Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

Alright, so my friend Justin is best friends with a girl - lets call her Claire - and 3 months ago, she began dating Justin's best friend Josh because she loved him secretly for a long time. She loved Josh, and he loved her, but one month into the relationship she realized that she loved Justin too. She thought about it for weeks, and then broke up with Josh for Justin. They've been together for a month now, and Claire continues to try and develope a friendship with Josh again, but he's obviously feeling hostility toward her for what she did to him, however Justin and Josh's friendship are still okay. Claire admitted to Josh recently that she's still in love with him, but won't act on it. Josh still loves her as well and told her so, but she's pushing for a friendship. What he would like to know is if he should stop talking to her all together, or try and be friends with her.
Thanks.

2007-09-29 05:22:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 and going through major growing pains.... I have gotton bad news from a person I love and am learning how to truely forgive for the first time in my life. Please give me suggestions on how to start a future without dwelling on the past. How do I put images of the past out of my head so I have a chance at the future?

2007-09-29 05:22:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I live together. We have agreed that we are both unhappy. He has cheated on me and I have finally decided not to try and work things out anymore. My problem is I need a place to live that I can afford with my children and all the other expenses I will take on. Do you have any suggestions where I can start?

2007-09-29 05:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by dimples 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 05:17:05 · 24 answers · asked by Paul A 2 in Singles & Dating

READ BEFORE YOU ANSWER::8 months ago I started dating a beautiful & intelligent woman whom I fell hard for.2weeks ago my g/friend(Kate) & I went home & striaght to my bedroom & locked the door.In the Mist of our love-making my Son spoke "Dad I can't open the door".Kate jump off & quickly covered us.I pulled myself together & let him out.

Firstly I was not expecting my son home Bc my wife was to pick him up 2 hrs ealier.Secondly the babysitter was home & she should ve known my son's whereabouts.Apparently my son fell asleep under my bed & we locked him in.

He told my "ex-wife to be"what he saw? She telling my Son to call Kate(whose black) a "N"

We been separated for 2 yrs(our divorce will be final in 3 months,it has taken long to divorce bcos we coundn't agree on how to divide our assets).I don't ve any feelings for my wife(EX-wife to be)at all.The reason she's still in my life is bcos we share a bond;our son.She slept with the landscaper&bought him stuff with my money.

2007-09-29 05:04:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 26, he always prioritise his mates..
just like now, he just got back from new zealand for 14days with 4 of his mates snow boarding, instead of heading straight here in hobart to see me he rather to saty in melbourne for a day cause he wants to catch up wit the rest o the boys.. we dont leave together and he leaves in adelaide to study, we only see each other in like every 4-5weeks. for my oppinion, i am upset cause he'd rather to stay with his mates and catch up instead of coming down here to see me, rgardlessly that we only got three days to spend together and now its only two, i feel un important and not considered priority, i know his mates were than me, but he lready spend the whole holiday withthem. how inconsiderate!

2007-09-29 05:03:30 · 2 answers · asked by just me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-29 04:58:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wasn't invited as I became aquainted with this person, long after the wedding guest list was set up. However, I was aware of the wedding, the date, even met her fiance. Thing is she moved to Washington the day after the wedding. I didn't have a chance to stop by and congratulate or see her off. I did email her and congratulate her...and commented her on the wedding photos. I got her address now, I was wondering is it tacky to send a gift & congrates card 1 month after the big day. She knows I have a hectic schedual with work and family, so I haven't got to mail the package off yet.
Should I still mail it out or should I just leave it at the email congrats?

2007-09-29 04:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-29 04:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by maree2007hamill 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my brother in law moved in with my husband and me 5 months ago-well my husband and I have since split up, but my brother in law is still living with me and we kinda have a relationship going. I won't tell his family cause I don't want them thinking that he is the reason his brother and I split-which he's not(his brother was verbally abusive-ignored me and his 2 kids and I had enough). The brother in law does things with me AND the kids and says he loves me and doesn't care what other people think. Am I crazy to pursue this ?? Does it sound like I just "traded up"??

2007-09-29 04:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we want to marry@the courthouse,take formal wedding pictures on sunday and have the reception immediately after.i was told the ceremony/reception was the gift to the guest.

2007-09-29 04:47:19 · 12 answers · asked by moneak29 1 in Weddings

Recently my g/f and I broke up and she hired a lawyer the very next day to claim common law marriage and state that half of my inheritance is hers. We were together for 6 years and within the last year was given the inheritance. I'm not sure she can, I live in California, and I came to the realization of her being a materalistic person and greedy... so I dumped her.

2007-09-29 04:46:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey! I'm a 21 year old girl and i need to make some friends. I don't socialize as i'm very shy and so have no friends.
If anyone out there who is genuine wants to be friends contact me please.

2007-09-29 04:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or any other method - I would like to go and see someone that can read my future, but is it a load of waffle at the end of the day. Experiences please x

2007-09-29 04:44:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to have a reasonably good job and had a salary close to 100K during my divorce. I lost my job 6 months after the divorce and I have to pay child support of $850. She "agreed" in changing CS to $ 550 (we have 50% custody of 1 daughter 5yo). In the last 4 months (while I job hunt and work part time) I have been making less than her. What should I do? I know I should find an ok job in 3 or 4 months but it just makes me crazy to have to pay CS+insurance and make less than her. Do you have any recommendations? Thank you!

2007-09-29 04:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i asked her to meary me n she sead yes but she just quit wonting sex wad dos that mean

2007-09-29 04:37:20 · 2 answers · asked by chevy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm with a great Greek guy...and he's wonderful in bed :-) We have great chemestry together, and are always willing to try new things. But for some reason I can't have an orgasm during sex. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I try to relax, in fact he turns me on big time. He even waits for me to climax....or he tries. I know it's me because even in my past relationships I have never been able to reach orgasm. I feel like I don't know my own body- and this is getting me very confused and frustrated.

2007-09-29 04:36:08 · 18 answers · asked by Morenita 2 in Singles & Dating

hi im kim and 13 yrs old. i have a vey big fam and out of all my female cousins im the suposedly girly big sis who is popular in school and has a lot of freinds stuff like that so all my lil cousins look up to me. the truth is im not really like that i have friends but i dont really have one to call my best friend the last time i had a best friend she moved in 7th grade. i tried siting with the popular girls last year but we never talked and i felt like a nobody even at school dances i hang out with my friend but they have all kown each other since 3rd grade and i just became their friends last yr so their so familiar with eachother they sing in front of eachother, dance in front of eachother but i really cant feel all that confortable...i mean i havnt had a sleep over in 2 yrs! plz help me become more popular, and look prettier all of my friends are pretty and popular im the out cast...i mean i can never get a guy to like me is there anyway to make one fall 4 you. huh plzzz help me!

2007-09-29 04:35:04 · 4 answers · asked by Kim K 1 in Friends

2007-09-29 04:33:31 · 18 answers · asked by GREGORY M 1 in Singles & Dating

Would this vow be more appropriate instead of making a vow before god to be together till death and then divorceing each other a few months or few years later for whatever reason ?

2007-09-29 04:33:31 · 20 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

things that excite them.

2007-09-29 04:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been mean lately and I'm being nice again but I made her so mad. What are some nice ways to make it up to her and make her feel loved enough again.

No I did'nr cheat or anything but there was an incedent that looked like something it was'nt.

Anyway I love her more than anything and I had a phase where I was a Grade A a s s hole.

What would you suggest I do to bring that love back like when we first got married?

I love her so much, we have 2 kids and I want to be with her forever, she is so sexy and a great wife. I just made some mistakes and took her for granted but I love her and I can't live without her.

2007-09-29 04:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend has cheated on me.... shes out with another guy....they're both chatting online.... almost everyday.... i want to see what they're chatting about. Can u please tell me how to hack and find her password? i know it sounds illegal but i wont missuse it.... please help me..

2007-09-29 04:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I babysit every Saturday night for a little boy named Brandon. His dad always makes sure Brandon's asleep and then he always gets me down to the basement. Then he flirts with me, and then he starts touching me and I totally fall for him. I love having sex with him.

But I've been feeling kinda bad about it lately because I just met his wife and she's so nice!

Should I keep having sex with him?

If not, what do I tell him?

2007-09-29 04:22:03 · 19 answers · asked by clarissa 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have will have been together 2 years this Christmas. We're 19 and 21. It's always been an open discussion that we DO want to get married. But our idea has always been to get married when we finish college. This will take at the LEAST 2 years for both of us to be finished. We live together and have a cat together and pretty much act like we are married. I've been seriously considering getting married earlier than after school... like next summer. I've thought about it a lot. I asked him if he has ever thought about it, he said he has, but always decides against it because he is not ready, we cant afford it and don't have time due to school. i told him that i know we can afford it (we honestly can) and if we do it in the summer, we would have plenty of time. He still says he is just not ready. I don't get it! We LIVE together! Whats the difference in doing what we do now, and getting married?? He ACTS like he is ready, but says he is not. And we are 100% happy. Help?

2007-09-29 04:17:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well one of them I hate, and he hates me, started grinding me, and the other one I used to like but I havent liked in a while started grinding me to. what is there problem?

2007-09-29 04:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by Im pretty awesome 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 04:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when he comes 2 the house 2 see her they go into her room and watch dvds with the door closed how can i make sure that he is not u 2 anything with her

2007-09-29 04:02:04 · 52 answers · asked by suzywong 4 in Family

In fact, I manage to keep myself occupied n independant. Does this mean I dont love him as much?

2007-09-29 03:59:44 · 17 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

can you buy love?

2007-09-29 03:57:01 · 10 answers · asked by slugger 3 in Other - Family & Relationships