Ok my cousin has a new gf who has a daughter who is 14-15 years old, ( I am 15) and she keeps bothering my cousins brother who is 28 with alot of werid myspace comments and my family is talking about her, calling her a whore and stuff and I sent her this message "; I know you don't mean any harm but you better not bug Nevada with alot of comments and stuff... it makes it look like you do have a crush on him.. and if he says anything to Cody you might get into trouble.. If you do have a crush on him just remember hes WAY older then you. I don't want a big fight in the family or gossip.. I won't ever mention this email if you don't"
I'm afraid I hurt her feelings.. did I do the right thing?
2007-09-29 03:40:03 · 9 answers · asked by omg rain is wet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You tried to help by heading off an awkward situation.
2007-09-29 03:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried to help and that's a good thing. It might be more effective if you talk to your cousin and his girlfriend and tell them you're concerned about the reputation she's developing among the family. Ask her mother to talk to her to help her see the harm she's doing to herself. Beyond that, there's not much else you can do.
Don't be surprised if she takes offense and starts making comments about you on myspace. If she does, don't retaliate. Just let her be who she is. Eventually she'll have to learn from her own mistakes.
2007-09-29 11:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure if you did the right thing or not, but it's my policy to mind my own business.
the 28 year old can handle his own issues when it comes to this girl, and i'm sure he realizes she is too young for him.
it's not unusual for a teenaged girl to have a crush on an older guy... that doesn't mean she's a s|ut. it means she's a young girl with a crush. no harm in a crush...
2007-09-29 10:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a block on myspace that block user under 18. And there are other ways to block users on myspace. If your cousins brother wanted to he could block her.
2007-09-29 10:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by winterpixie_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you afraid of hurting her feelings she most likely could careless about yours. your cousin can block her from his space or not respond to her then again he can tell her to stop bugging him. this is his business but tell him she jail bait.
2007-09-29 10:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by rma2ks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did do the right thing. If I was you I would pull her aside a have a word with her.
2007-09-29 10:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really but talk to them. Tell her if you hurt her feelings. Everything will be ok.
2007-09-29 10:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by haeyang168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probaly did hurt her feelings so talk to her in person or else she might be like WHAT THE **** and might be upset
2007-09-29 10:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Aly 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah you're just trying to help
2007-09-29 10:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by fersitf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋