My wedding is in 6 weeks...i feel like I'm just DONE with all the planning...and i just want it to be either over or the day of the wedding so i can just be done!!! Anyone else feel like this??
2007-09-29 12:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by chloe1995 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
uh, i said nothing about money....actually a lot of things have been done with my own two hands, Spock
2007-09-29 12:25:20 · update #1
wow moey- someone was looking to make a speech and you got it!! Gime me a break, like you're going to throw a party and have it be crappy, although from your pissed at the world speech, i'm sure your parties must really be a drag. I've only planned my wedding for the last 6 months, it is not my life, i do what i can on the weekend. I'm only giving you the points so you'll read this. Must suck to be so angry at the world.
2007-09-29 14:15:49 · update #2
Sure, I think partially the problem may be that people claim it takes a year+ to plan a wedding (there are plenty on this board and others who are planning 2009 weddings and already know what dress they're going to wear, etc.) when in fact it's just a party and it doesn't take as long as people claim it does.
If you feel finished with the planning then it probably means the stuff that is left to plan isn't all that important. If it's not the food, venue, or officiant, I would just drop it. How many wedding favors have you loved and cherished?
Take a deep breath. The good part is being married, not the wedding. Good luck.
2007-09-29 13:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Meredith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married last month and I know I was so sick of planning. I planned the wedding mostly by myself. Me and husband's family own a business, so I coulod never get any time off to do anything. I felt like some things were just thrown together. Of course, when the day came, it was beautiful. But I was so afraid something wouldn't get planned and it would look unfinished. Now that the wedding is done, I'm not used to not stressing about it, though.
2007-09-29 16:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by gizmos_dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not getting married until February and I am already feeling exhausted and done with it! I love it because it's going to be our wedding and I'm excited, but there is still so much to do and the pressure to get it all done gets to you. Don't worry, all of the planning and craziness is going to be worth it in the end. Try to stay calm and have an awesome wedding day! Congrats and Good Luck :)
2007-09-29 14:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm getting there to that point. I'm getting Married October 20th and the weeks are just now starting to fly by and i'm getting nervous cause things need to be done but can't be done until the last week before the wedding. I'm having the best time of my life and wouldn't trade it for anything but it's getting to be overwhelming now. Relax hun, that's what i'm trying to do. lol. Congratulations, 6 weeks until you marry the one you love!!!
2007-09-30 01:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by mom to be 6/27/09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is putting your feet to the fire? Do you not have any control over your own life? You are going to be disappointed in marriage and your whole life if you keep living out what you think other people expect of you and therefore what you expect of you. In answer to your question, almost all brides feel that way who are just doing it for society sakes, some worse than others. We make plans, god laughs..Truth hurts and then it riles us up, I hope you have a wonderful wedding, I only wanted you to think about it.
2007-09-29 12:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Fauna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not over it yet but then again my wedding is a year away still. I suppose I may feel the same way closer to the time.
2007-09-29 13:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not that far yet, but I bet a lot of people feel that way when they get close to it. Just hang in there! I'm sure that you will be glad for your hard work once you see the results--and that hard work really is almost over! Congratulations!
2007-09-29 14:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by saddison2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe the pain and expense that women insist on for their weddings, it is such a total waste. It costs a fortune and most Brides are disappointed by the results. Its like the wedding industry has forced women to insist on it, and the costs the wedding planners force on us are ridiculous. Also, both families have to go through the pain of getting dressed up and have a lousy painful experience. Its time for women to put a stop to this waste.
2007-09-29 12:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋