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Ok, so I'm in love with this guy who is ONLY my friend. ;-( Naw, we are good friends and I'm fine with that. Well, anyway he's off on a weekend trip with friends. Last night was the first time he'd been drunk since we met. LOL. He called me and texted me all night. He texted good things, things that sort touched me, but he was drunk. To add on to that, he hit me up this morning to thank me for staying up and talking to him in his state of drunkiness and we chatted more. What do I think of this? If anything at all...

2007-09-29 09:55:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Please answer this.

2007-10-01 12:25:18 · update #1

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I got yea, he loves you! duh. But love isn't enough, love isn't perfect, what we CAN do with it is. Sounds like for one you've got a hang-up. You need this friendship to move to deeper waters, but are resistent to it because your caught up on lossing the friendship. Get over that, as friendships grow in intensity, they tend to run this route, its natural. Understand that at the center of ANY deep, meaningful relationship is a friendship that WITHOUT that would pretty much stagnat the relationship. What YOU REALLY NEED TO BE WORRIED ABOUT IS NOT TO LOSS SIGHT OF THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF FRIENDSHIP!!!! Thats the hardest thing, because we tend to only love LOVERS when their COMMENTED to us, guess what? THATS A CONDITION THAT RUINS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!!! So THATS why most friendships end when they move to deeper waters, they forsake the friendship for a NEW RELATIONSHIP, bad!!!. If you understand what I'm talking about and you can be stronge enough with in yourself to handle it, then your just hurting the both of you for not trying. If you can't, then don't worry about it, you guys just keep hiding your feelings from each other until you find someone to love conditional.....

2007-10-04 02:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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