ever since my dad passed away 6 months ago. When my dad was alive, he took care of everything for her, and she depended everything on him. Now that he is gone, she depends on me too much. She expects me to run her errands, fill up her car every time (she tells me she never learned how to fill up her car herself, and she's "afraid" to try), and I am getting annoyed! It's not enough that I take care of the house, clean up after my messes and hers, have a 9 hour job, pay for my car and insurance, and give her money towards what she sees fit (mostly her groceries and gas...I pay for my own things). I am getting very annoyed that she won't even try...I understand that she works 3rd shift part time, but on her days off she does nothing. She even gets mad at me when I go out to see friends, and my boyfriend. The only people she talks to is me or my aunt. And when I stand up to her about this, she gets mad and gives me a guilt trip. Please help! How can I stop her from depending on me to much?
2007-09-29
02:57:09
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