Help! He is driving me crazy! I want a marriage but does he?

Question

I want a marriage and the more I try the farther he pulls away. We bought a weight set to work out together, but he won't work out with me. He complains if I use the weights cause he can't remember what weight he had on the bar. We bought Golf glubs to play golf. I even went for golf lessons to be able to at least hit the ball. Now he won't even go drive balls with me. For our anniversary we bought a purebred German Shepard for showing and pet. Now, because the dog prefers me, I walk him, feed him, play with him, pet him, my husband won't have anything to do with him. So he gets another dog, now he won't have anything to do with her, because once again she prefers me. I walk her, feed her, play with her, groom her, he won't and has never done anything with her, except yell at her. He smokes an oz. of pot a week and I feel that thats his wife, his best friend. He will be 62 soon. Help! I don't know how to deal with this. Before u ask, no I don't do pot with him. Any ideas?

Answer 1

Why should he want to marry you when he's got all the benefits without any commitment? Why don't you leave him and find a man who will love you the way you are. You've spent a fortune in time and money trying to please this jerk. He doesn't want marriage; he wants a housekeeper, a momma and before long, you'll be his nurse.

Answer 2

Here is the best advice you can get anywhere. Call Narcotics Anonymous and ask them to direct you to the nearest co-dependent meeting. It is free and they can help you when no one else can. Give them a try. It works.

Answer 3

Ummm...he's 62 and not bound to change. If you're expecting marriage, then you're sorely mistaken. I'd say move on considering everything you've said.

Answer 4

Try smoking pot if nothing eles maybe he'll stop or you'll feel better.