We love each other, our love is true and every moment that we spend together is beautiful, but some times she says to me: "I love you but one day you are going to fall in love with another woman and you are going to forget me, I know that's going to happen"...and I'm like WHAT? what are you talking about, I love you and you know it! Don't say that!
I don't know what she mean by that, but I love her to dead. Every time she say that, it breaks my heart. She says because I'm a handsome guy, like to talk with everybody (I'm a social person) and funny, I'm going to fall in love with another woman?
WHAT DOES SHE MEAN? HOW CAN I GET THAT OUT FROM HER HEAD?...SHE KNOWS I LOVE HER, AND I DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO BE WITH HER! PLEASE HELP!
2007-09-29 03:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by Yulien 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's insecure and has low-self-esteem. She's saying these things because she's trying to get your reaction of "I love you... I'd never do that, etc." Say these things to her spontaneously, so that she doesn't "force" them out of you. Tell her that you love her, and you understand that she's insecure, but there is no reason for her to feel that way because of you. Tell her if she continues to feel that way, it is because of herself. Tell her she's bright, beautiful, and fun to be around and she should realize that too. However, don't let her insecurities control you.
2007-09-29 04:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by punchy333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's insecure and wanting you to affirm you won't leave her. Try buying her a promise ring. Just try to be patient and understanding she must have been hurt in the past she's not trying to make you feel bad she's just scared of being hurt again.
2007-09-29 11:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If not, and you both are old enough...
that is what she wants.
She feels insecure, because you are handsome and talkative. Actually she should overcome that fear, you are with her, not someone else.
Perhaps, just pay more attention to her, when you both are out.
2007-09-29 03:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding female lingo is the last thing you want to do, those two words could have a billion translations. For all you know, it could mean "I wish this air headed moron would just go away."
2016-05-21 04:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll never understand why women are constantly screwing with us in this way. It is tiring to have to reassure them over and over. If they REALLY believed that, they would leave you now.
Ladies stop screwing with us like this. We love you just fine.
2007-09-29 04:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has low self-esteem, and perhaps abandonment issues, which is why she says these things.
you can do a yahoo search for each of these to see what it's all about.
2007-09-29 03:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a guilt trip she's laying on you, to get you stop talking to other women.
2007-09-29 03:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lives on Insecure Mtn. and doesn't trust you.
2007-09-29 04:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love her , then prove , marry her , so that no more worries , esp to her, you dont say u love her, just do it, marry her and say , im yours alone , forever n ever , woohhh!!!! h soooo sweet
2007-09-29 04:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by MIla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's insecure
2007-09-29 06:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by I got answers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋