my mothers, move out, find a home for our German Shepherd and move into my Grandmother's. My Grandmother got sick shortly after, so I had to try the best I could to help her and put my mental needs aside. It is now a little over a year later, I got myself back into college, started working, and am set to graduate with my A.A. in December with plans to pursue my B.A and M.A. But, i'm falling deeper and deeper into depression. I have no health insurance, and i'm just struggling with this anguish alone. The grief and guilt are destroying me. I just don't know how much longer I can take living like this. Is or has anyone out there lost a parent or have gone through a situation similar? I just don't know where to turn anymore. Thank you to anyone who takes the time to write.

2007-09-29 05:49:32 · 9 answers · asked by N 3 in Family

In my divorce aggreement, it states the wife gets 25% of my annuall base income. AND 25% of any bonuses. I dont get bonuses with this company but I do get commision checks once a month. Do I have to give her 25% of my commisions? I have been in the past but I just re-read my agreement and noticed it never states commisions anywhere. What do you all think I should do?

2007-09-29 05:45:11 · 7 answers · asked by steelerzquest 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 best friends. One is a guy, and the other is a girl. I had a slambook with both of them in it, but then I made a separate slambook with just the girl, because we had personal girl stuff to talk about in it.

(Our slambooks aren't like traditional slambooks where you talk bad about others. We jus write notes back and forth. it is like a collection of letters.)

But he is jealous because he isn't in the other slambook, and is being nosy and is trying to find out what we write in it.

I asked him if he would get mad if I continued the slambook with the other girl, and he sed so long as he knows what is in it, he doesn't care.

But that defeats the purpose of having the slambook! He is just trying to be nosy and find out what we are talking about when it has nothing to do with him. His excuse is we shouldn't be keeping secrets from him, but he is just being NOSY!

How can I get him to get over himself without making me seem like the bad person?

2007-09-29 05:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by . 4 in Friends

My question is this... according to most religion, marriage is a holy union between those two people and God. If you are a secular person and do not necessarily believe in God will the marriage be harder to hold together because you dont have to respect God. If you want to get a divorce you can much easier because you have no regard for God. I know people get divorces all the time even when they made a holy union with God but it seems as though if the marriage was falling apart they could fix it keeping in mind that God brought them together and wants them to stay together. In a secular marriage they dont have this to pull them through. Would divorce be more likely at this point once the couple has decided they dont like each other anymore? What are your thoughts? Is secular marriage unholy so to speak and as a result more difficult to keep together in times of crisis?

2007-09-29 05:35:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 yrs old(teacher) and have been married to my husband who is 33 yrs old(airforce) about 2.5 yrs now finally divorcing.I have a daughter who is 4 yrs old from a previous relationship with an ex.bf and my husband has a 14 yr old son from from a previous marriage his moms in jail for drugs.My step-son has posters with nazi symbols and hate messages about blacks,jews,mexican(wet backs)and gays and keeps getting into fights at school with black kids.My daughter had a pet hamster that my step son killed to make her cry and on another occasion he put my daughter in the dogs cage.He sneaks out and cuts school.His father is in Germany but when he's home he only defends his son saying its a phase and blaims me or anyone else for any problem.I have tried everything even therapy.My step son has shoved me to the ground and choked me yet his dads family refused to allow police involvment saying they would back my stepson.Last straw was when ...

2007-09-29 05:31:31 · 23 answers · asked by Jaclyn B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just like to know if anyone uses anything else that really tickles or something that drives your mate crazy.......ladies where are you the most ticklish?

2007-09-29 05:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating