I babysit every Saturday night for a little boy named Brandon. His dad always makes sure Brandon's asleep and then he always gets me down to the basement. Then he flirts with me, and then he starts touching me and I totally fall for him. I love having sex with him.
But I've been feeling kinda bad about it lately because I just met his wife and she's so nice!
Should I keep having sex with him?
If not, what do I tell him?
2007-09-29 04:22:03 · 19 answers · asked by clarissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have sex with him! He is married! This relationship can't go anywhere and you should talk to the wife and expose her husband for the loser her is, then quit.
2007-09-29 04:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Janet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
firstly, you have to stop babysitting his son because this is the main reason why you both end up having sex in the basement. Being in the house all alone and i assume your gorgeous makes daddy heat up..So stop going to their house. If you can't resist the temptation, just think of lil Brandon..How would he feel when he discovers daddy is making love with his babysitter..Secondly, Find a guy who is single. It will be difficult to forget the "sex in the basement thingy" but just think of the excitement of "sex without hurting a child and a mother thingy"..
2007-09-29 11:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by fritzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen a lifetime movie, The Babysitter, Don't tell Mom the babysitter is dead. Your in a bad situation. I would quit if I were you. I'm just using the movies as examples. The man is married and your the mistress kinda. If the wife finds out and they divorced, the kid will be messed up and the wife will be hurt sooooo bad and maybe want to get revenge on you. If you stop having sex with the guy then he might fired you or hold it against you which is why I say just quit and get out of this nasty mess.
2007-09-29 11:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give yourself some dignity. You know that this man is married, and therefore committed to a family, his wife and kid. You are clearly being used as means to sexual gratification and you consent to it. What you two are doing would only add one more to the long list of broken families in the world. Think about it, how low would you get. You deserve a better life, a man who is still single and would love you as his wife.
2007-09-29 11:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Giles P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? It sounds to me like statutory rape? Are you younger than 18? How old is him?
Tell someone that you trust. An older person like your counselor at school.
He should had never cross the line and flirt with you.
Stop babysitting for him. You do not have to explain anything. You have the right to stop babysitting for him without explanations.
Be smart girl.
2007-09-29 11:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Helper 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This guy is totally using you, and cheating on his wife with your help--ick! Tell him where he can get off (not literally--you've already been providing that) and that he doesn't pay you enough for sexual favors along with babysitting. Tell him you value yourself too much to be the "other" woman at his convenience, and that he should be ashamed for deceiving his wife and being such a user!
2007-09-29 11:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jane T 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you honestly need to even ask this question? Stop having sex with him. He's Married so tell his wife, because you may not be the only girl!
2007-09-29 21:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you need to do is babysit for me... But seriously if you are not over 18 you need to not be having sex with him. you should also explain to him that your rate for babysitting has just gone up!
He has no respect for you he is just using you to get his rocks off and at the same time risking hurting his kid and wife.
If you are over 18 feel free to email us about babysitting possibilities...
Good luck!
2007-09-29 11:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know u dunt want to hear this but this has to stop immedietly...u cant keep having sex with him hes cheating on his wife...ur his mistress...i dunt want to sugar coat it u cant let this happen nemore hes a lying cheating dog and this relationship will go no where and if it does he will end up cheating on u like he did his wife...put urself in his wifes position wudnt u want to kno...u need to tell the wife her husbands cheating on her and u need to dump him and stop babysitting because then it will b harder 4 u to get over him
2007-09-29 12:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by breeReal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should feel bad. what you are doing is totally wrong. tell him the next time you sit with Brandon that it's the last time and if he gives you any flack tell his wife.
2007-10-03 11:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Loren S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋