I have 2 best friends. One is a guy, and the other is a girl. I had a slambook with both of them in it, but then I made a separate slambook with just the girl, because we had personal girl stuff to talk about in it.
(Our slambooks aren't like traditional slambooks where you talk bad about others. We jus write notes back and forth. it is like a collection of letters.)
But he is jealous because he isn't in the other slambook, and is being nosy and is trying to find out what we write in it.
I asked him if he would get mad if I continued the slambook with the other girl, and he sed so long as he knows what is in it, he doesn't care.
But that defeats the purpose of having the slambook! He is just trying to be nosy and find out what we are talking about when it has nothing to do with him. His excuse is we shouldn't be keeping secrets from him, but he is just being NOSY!
How can I get him to get over himself without making me seem like the bad person?
2007-09-29 05:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont tell him ur writing these stuff. tell him u threw it away. then ask ur gf to come to ur house so he wouldnt kno
2007-09-29 05:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by babyandme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it were reversed and the two of them had a slambook then wouldn't you be dieing to know what is in it?
You could tell him you've decided to just cool it with slambooks for a while since they are stressing you out. Then gradually bring back the slambook with your other friend but without him knowing it.
2007-09-29 12:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by joni38 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im not gonna lie, i would be curious too, but just say its got girly stuff in it that you would rather speak to ur Girl-mate about.
And - THEY R KIDS SO THEY CAN WRITE NOTES! end!
2007-09-30 07:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by EmoClaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the person in a most polite manner if possible to let him know.... if u dun1 2 make him feel awkward abt it try to give him some advice to change his weaknesses to make him a better person.. i hope he'll undersand..
2007-09-29 12:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i read this but i dnt no wat a slambook is?? can u explain plz? then i will answer ur question! lol
2007-09-29 12:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a crush on one of you, and it drives him nuts to not know what you're writing!
2007-09-29 12:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to get lost!
2007-09-29 12:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sleuth! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh YOU need to get over YOURSELF. If he was really your best friend, you wouldn't be keeping secrets from him.
2007-09-29 12:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
STOP WRITTING NOTES LIKE CHILDREN!!! end
2007-09-29 12:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dixie Darlin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋