hi im kim and 13 yrs old. i have a vey big fam and out of all my female cousins im the suposedly girly big sis who is popular in school and has a lot of freinds stuff like that so all my lil cousins look up to me. the truth is im not really like that i have friends but i dont really have one to call my best friend the last time i had a best friend she moved in 7th grade. i tried siting with the popular girls last year but we never talked and i felt like a nobody even at school dances i hang out with my friend but they have all kown each other since 3rd grade and i just became their friends last yr so their so familiar with eachother they sing in front of eachother, dance in front of eachother but i really cant feel all that confortable...i mean i havnt had a sleep over in 2 yrs! plz help me become more popular, and look prettier all of my friends are pretty and popular im the out cast...i mean i can never get a guy to like me is there anyway to make one fall 4 you. huh plzzz help me!
2007-09-29 04:35:04 · 4 answers · asked by Kim K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
have patience little one.
i realize when people are young, time goes real slowly but let me tell you, young is for a short time, so relax , keep yourself busy with projects that interest you and educate yourself with basic materials in life that will make your adult life much easier for you future.
if you take my suggestion you will excel way beyond those so called "popular" kids in the very near future.
good luck and keep that smile on your face and the twinkle in your eye !
you will be a star some day soon
2007-09-29 04:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kim Baby, your problem is a low self esteem.Do whatever you can to build yourself up.Spend some time on yourself alone.Do not compare yourself to others,you are special and unique.God made you different from anyone else.There's
only one YOU.Hold your head up and be proud of who you are.There's some good training classes and books on Self Esteem now, do some research.Pretty is, is pretty does.
I am attractive but I have always let my personality be
my shine light.Guys like a smart girl with her head on her shoulders.They are not what's important.It's all up to you
finding out whom you are first.LUCK.Tell yourself everyday
I pronounce this Good and release it with Love.
2007-09-29 04:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the drama.Just be yourself and you will become popular as well and you won't be uncomfortable.Just wait for a guy in your love life.you don't need to rush things.You never know what's going to happen ;)
2007-09-29 04:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sakura Sohma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move To My Country ( Brunei ) because here it is not impossible for a girl to find a boy here.
2007-09-29 04:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋