what should i do now?

Question

hi... thanks for reading this... really need help... don't know what i should do now... okay, here goes. i'm a high school senior and i'm in love with the most beautiful girl in school. now, the both of us have been friends for almost 10 months now, and she knows that i like her. the first time i told her that i like her was easter sunday evening. i told her that i had feelings for her that were beyond a crush, and thankfully, she did not decide to end our friendship right there. now, here in the philippines, school starts june. a month after school starts (w/c is july), i finally told her that I love her. i also told her of the wonderful change that she has started in me when i met her, including finally breaking free from porn. now, there's another guy in school who's being linked to her, and she has a crush on this guy. now, i asked him if he also likes her, and he always tells me no. unfortunately, this guy's nos are unreliable. also, i kinda have this feeling of wanting to punch

this guy’s lights out, but my love and respect for her is the only thing that stops me from doing that. Now, things between us are going nice, and recently, I had a major breakthrough: I finally got to ask her out. Bad thing was, she did not make it, although she did really want to. Now, maybe you’re thinking that the other guy had something to do with it. No. it’s because of curfew. Stupid curfew. Now, the both of us are really becoming good friends, and I feel that I have a chance with her. What should I do? Thanks and God bless! :)

Answer 1

keep praying if you really think thats your 1 ;)

Answer 2

I can't handle your desire to punch his lights out. He has a right to find her attractive in the same way you do. I have answered these kinds of questions before: Be bright and kind and funny to her. Be uplifting. Tell her she means a lot to you, but don't make her worry that she'll have a problem if she rejects you. She DOES have a right to reject you, sorry to say, and the proper thing to do if that happens is to remain kind to her and don't pressure her in any way. Shut off your jealousy for the other guy. You only have a right to be powerfully angry at him if he hurts her physically. If he hurts her emotionally, that's just something that happens.
In short...love her if you want to, be kind, and be prepared to let her go if things do not fall into place.