i want to. im 5 weeks and 1 day and only a couple people in my family knoes. I live with my grandparents and my pap is really strick and idk how to tell me ...PLZZ i need help
2007-09-29 07:54:51 · 12 answers · asked by brianna g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABORTION IS NEVER THE ANSWER!
if he wasnt ready to have a kid they he shouldnt have stuck it in! you say you want to keep it which means you are mature and strong - you must keep this strengh and tell your family. you never know - most are likely to want to help you out. plus if he leaves you then he isnt worht your love - but no matter what you will still get his child support. be adult about this and be a mommy
2007-09-29 07:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by PiratePrincess 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What you have to do is decide what is best for you and for the baby.
Personally, I am completely against abortion. I became pregnant at 19. I was unmarried but both me and my boyfriend loved each other very much and we both wanted the baby. My mother, on the other hand, wanted me to get an abortion saying that a baby will only "ruin my life". You know what, I had my baby, despite my mother's wishes for me to terminate the baby. And my life turned out fine. If I were you, I would decide what you want. If you think that you could properly raise a child (you will need support from family if not your boyfriend) then you should have your baby. If not, then you should give your baby up for ADOPTION after he or she is born. Never kill your baby! There are pleanty of people who cannot have a child and are wanting to adopt. A lot of times they will even pay for the expenses for you to give birth. Check your local newspaper in the classifieds section under adoption. If nothing else, contact your local Planned Parenthood agency and ask to be helped with how to give your baby up for adoption.
2007-09-29 08:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your baby, don't let anyone talk you into killing the baby with an abortion, you would regret it the rest of your life. If your pap kicks you out, there are unwed mother homes you can go to. Talk to the human resource office in your area to find one. You can keep the baby it will be really hard but in the end well worth it. Or you can give it up for adoption after it is born, there are many couples who can't have children who would love to adopt your baby.
Your boyfriend should be arrested for having sex with you, you are a minor. It is against the law for him to touch you.
2007-09-29 08:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont really think i believe in abortion, and being responsible for your mistakes is honorable. But you are 16yrs old and i know you think you are all grown up and know everything you need to know- but ur still a kid. honestly i believe in adoption in a situation like this- maybe even an open adoption. Your boyfriend probably wont stay ur boyfriend and there is still so much else out there to do with ur life besides being a mom- its a great thing dont get me wrong, but you would be a kid raising a kid. maybe talk over everything with ur family they know u better and know what is best for u
2007-09-29 08:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could have the baby and you all could get married. Therefore he could put you on his LES and have more income for the baby. Or you dont have to have the baby but it'll be on your conscience forever especially if your spiritual. Just pray to GOD. God brings out the best in any situation. He has the answer. You should talk to him.
2007-09-29 08:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tipsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer.Let the Army know about it and they will take payments out of his check each month to help with the baby.They will put him in jail but he should be in jail for having sex with a baby girl!
2007-09-29 07:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by notagain49 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're a minor and if your dad was really that strick then he coould attempt to charge your bf w/ rape. But it would best to tell your dad...
2007-09-29 08:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by ~ Lucky Piglet ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were given the chance of life...dont ruin it for your baby... just tell your dad...and say that there is nothing he can do about it because it is your choice what to do...dont let him take over your life... good luck
2007-09-29 07:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by nagrom9319 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...umm wel u coulda used a condom...but its too late now...i think its mature and responsible that you wanna have the baby....i think abortio nis murder of an innocent soul, but then again i cant tell you waht to do...i think you should tell your dad...b/c its better to tell him sooner than later...good luck..
2007-09-29 08:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by sexi_kanani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your 19yrd boyfriend is in trouble
Cheers
2007-09-29 08:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by james b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋