my boyfriend moved to visalia and i live in porterville and i really like him and lately he hasnt been calling me like the last time he called me was 2 days ago and it makes me sad whenever were together he'll tell me alot of luvey dovey stuff and he'll hold me tight and be kissing me and if a guy looks at me or i talk 2 a friend he gets all jealious and it makes me wonder how come lately he hasnt been calliing me could he be cheating on me?? how could i tell?? what should i do??
2007-09-29 08:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Out of sight, out of mind. Long distance relationships rarely last, for many reasons, not the least of which is insecurities like you are feeling after only two days.
2007-09-29 08:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do...either confront him, end it, or deal with it. Also, it sometimes depends on what kind of person he is...Does he like to be in solitude sometimes? Does he have a wandering eye? Does he treat you as if you are the only one? Does he spend a lot of quality time with you? Have you been together long? Do you feel as though you can talk to him? If so, sit him down and let him know how he feels. Also, remember that a man who is doing dirt will be jealous, because he is the one doing the dirt. All men are different, I need more info, especially your ages.
2007-09-29 15:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. NEVER tell strangers on the internet where you live.
2. If he only calls every 2 days, and it occurs to you that he's cheating, then you need to dump him because you have no trust or faith in your boyfriend.
3. Did it occur to you that it may be long distance?
4. Did it occur to you that he may just be busy trying to make things work in his new town?
2007-09-29 15:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is showing a consistent pattern of decreasing communication and declining intimacy in the communications you do have, your relationship is getting ready to end. (Sorry.) Even if he were in the worst and busiest of circumstances (Iraq), you would find plenty of intimacy in the communications you do have. You can't make him want to be with you. Your best bet is to let him go.
2007-09-29 15:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a friend that you know is by there! try to call him 3x on three days make sure you call 3x on 1 day at different times like mornin. aftern. night.-if he doesnt pick up at night then he is obviously cheating on you! Do this 4 3 days doesnt pick up then it is over!
2007-09-29 15:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, have a friend look him over maybe, or just straight out ask him.
Then he'll say "What?! Do you not trust me?!"
obviously you should say "How can I trust you if you dont call me every day??"
2007-09-29 15:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should try to contact him in some way asking him kindly in a calm way why don't you call me anymore?
2007-10-01 23:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by ~CarolynChan~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually he wants you to be worried about him and put more concern into him. Which you are doing right now, he wants you to call instead of him calling you. so just call and ask him whats going on. Good luck.
2007-09-29 15:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by paul_dawisp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesnt sound like a healthy relationship to me.
2007-09-29 15:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Widgi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh...you mean you didn't become "friends with him first?', oops! so, now you have a "smotherer", he makes you sad, and you want to keep it going? and you believe he has other "play things" ...this is not a boy friend...break it off....
2007-09-29 15:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. "Diamond" 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋