I've been mean lately and I'm being nice again but I made her so mad. What are some nice ways to make it up to her and make her feel loved enough again.
No I did'nr cheat or anything but there was an incedent that looked like something it was'nt.
Anyway I love her more than anything and I had a phase where I was a Grade A a s s hole.
What would you suggest I do to bring that love back like when we first got married?
I love her so much, we have 2 kids and I want to be with her forever, she is so sexy and a great wife. I just made some mistakes and took her for granted but I love her and I can't live without her.
2007-09-29 04:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well we all do dumb thinking. Ever time you see her tell how much you appreciate her. Tell her how much of a dumb *** you were. Flowers card saying I'm sorry dinner out. A big hug.
But remember. You meas up again she has the right to take a 2x4 and hit you over the head. You sound like you have a good woman. Be good to her they are hard to find
2007-09-29 04:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by tadm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, very sincere and sweet of you to want to do that. I can give you some tips for now but I will also give you the name of a book that can help you understand more in depth what she really needs from you and it also might help u to understand what you were going through and it will also totally strengthen your marriage my husband and I have read it and applied the knowledge in it and to be honest we do feel newly married. The name of the book is Love and Respect by Emmerson Eggrich you can buy the cd's online at loveandrespect.com there is also a partner book for this one called Cracking the Communication Code. So for now the best thing you can do is be open and honest about how you feel. Do those little things you did for her when you were dateing like calling at lunch and on breaks just to say " I love you" and buying her a card just to say " I love you" anything sweet that you have to go a little out of your way to do will make her feel like you care. Write her a letter about all the things you love about her and all the things you appreciate that she does for you. Good Luck
2007-09-29 11:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a babysitter tonight. Find a pretty restaraunt and one that is different, and take her out to dinner and no arguement just talk with her, be silly, have some fun. Than do something with the family tomorrow. Such as zoo, or an amusement park. Remember kids feel something is wrong even if they don't know about it. Just make her a card and ask her to go to dinner and that your sorry for how you acted. Tell her exactully what you told us. Good luck =)
2007-09-29 04:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by SSS 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you sound a lot like my boyfiend!! He made a mistake too (probably bigger then yours!He tried to **** our neighboor!).....but my point is is that you realise that you've upset her, and you also realise just how much she means to you and can't live withhout her. You and your wife are going to be okay...cause you still care.....you're concerned enough to post this question online. All you need to do now is always admit to guilt when you are wrong, go out of your way to make her feel like she's your whole world (call her from work everyday, buy her flowers, do the things that she's always asked for, etc), and just tell her all the nice things that you shared with us...you sound really sweet...good luck!!
2007-09-29 04:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone is in entitled to one mistake!! All I can say is just talk to her and tell her what u told us, spend more time with her and the kids, just go up and hug or kiss her for no reason and let her know how much u love, and respect her...
2007-09-29 11:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you realize that you were a jerk and that you are sorry and that you want to make it up to her. Don't give flowers........that is the easy way out and they will die. Let your actions speak for you.
DATE HER.............arrange for a sitter and plan a date, no matter if it is for a couple of hours or a weekend. YOU PLAN EVERYTHING..............let it be something that you can do as a couple, not just something that YOU would like to do.
Let her know by your actions that she is your life and your love and she'll come around.
2007-09-29 04:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be humble as long as it takes for her to understand your sincerity. What ever you do to get back in her good graces make sure you can maintain it for the rest of your life, don't backslide on love. Make sure your totaly open to ease her mind. Your email your phone your conversations, make sure everything that is yours is hers.
Love her, love will fix everything. Use what you know, and feel. Your thoughts and feelings can't be hidden, so make sure your body language is telling her everything she needs to know. Eye contact lots of eye contact, and take it like a man. Whatever pain you've given her, take it all back like a man, cause she's gonna give it to you.
2007-09-29 04:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by MessieJessie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This calls for you not her, to get rid of the kids for a day! Set up a candle light dinner at the Inn of the Dove or some great hotel and make it a night to remember and a night she'll never forget!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-29 04:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get someone to watch the kids and take her out on dates to her favorite places. Post notes around the house and under her pillow telling her how much she means to you.
2007-09-29 04:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How sweet you are.. just prove to her that you love her. you can't tell her that enough in day. i am a woman and we love for our man to tell us how they truly feel about us.you can go to a pharmacy and spend sometime just looking through their cards, find the one that truly says what you feel for her.. i know when my birthday or anniversary comes up he asks me what i want for a gift. i just tell him to buy me a sweet card and write something sweet in it..
2007-09-29 04:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋