Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

2007-09-29 10:21:40 · 24 answers · asked by lovelylady 5 in Weddings

I have chased girls that play hard to get, and been called a stalker by girls. You girls have acted the same why both times. So at what point is it satlking compared to playing your game of chase?

2007-09-29 10:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

i have medium long dark brown hair and pretty green eyes. i'm a little short and average size. i don't "dress up" unless it's for work or a special occasion. i dress fairly conservatively with nice sweaters or tops and nice jeans and flip flops or nice shoes. how can i do my makeup, hair and clothes to make a guy really like my appearance?

2007-09-29 10:19:00 · 1 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, Erm i dont know how to put this but, one of my freinds died last week in a car-crash, It was his 16th birthday as well.. which made it worst... I want to get his family a little gift, as a sign as sorry almost, is that a good idea? and what should it be??

2007-09-29 10:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

here's the deal. my wife was very insecure. anything i said about anybody like for example we were watching a movie and i said "they should have had the other acrtress play the roll i think she's more attractive" my wife freaked over stuff like that. it was just innocent stuff like that. i told her all the time she was the love of my life, did little romantic things for her. nothing was ever good enough. if i failed to be there for her in the smallest way, she freaked and said i didn't love her. i tried my best but it was like a constant test. then one time i guess i failed one too many of these tests. now she seems done with me. her mom once told me "she'll cut you out of her life in a second if you're not careful". guess what happened but i didn't do anything horrendous. it was like she was waiting for me to fail her in the smallest way. what to do? i think she's done with me but i still love her but can't be under a constant test anymore.

2007-09-29 10:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm writing this poem cos it's true
To tell you (Name) I really love you
Whenever I see you my heart beats really fast
Probably to remind me I’ve found true love at last
(name) I love you I really do.
I only wish you felt the same way to.
I only went to school cos I think you’re cool
You made school so worth while, just to see your beautiful smile

2007-09-29 10:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by Chris S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you say to your wife / hubby say when you ask this question?

2007-09-29 10:14:36 · 27 answers · asked by alser 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my language arts teacher seem normal. but i've noticed that he gives one of my friends extra attention and not in a good way. i'm not jealous or anything the guy's butt ugly. like he's always flirting and rubbing her arms or shoulders or back. and one day when she was bending over to get something he put his hand on the small of her back(near her butt). and he's always asking her ot stay after class to "help'' him. and he's always staring at her. i'm really worried because i've heard stories about teachers trying rape/molest students. what should i do?? i don't want to call him out cause i might get him in trouble and what if he's harmless? me and my friend both play volleyball and we stay after school for a good 3 to 4 hours, and sometimes her mom picks her up late and the teacher stays after school late to grade papers!!!!! what if he does something to her?? she's one of my best firends and this has been killing me. and please don't tell me to just forget it.

2007-09-29 10:08:43 · 16 answers · asked by Abba 3 in Friends

I just met them - within a week - and I didn't feel like answering my phone last night and this morning. The result: I had over 10 missed calls and 5 voicemail messages. My only response was a sarcastic one saying "ummm - yeah if you call once, I will eventually see it..." What would you do/say?

2007-09-29 10:08:19 · 4 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

So, if you saw me and you were judging what would you think?
I'm just curious?
http://hs.facebook.com/profile.php?id=559369198

2007-09-29 10:07:56 · 11 answers · asked by ELECTRA 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-29 10:05:58 · 2 answers · asked by i know what im talking about :P 2 in Friends

Now a days that's all you hear or see on tv. The way to find love is online. Is this true. What are the chances of really connecting with that individual that is really "the one". How safe is it to blindly get into relationship with someone you do not see on a daily basis. I have been struggling with this question for sometime now. If someone has some sound advice please share.

2007-09-29 10:04:55 · 8 answers · asked by diamond1 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this boy i started to like last year....and i didnt even wanna like him...it just happened...he made me laugh all the time..and he knew wat i was thinking and he knew all d pranks i was gonna do before i did dem...and he was only one dat noticed i was cryin dat day....and we hadall these little funny fights...but now its its like if erything changed...this school year i dont have classes w/him not even lunch...and now wen i see him in d hallways its just a hi and a bye cuz we always have 2 go different ways 2 class...and sometimes he pretends like if he doesnt see me....i dont know wat happened?????
& i cry@ night bcuzz i miss him soooooo much!!!!& its never gonna b d same againnnn!!!!
wat am i supposed 2 do????
& i tried 2 avoid him 2 4get him...but i just cant!
wat do i dooooo?????
& i really miss him...ive never liked & missed som1 this much!!!!!!='(

2007-09-29 10:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to deal with this type of person?

2007-09-29 09:59:23 · 13 answers · asked by REX 3 in Singles & Dating

Well Like I said i think that the 14 year old went in the bed with me. ( I am 15 and 1/2.) So i figured out that he did! I asked my friend to talk to him about what he did and he said, " Yeah your friend's milk makers are HOT!" . I can't believe it so now what do i do should I tell the mom and dad or what?

2007-09-29 09:59:16 · 1 answers · asked by FancyPants737 1 in Friends

2007-09-29 09:58:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm in love with this guy who is ONLY my friend. ;-( Naw, we are good friends and I'm fine with that. Well, anyway he's off on a weekend trip with friends. Last night was the first time he'd been drunk since we met. LOL. He called me and texted me all night. He texted good things, things that sort touched me, but he was drunk. To add on to that, he hit me up this morning to thank me for staying up and talking to him in his state of drunkiness and we chatted more. What do I think of this? If anything at all...

2007-09-29 09:55:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess he thinks that its ok to get one more fling before he ties the knot. I don't know the girl he's about to marry so I would not feel comfortable at all telling her this, but she seems like a nice woman almost innocent and totally involved in this whole getting married thing. Is she too blind to see that he's a total jerk?Anyway he says he really loves her and he's happy about getting married, except he feels like he needs to have one more encounter before its too late. Are a lot of guys like this before getting married? Is it just cold feet? I know he talks to an old flame of his on a regular basis so I would not be suprised if he did it with her. But I always hear that guys get antsy before they get married but does that make this ok? I know if My BF did this I would never forgive him. I mean if you are really in love you wouldnt feel the need to do this. Why would someone think its ok. He says No Way would he cheat after the i do's but who knows????

2007-09-29 09:55:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I want to trust my boyfriend but my intuition always tells me that he is LYING!! Even when I dont want to think he is lying, I do!! I ask him always to tell me the truth and he says he does but I dont believe him. How can I turn these thoughts off in my mind?? HOw can I get over this?? When your intuition tells you something is it Always Right?????? Please help

2007-09-29 09:45:51 · 5 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Family

I've known him for 22 years. We were together until he moved out of state 20 years ago. Long distance didn't work. I had to end it though still very much in love. I got married to some one else but always had the other guy in my heart. He eventually returned to town and over the years, reached out to me. He'll keep that up even after two or three years with no communication. He knows I'm married but also knows he's in my heart. This is so difficult because he will not go the extra mile for me and bring us together once and for all. I keep saying no/go away, but he doesn't want to. I cave in regularly about seeing him yet I am not happy. We have not resumed a sexual relationship but the feelings are mutual. This is such heartache and I feel I must just let it all go. He has not stepped to meet my needs but is perfectly willing for me to do the "work" and keep up the love toward him. I love him in a way that seems to have transcended everything else in my life but hurt bad.

2007-09-29 09:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kstel 1 in Singles & Dating

or should i say mum lol???

anyway, its my mom's birthday in five days (Oct. 4th)! i dont know what to get her. shes turning a big 46 LOL. shes kinda difficult to shop for, even when it comes to jewelry. can anyone give me any ideas??? me and my brothers have given her jewelry in the past, but i want to try something new.

thank you :).

2007-09-29 09:42:15 · 42 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4 in Family

my grandfather left a small amount from his union worker benefit, but after 40 yrs his sister came into the picture and is now power of attn. and although I've been caring for him the last 15 yrs, she told me I'm no longer a beneficiary, can she do that?

2007-09-29 09:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by celestialgirl65 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband lied to me and told me he was going to his dads house and i found out that he got an apartment and has moved a girl down he just met from another state. ive asked him if hes happy and he said no. they show no public affection unless they know i can see it. i can tell by the way he looks at her that he doesnt love her hes stuck. i took him to court over an epo and he told me that she was pregnant.. but is she really?she would have to have gotten pregnant the very first week she was here.ive always asked him for the last two months for a divorce and he never says anything about it.he makes 2k a month and he can afford a lawyer why doesnt he get a divorce?if shes pregnant and shes worth giving up everything for then why not get the divorce? what is he holding on to?does he still love me and want to come back or is he afraid that she will wanna get married if he gets the divorce?everytime i ask him to call me he does.in court all he does is stare at me, its like he wants to talk

2007-09-29 09:38:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really a bad thing since they may never meet or even lay eyes on each other?

Or is it really OK since it is just something they do for entertainment, like some people get into gaming on line?

2007-09-29 09:29:17 · 26 answers · asked by Rhiannon 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ha i knew that would get you attetion

any way i want to have more friend but because of my a$$hole cousin i can't she spreads roumours about me that arn't true like i was raped 4 times and liked it (not true i am a virgin) i hate her so much they also think because of my ex best friend that i beat animals (i love animals and i cry when i see an animal that is hurt) i want to have a friend that cares about ME for once the friend i have leaves me at the mall all the time one time i waited for 4 hours for her and she never showed up she was with her boyfriend then i have to be messenger boy for her to give notes to her boyfriend i am also pushed around at home i am always alone my mom is always drunk dad is always at work and nobody cary cares about me i wish someone cared about me i really want a boyfriend i want someone to listen to me for once but i don't think that will happen i am going to grow up and live by myself never have kids never have a boyfriend or a first kiss and die

2007-09-29 09:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-29 09:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by Chichiri 1 in Singles & Dating

My so called mother treats my dad horribly
she treats him like a second-class citizen
always stomping on him, and making him feel stupid...she is very emotionally abusive to me and him

she even wanted to divorce my dad like 3 years ago...he was even thinkin about it too
how do i convince my dad to divorce her
he is a very religious guy, but i know that he too has thought of divorcing her
i would live with him

2007-09-29 09:18:23 · 3 answers · asked by soWHAT 1 in Family

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2007-09-29 09:17:45 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 09:12:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies does a male's size matter that much? Im not talking like 3" compared to 10" but does 1 to 3 inches make a difference. Or has it been better with a smaller man that is good or a bigger man that is O.K.? BE TRUTHFUL!!!

2007-09-29 09:08:38 · 13 answers · asked by Bacon 2 in Singles & Dating