has rude sttitude towards youand wouldnt listen to you?why he does that and he only listen when you talk nicely?
2007-09-29 03:50:51 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his my co worker
2007-09-29 03:55:04 · update #1
If someone is talking to you rudely you need to let them know that kind of behavior is unacceptable and if they cant talk to you in a better way then dont talk to you at all. I've had that experience not long ago and was being called all kinds of ugly things and that was my response and they also got ignored. When they finally found out that I was a person as well and had feelings and demanded respect then I started getting it back from them. You have to stand up for yourself and demand respect and let people know that you wont put up with that kind of mess.
2007-09-30 09:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by margerita_nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not just men, it is with everyone.
Remember this: You draw more bees with honey than vinegar
It means you will get farther in a conversation if you are speaking kindly to whomever you are speaking. Not that you have to be sugarery sweet but be respectfully kind.
It helps to think about how would you react if someone talked to you in the same way you were talking. Would it bother you?
2007-09-29 11:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by nomming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
well, we need more to go on in order to give you clear answers------------ how well do you know him? who is he to you? otherwise this doesn't make any sense and noone can give you an answer. can you ask again with more info?
thanks! I, for one would like to help.
As a matter of fact, I know a guy who acts this way, as you described which is why I'm interested in your question, bcuz in my situation, I was friends with this guy a year ago. eventually he made it known he was interested, he works at a laundry place where I go. well, 1 day my ex showed up at the laundromat and the GUY who was my friend that works there, saw him and changed his attitude over time! I now go and do my laundry and ignore him bcuz he ascts like a JERK towards me now, and he even ran off and got married a few months ago. so all I get from him now are looks of dislike, and he stays out of the laundry until I leave. HUH, so i'm sayin', with friends like that, who needs enemies??????
send more info please to your situation!
2007-09-29 11:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First :may be is your attitude to him, he notice that you like him so he behave in a "macho" sense.
Second: could be that he likes you and the way to say I like you is to reject or do things hard way.
Third: next time you see him "ignore him" dint pay attention to him and talk to other guys or Friends, they most be Friends of this guy
if you can talk to his best frien "really friendly" this way you can make him jealous.
I hope this can help to answere you question
2007-09-29 11:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by brujman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him talk in a good way , cos belive it or not people got feelings ( say it in a good way ) , or just show that u dont like the way he talk to u and stop talking to him.
if u cant handle it , just be open with him say it or dont talk to him.
Good luck
2007-09-29 11:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by michael 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the person, anyone who speaks softly will receive more attention. Hope this helps.
2007-09-29 10:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by ThanksJustWondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't listen to people who talk to me in a mean way either.
and if this guy has a rude attitude toward you, why do you associate with him at all?
doesn't make sense to me.
2007-09-29 10:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I smell a sexual harassment suite. Talk to your boss or human resource supervisor.
2007-09-29 11:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Equality for all! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur being rude urself for him being rude. because if hes rude he will not be nice if u talk nicely either
2007-09-29 10:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by babyandme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋