I am abused by both of my parents?

Question

My mom verbally abuses me. She calls me names, makes fun of me. She also has severe mood swings. One minute she says how much she loves me, the next minute she is screaming at me for getting a B+ on my report card. My mom is also in denial and always somehow always tries to make everything my fault.

My dad physically/sexually abuses me. Just a few days ago he opened the door when i was showering and just stood there even after I yelled at him to leave. Then he threw his shoe at my face. As i was leaving the shower, he kicked me several times.

I would tell somebody about my parents, such as a friend or teacher, except my mom told me that if i told anyone about what she or my dad does, she will "pierce a needle through my heart."

For some reason, out of 4 kids (2 of which are moved out) I am the only child abused. Every time i go out, i act happy and no one would ever think that my parents abuse me.

My mom really is crazy enough to do something insane so i can't call one of those hotlines because my parents keep track of everyone i call. My mom also cusses at me.

My parents wont ever let me get my license, a job, or a car. they want to keep me as miserable as they possibly can.



This isn't just a bad day. my whole life has been a nightmare.

mrs m- I'm only 14.

I'm too scared to tell anyone about my parents, my mom might really hurt me.

NAN G-My siblings couldnt care any less about me. They've seen it happen right in front of their eyes and they just ignored it.

crystalsage-I have tried confronting my parents several times, but they just ignore me.

My parents removed all the locks from every door in this house, except the main door and their bedroom.

My mom and dad wont listen to me even if i threaten to commit suicide. As i'm typing this, my mom is screaming to me "get lost" and "drop dead".

tasyreen-My mom is worse then my dad in my opinion. Even though my dad makes fun of my weight problem, my mom says things that no one should hear.


I mean if you saw where i lived and what kind of life i had, you would NEVER believe that i am abused. I live in a huge house and have a guitar in my bedroom. without my guitar, i would probably be dead.

RedRoses- I like playing lacrosse, but my parents would NEVER let me join the team. A few years i ago i played on a team, but for some reason as they get older, they have gotten a lot more abusive. i have pretty old parents my dads 57, and my moms 54.

Answer 1

The only way out of this is to tell someone if you are quiet about it, then you have no hope. Your dad and mom could loose control and hurt you to the point where you could die anyway you have more chance of getting help if you tell police man or teacher. I know your scared because your parents threaten you but they only do that because they are scared you would tell someone you know they could go to jail for sexual harassment and child abuse. you have to tell someone anyone you trust can help you. This is very important. Your parents need psychological help. You need to get out of that enviorment its not safe and its very unhealthy. I'm am very sorry for you, I wish I could help more by getting involved further but I'm just a girl 2 years older then you who doesn't know where you are or anything about you except that you are fourteen and getting treated in a way not even dogs should be. I'm very sorry again, I will make the effort to pray for you and I'm here if you need to talk.

Answer 2

Name calling and making fun of you is abuse. Being kicked is abuse.

Let me tell you this there is no reason or excuse for what they do to you that is not discipline that's abuse. I have many years dealing with this. You can talk to me for free. You can also visit DR Irene's verbal abuse website. You sound like me years ago trying to get "proof" when you finally realize they are wrong and you are right you will feel better. If you can live somewhere else foster home or wherever move . They will never change cause they are happy in their ways.

Answer 3

First, sorry for what has happened to you. No one deserves to be abused. Secondly, you need to get out of that situation it will only get worse. I assume since you play lacrosse you have a lacrosse coach that you can atleast confide in but if you can't confide in him/her I would go to school and speak to a guidance counselor and they can help you because that is their job to do so. Make sure you do this during school hours since your parents are so controlling over you.

Good Luck and Be Strong!!

Answer 4

You must tell someone you trust what is going on whether it's a Teacher, a Student Counselor, Child Services or a trusted relative. It sounds as though your parents have some issues but it does not excuse their abusing you. Please remember they are responsible for their behavior, it's not your fault whatever your Mom says. Good luck.

Answer 5

Tell the police. There is no excuse for any of this sh it. And if your mom is locked up in prision, the bi tch wont be able to stick a needle through your heart. Please tell the police. You dont deserve to be treated like that. No one does. If you tell the police everything that they do, they will surely be convicted. If you want you can also email me and tell me what happens. Do not keep this all to yourself. Good luck to you!!!!

Answer 6

RUN BABY RUN... if you listen to all the fears you feel and do not gain courage to change things around, it won`t change little one.. you are the only one that can stop it, by talking to someone. at 14, you`re aloud to ask the children society to help you move out by explaining to them why. and by the way, your mom is already piercing your heart with a needle,with all the feeling you must have.

Answer 7

oh my god, i'm so sorry for you, you shouldn't just keep quite about this, because this is not normal... try talking to someone who can help you solve this problem... for example your teacher, i'm sure he/she will be able to do something about this, or try talking to your other siblings, the ones that have already moved out.

I seriously don't understand why your mum don't want to act against your father's sick attitude.. This is so wrong...

It's your right to tell someone or get help. You tried telling your mum and she's not about to do anything so you have to get someone else to help you.

Please...please go get help....Please...

I don't know what else to do.. but to only advise you this much.. so please get some help, this needs to stop right away!!!

Answer 8

You have 2 siblings that have moved out - go to them - or just leave and go to grandparents, etc. Anything is better than being where you are. You can call the police for help and you will be safe. Please leave your home. Good luck.

Answer 9

you are definitely being abused by your parents. if i were u, i still wouldnt be living in that home and id be going straight to the police right now to report the way you,ve been treated at home. that way youd be free and dont worry no one will hut you again.

Answer 10

dude sorry about you luck you have very little option but to call the cops or and I'll yell this one "RUN AWAY TO SOMEONE SAFE BUT OT STAY IN THAT HOUSE WILL LEAVE YOU SCARED FOR LIFE"
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