Okay.. I'm dating three guys (Not serious dating, just going out having fun.) It's so hard to find a good guy who "has it all". I'm dating one guy who isnt that attractive but he has a GREAT PERSONALITY, the other guy is drop dead gorgeous but is a jerk, the other guy is kind of has a sexy sexy body, and nice personality but is really stupid. Is it bad that im dating all three? (for about a month now)
2007-09-29 07:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by brittany7790 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not sleeping with any of them. Just casual, non exclusive dating.
2007-09-29 08:00:18 · update #1
Yeah, your a **** Sorry. #
2007-09-29 07:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not sleeping with them then no, it's not slutty. There's nothing wrong with hanging out with different guys, (as long as they don't think you're serioulsy dating) I'm actually doing the same thing right now..=)
Don't listen to the ones who say that is wrong or slutty. This is why; we need to hang out and get to know lots of people, to find someone that best fits us. Otherwise we'll end up with the wrong person. As long as they know that you're not serious, and as long as you're not sleeping with any of them it's actually very good to do that. What if you miss out on the perfect guy for you becuase you already are "dating" someone else. That's why it's fun to be single, so you can find the right guy!
2007-09-29 14:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by browneyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's not serious with any of them than I guess it's not too bad. But you also need to think about whether you would be comfortable with one of them (or any guy for that matter) doing the same thing to you. If they don't know about each other, be careful, because these things have a way of coming out. Good luck :)
2007-09-29 14:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is bad that you are dating all three. if you want a relationship, you have to commit to it. why are you sticking with the jerk? looks don't mean anything, personality means everything. you should decide what you want, would you rather have looks, even if they are a jerk, or stupid? or would you rather have someone you enjoy being around with a good personality? decide, and decide on your guy, because otherwise, you are just dating around, you can't be trusted, you have no loyalty, and you can't make a decision.
2007-09-29 14:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sleeping with all of them?? That would be kind of slutty.. but who am I to judge you? Do whatever you want... but they should be aware that they're not the only guy.. that kind of says something about your personality and they might not see you the same way again... be careful who you play.
2007-09-29 14:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by x0xruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cuz its not official with any of them
but you should consider the guy with the GREAT personality not the one thats a jerk or the the one thats eh, go for the guy that makes you feel special and makes u smile.
dnt drag them along to long!
2007-09-29 14:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating three guys as long as they know you aren't exclusive... and as long as you're not sleeping with all three.
2007-09-29 14:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by bright_eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
geeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER EVER date more that one guy ( thats not slutty but kinda mean( unless they know about it)
i sAy pick the personality one =]
2007-09-29 14:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee!! Hmmm?
Why don't you call them all over at the same time and ask each of them that question!!
2007-09-29 14:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by david 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat.
2007-09-29 14:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they know about each other...it is pretty slutty...i would pick one...prolly the 3rd one...you can teach him to be smarter
2007-09-29 14:09:04 · answer #11 · answered by 3oh!3 fan! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋