In fact, I manage to keep myself occupied n independant. Does this mean I dont love him as much?
2007-09-29 03:59:44 · 17 answers · asked by candie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. You're an independant women!!
You're a good wife!!
It means you are a grown up housewife. You tried to be independant...
2007-10-05 02:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by TM™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah!
Me and my mom are the same way when my dad travels.
It doesn't exactly mean you don't love him,
maybe you're just used to the fact that he's gone and you're
not worried about him not being safe because he had been overseas for many times.
But when he's home and you don't actually feel the love for him,
then that's another story.
It's an accomplishment though, congratulations.
It's hard having family or people you love away from you.
2007-09-29 11:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cassandra S. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband is gone for 6 wks at a time and home 1 week and the gone for 10 wks and home for one,etc. I miss him but i occupy myself and am very independent. I don't cry myself to sleep or pine away for him. I know I love him and I am waiting for him to come home.
2007-10-05 23:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody know if you still love him or not!!!!!!After awhile anybody can get used to be alone. That doesn't mean you don't love them, but your the one feeling whatever you're feeling, how would we know??
My husband travels and I used to miss him, I don't anymore,I mean sometimes I do,but I actually enjoy havig the freedom to do my own thing. But I love him dearly.
2007-09-29 11:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you enjoy your alone time! Just because you aren't miserable when he leaves doesn't mean you don't love him, it means that you enjoy your time because you don't have a man looking over your shoulder all the time! I do have one question...Are you glad when he comes home?? cuz if not, that is a bad sign!
2007-09-29 11:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie Darlin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it just means that you have grown up and have a more mature attitude toward the man you married.
2007-10-05 01:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Maybe you are just accepting the stage of life and the stage of your relationship and the stage of his career. I would say that if you are always looking forward to him leaving, and if you are disappointed when he returns, then you have a problem. (Duh.) Otherwise - I think you are okay. It is good to have some independence!
2007-09-29 11:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by a-mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it does not i would assume you have to have something to occpy your time and you have found it and are happy as if hes here or not. i hope that you are that way there are some that are glad and prefer not to have him around once we tend to get older and more mature we tend to say hey we can handle more of issues like that good luck
2007-10-05 21:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means you're adapting to the situation. Only you can
know how much you love him.
2007-09-29 11:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ps don't use this period as a love-test. When his back, try to have candle light dinner with him, then you can weigh the difference.
2007-09-30 05:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Capger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋