we want to marry@the courthouse,take formal wedding pictures on sunday and have the reception immediately after.i was told the ceremony/reception was the gift to the guest.
2007-09-29 04:47:19 · 12 answers · asked by moneak29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's fine to have a private ceremony and then invite friends/family to celebrate your marriage at a reception, even on a different day if you want. There is no rule that says you have to have everyone present at the ceremony. Many people do this, for example, if they get married in one place and many of their family and relations live somewhere far away, they go there and just have a reception to celebrate with those people. But where you live doesn't have to be a factor.
2007-09-29 04:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I love going to the wedding, too! But what you describe is not uncommon. Some people just want a private ceremony, and their guests at the reception totally understand that. Think of the reception as a party you host to celebrate your marriage.
2007-09-29 04:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reception is a party to celebrate the joy in the union of the newlyweds. You have had a wedding if you have a civil ceremony so it is perfectly fine for you to have a reception if you want to do so. Congratulations
2007-09-29 07:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a wonderfully modern way to save money and still allow everyone to celebrate the union with the new bride and groom. However be aware that close minded people are inclined to think since they wrent invited to the ceremony they wont attend the reception. If you prepare for this possible occurrence then you wont be as disappointed when some people choose not to attend. I understand financial difficulties so I would not be offended
2007-09-29 07:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by galixcysmagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. A reception to celebrate your marriage is just fine - a big party for family and friends. However, no doubt some people will argue that you don't get a present because they were not invited to the ceremony. Ignore it - you didn't get married for the presents. It's the LOVE!!!!
Congratulations.
2007-09-29 04:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lilea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly common to have a small, intimate, even just a courthouse ceremony and have an awesome party/reception to celebrate your new lives together.
It's your personal choice. I say do what you want to do.
good luck and congratulations!
2007-09-29 07:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bull. Its not their wedding its yours! I know lots of people who elope and then have a reception to celebrate with their friends and family. This is your day and do whatever you want. Im sure no one would be upset at you for doing it your way. Although parents and close family might want to be at the courthouse.
2007-09-29 04:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happens alot!!! We were married at an Arboretum (outside) just for the pics and had a huge reception.
2007-09-29 07:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by andreaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had several cousins have small private weddings for just close family and then have a reception / dance for all the friends and relatives -- seems to work out fine -- its a more relaxed fun time for all
2007-09-29 04:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by deere535 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean no wedding? The wedding is the bit where you say your vows, whether that be in church, in the court house, in Vegas etc, it is still your wedding.
2007-09-30 22:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋