Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

My mom and sister live together. My sister refuses to work and my mom allows this. They are both very irresponsible with money. I have heard bill collectors on their answering machine while I am on the phone with my mother. I am married and pregnant, and I live over 1 hour away. And I cannot stop thinking that eventually, I am going to have to clean up their messes as well. I cannot afford to help, and I have made this known. Yet they continue their destructive path of being scofflaws. My mother receives money, but spends way above her means (even after I had offered to help her better delegate her money). As I said my sister refuses to work. I dont want this to affect my pregnancy, but I cant stop worrying. What should I tell them?

2007-09-29 08:17:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my friend went out w/ this guy thts known for havin sex w/ people and tht being the only thing he wants. but besides tht she went out w/ him and didnt even tell me. i found out from my sister. should i b mad? should i pretend like i dont no? should i do it back 2 her?

2007-09-29 08:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by a 3 in Friends

i am moving 2 a new house from an apartment...i am really upset about having 2 move
positives
it has 4 rooms
1 4 my parents
3 4 me n my sisters

huge yard
enough 4 that dog ive always wanted

negatives
big house lonely me
only me and my paents
my sis getting married
other 1 in coolege at uoi
I HAVE 2 LEAVE MY GANG OF FRNZ (7 GIRLS) THAT IVE KNOW SINCE 2ND GRADE..8TH NOW
I DONT WANNA LEAVE MY FRNZ...

what shud i do...i wud trade that house 4 my frnz any day...we got the house and we sold the apt.....moving in novem...nthng i cud do now...really depressed...i have things 2 do...but cant bring myself 2 do them...feel mad frustratred and sriupd...how can i make my self do the things i have 2 do and make myself feel better?

2007-09-29 08:13:08 · 6 answers · asked by lincypanickerqt 2 in Friends

The song is Dancing by Elisa. If you never heard of it, you can hear it hear: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VfgjYTIARrw

(the lyrics are here: http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=144488
Anyway my question is what does the song mean. I think if I'm correct it means someone leaving someone they love behind.

Im not sure if it meant like a boy leaving a girl or girl leaving a boy or just in general.

2007-09-29 08:11:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like a guy the last 2 weeks but i'm a really shy person and i can't even talk to him.A friend of me wants to introduce me to him.but i can't i always turn red with that things.Help pls i don't want to lose him....Another thing is that i've never kissed with tongue before.how i can do this thing anyway..?

2007-09-29 08:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy through friends, and chatted online, then met up last nite with friends. and we danced together all night and we made out. then today we met and he was all nice all day, holding hands and hugging and made out at the end of the day. but i have only known him two days... will he ask me out soon?
age 16

2007-09-29 08:10:03 · 11 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so there's this popularity fad that's dangerous. I'm in 6th grade by the way. You see, the popularity fad is slashing your own wrists. in other words, being an emo. i know of at least 7 people out of 19 who's done it. i go to a private school and there's only one class per grade so my grade. i've done it too, because well, i wanted to be part of the fad and now i can't stop doing it. but anyway, should i keep slashing my wrists and how do i stop?

2007-09-29 08:06:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend moved to visalia and i live in porterville and i really like him and lately he hasnt been calling me like the last time he called me was 2 days ago and it makes me sad whenever were together he'll tell me alot of luvey dovey stuff and he'll hold me tight and be kissing me and if a guy looks at me or i talk 2 a friend he gets all jealious and it makes me wonder how come lately he hasnt been calliing me could he be cheating on me?? how could i tell?? what should i do??

2007-09-29 08:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

they ordered pizza for tonight, my sister made cake and our fridge is full of chokolates and sweets. Why don't they help me?
they say don't need to loose weight but i tink i have...and they don't help me.. what should i say to them..?


oh...i am 5'6'' and 130 pounds...please help..

2007-09-29 08:01:14 · 8 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Family

Because i bought myself the ring yesterday.... and im part irish... and i know the traditions and meanings behind it... so im gonna wear it with the heart facing me... because im in a true love relationship... and i may be only 17 but i know what i feel with my boyfriend... so nobode say anything about that... just can you trll me what it would mean to my boyfriend or anybody that i bought nyself the promise ring... thanx

2007-09-29 08:00:16 · 8 answers · asked by ♫♪Expecting #1!! ♫♪ :} ♥june 15, 2011♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Please if you know a song or songs that are around 5 min. long please let me know..thanks..

2007-09-29 07:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by chriswh90 2 in Weddings

I purchased a house from LDA in my wifes name in 2002 worth 7 laks, i took 4 laks loan from icici bank ,where my wife is a co applicant .present cost of the house is more than 30 laks ,the all dues of housing development is paid only the registration of the house is not done. i paid the EMIs till june 2006 to the bank through my salary cheq , my wife left me two years ago and i am living with my daughter of 8 years old .i have till date not filed any case in the court ,only application to the local police station ,and the sp is given.
On visiting the government developments authority ,they say that the registry will be done in both the names i.e. in husband wifes names ,i have come to know that she is trying to bribe the officials heavily to get the property registered in her name,she was a non working women.
1. can i get my property back.
2.can she get the property registered in her name.
3.will the bank penalize the co applicant ,how?
4. how to deal the bank calls/muscleman.

2007-09-29 07:57:30 · 5 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 07:56:06 · 38 answers · asked by 1healthyman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to. im 5 weeks and 1 day and only a couple people in my family knoes. I live with my grandparents and my pap is really strick and idk how to tell me ...PLZZ i need help

2007-09-29 07:54:51 · 12 answers · asked by brianna g 1 in Singles & Dating

Well about 2 years ago when I was 5'7" I liked taller girls...like at least 2 inches taller. Then this phase sort of subsided and I was back to normal. Now it's coming back again. I'm 5'11" and lately, I've been attracted (like gf material attracted) to girls at least my height...i don't know why? Don't get me wrong, I think shorter girls are hella sexy too, but I want to date a taller girl than me. Maybe because I was shorter before the feeling stuck with me? So what is your remedy? Do you think girls taller than me would give me a chance?

2007-09-29 07:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by Chris720 2 in Singles & Dating

im feeling very overwhelmend.....about ready to cry. we are moving to our old neck of the woods but we have been in our house for 9 years.......im.......kinda......... sad and happy but feeeling more sad now.....we need all the prayers we can get.......for safety and for the children 10 and 8 to adjust well....thanks again

2007-09-29 07:53:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I could go far to into things. I'll be breif. I was suspect of infidelity but chose to not accept this. Realizing now it would have been better to bring it out in the open and deal with the lies and wrong. My wife left - abruptly- has not spoke with me and took my children away. i am allowed to see them every other week for three hours. I am sad and lonely of not my own accord -although owning 50% of the end product. I want to start over, be me and with another but , one thing. I still love my ex? dearly and would do anything for what was. I know its time to move on but ,I was with her for almost twenty ( 18 very good although difficult ) years. I am having trouble not talking or concluding anything. kinda vague but my heart doesnt have it to be remorseful/angry. Thank you peace allways

2007-09-29 07:45:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dotn like him.
but i dont want to hurt him and say no to him.
but yeah
theres no way that im gonig out with him.
how do i say no in a nice way?

2007-09-29 07:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 07:41:14 · 5 answers · asked by roger 1 in Singles & Dating

women who go to clubs all not looking for anything more than a one night stand?

2007-09-29 07:40:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't gotten anything for him yet or even what your suppose to give for the first anniversary? Any suggestions... Oh and I don't have a lot of money to work with here.

2007-09-29 07:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by sunflower0139 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 07:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by dinky d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

come on be honest , how many of you have days when you feel you would be better on your own?

2007-09-29 07:37:25 · 17 answers · asked by mum of 2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 07:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by pepperbug25 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together 8 years, last three of which have been spent with him in or recovering from chemotherapy treatments. I have been supportive and put my needs on the back-burner for the most part. Our sex life obviously has not been great these last three years, even though we're in our late 20's, due to the effects of his chemotherapy on his sex drive. I found out yesterday he has been masterbating to online porn. I am hurt and saddened by his confession. If we had a fullfilling sex life I would not mind him satisfying himself....but I am the one left frequently unsatisfied. (Don't get me wrong, when we do have sex it is great, we just don't do it very often.) I am ready willing and able to have sex almost anytime, anywhere. I feel like I've put my needs on hold these last few years and now that's he's back and able to get back in the game, I find out he's turning his sexual desires (which I thought were not here) to porn. Am I irrational to feel hurt by this?

2007-09-29 07:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by jd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do u think its hilarious if a guy with my height dating with a short girl?

2007-09-29 07:29:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has a very attractive assistant with whom he works closely for at least 10 to 13 hours a day. Since they work similar hours, according to my husband, they are socializing together after work and on weekends. They often drive each other home after a long day and pick each other up first thing in the morning. I am very angry by his refusal to see how this is threatening our marriage. He says he likes woman companionship, he is doing nothing wrong, and I should deal with my issues. I am not accusing him of having sex with her...but he is developing an intimacy that supercedes our marriage. Because he is so stressed, I get literally 5 min. a day to fill him in on the kids and other issues at home. He just repeats that he has done nothing wrong and he needs to go out after a long grueling day and she does too. I feel like hanging up the towel as I am hurt to the core. How can he not see that he is recreating a marriage for himself away, and made me his assistant at home?

2007-09-29 07:25:51 · 17 answers · asked by Barbara T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 07:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by aaabbb.1970 1 in Marriage & Divorce

17 years have made many false accusations that have made me and her unhappy and no longer sleeps ,talks kiss's or says hello or good bye ? She refuses help

2007-09-29 07:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by SCOTTYO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can't say i've met any real "good" ppl. i am realizing that my tough experiences have made me really angry inside; i feel bitter towards the ppl who hurt me and the feeling lingers on inside me. when **** happened, i stood up for myself, but i am still angry inside bcoz of the principal of the situation. i don't feel it's about forgiveness bcoz these ppl did what they did and they did it repeatedly and it's just a reflection of who they are.
i write in my diary, but it's not helping.
i really wanna be free of the bad feelings i have inside me bcoz of my tough experiences...how can i get rid of them?

2007-09-29 07:24:23 · 2 answers · asked by curioussoul81 1 in Other - Family & Relationships