Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

I have been married for 3 years and with husband for 11 years.
He always leaves and then comes back. Well about a year ago he left for a younger girl she was only 18 ( he is 29). Well he lives back home with me now. He says that want to make thing right, So here is the problem he sometimes comes home late from work and say he was the only one there to close or he stopped for a soda. Well then tonight he said that an old friend he has not seen in 10 years wanted to hang out and get a drink. When i tried to call him he did not answer and he has been gone for 3 hours and i have caught him lying before. So what am i suppose to do? I think that he is with a chic or this old girlfriend of his. He has gotten so good at lying that i cant tell when he is what do you all think!!!

2007-09-29 14:19:57 · 24 answers · asked by civiclady24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please, I need serious answers only. I am studying for a job as a relationship coach. The material we are being given in class says that a mans first awareness of a woman is based on how attractive she is. He suggests that a man would not even pursure a friendship with a woman unless he finds her attractive physically! Is that true? Think of all you female friends, did you initially find them attractive and was that the motivation to pursue getting to know them better?

Serious answers only, please. I am studying for a final. Thanks guys, you rock for your honesty.

2007-09-29 14:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mystic Renegade 3 in Friends

2007-09-29 14:17:42 · 21 answers · asked by worknmomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-29 14:16:31 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Weddings

ok.....so first i go to private school, then public school, then volleyball, then soccer, then homework, then shower, then bed. I don't even have time to eat anymore. Between classes i try to squeeze in homework. i don't even consider lunch. i have to do homework. O...and plus a boyfriend. I refuse to give up the sports. each team doesn't have enough players and if i drop out they loose the team. my bfs to sweet to break up with......but i never get to see him. :p-( and my parents are freaking.......o and im in the 7th grade!!!

2007-09-29 14:16:29 · 15 answers · asked by boycraze_411 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in 9th grade and my paretns are telling me i have to STUDY more in the 10th grade so thy wont let me play, what can i do? to convince them to let me?

2007-09-29 14:15:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a bunch of married gals went out on the town for the weekend and one of them spent the nite with a guy she met, would you tell her husband or your own husband?
Would you still b friends with her?

2007-09-29 14:13:10 · 22 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 14:12:34 · 3 answers · asked by dreamweaver 7 in Family

What does stallion mean???? in reference to my boyfriend ...oh yea he is not Italian so ....I will tell you what happened!



Ok so last night my boyfriend went out to the club ..and he never came home ..but the friends he was with came to my and my boyfriends house and slept here ..they all went in the same car so ...well let me get to the point ..my boyfriend showed up the next morning and said he "slept at his cousins" which i hardly doubt ...well anyways ..all of his friends are calling him "STALLION" ever since last night ..they never used to call him that ever ...and my boyfriend isn't Italian so why do you think they are calling him that ??????????????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANKS!

2007-09-29 14:12:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is your opinion? do you think its a good idea?

2007-09-29 14:08:11 · 10 answers · asked by shabana b 1 in Weddings

i mean he is so cute.
i find him looking at me and sometimes smiling. he looks a lot.

we have talked and one time he was asking me a question, the girl in front of me answered and he looked disapointted that i wasnt the one telling him his answer.

and another time, we were in groups and i had to go across the room it seemed that he followed me and was pretending to do work but then i looked at him and he ran away.

so what do you think


he is so cute and i think i would date him if he asked

2007-09-29 14:06:48 · 9 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Singles & Dating

wut does a guy think wen a grl beats him at arm wrestling? r they turned off, and does it make them h8 u cuz they cant beat u-plz help

2007-09-29 14:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by sshhhiesttt 2 in Singles & Dating

has anyone ever ead the book what is a happily ever after anyway

if not does anyone know of any books that like the girl gets pregnatat like 16 and the guys wants to stay with her yeno fun books about stuff like that

i really want one i just read that book and i loved it an wanted another one just like it

idc how long it is or short

plz somone actually answer plz

2007-09-29 14:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by [(:] 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there is this guy that used to like me, and i never really liked him, and then he decided he didnt want to like me anymore, but now i like him! its not juts becasue i miss getting the attention , im always on his facebook looking at his pictures or reading about his things or what ever. i know kinda creepy but i really like him. there is this other girl there who kinda seems to like him too!:'( i dont know what to do. and also i know this isnt good but, if he were to ask me out, i might even say no! just because i dont want other to think of how i went out with him! hes kinda. less popular, and more loserish > hes kinda annoying, shorter (2 inchesish, but i dont care, im not that shallow), and people just dont like him that much. i went out with him for a VERY short period of time in the past and people gave me alot of shi* for doing it, so i dont know if i should tell him i like him, or what!

please help me!

2007-09-29 14:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by ain't nobody but me.. 2 in Singles & Dating

at the homecoming we were suppost help work the snakc bar for 40 minutes . i was 5 minutes late and she got so pissed at me and went to some people and told them all this crap and its the next day and she is still mad
shes making the biggest deal ever about me being 5 minutes late
does this seem right
?

2007-09-29 14:05:22 · 14 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Friends

where he has been. He tells me I am crazy but the feelings are so strong.

2007-09-29 14:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hear stories of guys lasting 30 seconds etc on their first time... surely it's possible for some guys to take it off a bit better than that from imitating porn or just trying hard not to be crap?

2007-09-29 14:05:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i've known this girl for about a month and we talk everyday ever since.. she was single at first so we started to get to know eachother, and now apperantly she has a new boyfriend. which is kinna a kick in the *****. The thing is i dont know how to react cuzz she's still all friendly and all but i really dont wanna do anything and have her turn me down. this one day i saw her with her boyfriend and her reaction was all weird like she ignored me then, so i kinna said hi and looked like an idiot.. well next day shes all touching me and well its really confusing.. i actually have a thing for her but at the same time i cant do anything,, should i just ignore her or actually got for it..

2007-09-29 14:04:23 · 19 answers · asked by obelisk005 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think about this quote?

2007-09-29 14:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by shabana b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-29 14:02:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 14:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend always goes places with not enough money. and expects me to pay for her
like one time we went to the movies
and she brought $5
a movie is 6.50
then she asked me for a 3.50 slushie
and i always pay for food when we go out cause she has none.
i get $10 a week for lunch at school
and im always out by wednesday cause i have to pay for her cause she throws out her lunch!
she says shes low on money but it sure dosent look like it,
when me and my family are REALLY REALLY low on money.
my mom said our friendship is ending fast cause of this..
and she got mad at me and told me that shes not going to homecoming and is going to pay me the $60 dollars her mom is going to give her for it.
but now im stuck with noone to hangout with at homecoming
what do i do?

2007-09-29 14:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Friends

I like this boy named Mark,i had been flirting with him for multiple weeks and i have known him for a long time. We are going VERY slow, but i like him.
Then Friday night as i am helping with the cheerleading activities because i am on JV, I hang out with this boy, Josh, when i am off duty, who i talked to minorly last year. He was very flirtatious with me and we were very physical with each other. NOT in the explicit way, just hugging, being very close to each other, etc.The thing is that He flirts with other girls, but that night it was all about me mostly, and he gave a hug to two girls who were his ex's but it was brief. We stayed close to each other all night but when he has a relationship its brief. I just don't want to get hurt.
*I try to remember what it feels like when my heart was broken so i dont do it to others.*
Who should i pick, someone who goes REALLY SLOW, who i am not very sure i like anymore, or someone who i have STRONG feeling for in a brief amount of time?

2007-09-29 14:00:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 14:00:00 · 5 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Family

its my grandmas annaversery, my grandpa died almost a year ago, my grandma alwys brings up topics that i am not comfortable with, i really am not ready to talk to my grandma about papa (my grandpa) i am spending the night, tomorrow we will go to church and the car is her main place to talk, so wadda i do? i am driving home after church, but yeah, wadda i do

2007-09-29 13:58:51 · 14 answers · asked by Dr. Seuss 4 in Family

Through a paternity test, my boyfriend just found out last week that he is a father of a newborn. We are engaged to be married in a few months and I am having a hard time dealing with this unexpected situation. I am also disappointed in him because he is still denying that the child is his and is refusing to be in the child's life because the woman was in a relationship and had also accused another man as being the father. Should I go on with marrying him or move on?

2007-09-29 13:56:55 · 22 answers · asked by kakes 1 in Weddings

Early this month I told everone my situation with this girl I was dating. Most everone out there told me to tell her the truth and I did it. She walk away from me about 2 weeks ago heard from her recently. she still wants to be friends with benefits with me.Honestly is the best policy MY QUESTION TO YOU ALL do you think she might try to trap me or try something more revenge full towards me?

2007-09-29 13:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by John g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-29 13:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by jslostpains 1 in Weddings

If you could have a woman that was abosolutely perfect in every way for you, what would she be like? Physical features, morals, what kind of things would she do to make you happy? I want to be the "trophy wife" and I think I am getting close but I need some input from other men so I can try to be even better. (My husband loves me and all, but he works so hard and is so wonderful, I just want to live up to my potential and I know there are more ways I can improve). Thank you and God Bless :)

2007-09-29 13:43:57 · 16 answers · asked by ilovemyssgt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

IM ALWAYS STUCK BEING THE CAKEPASSER OUTER OR THE PROGRAM PASSER OUTER AND SO ON!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-29 13:43:33 · 5 answers · asked by Diamond shine 2 in Weddings