Early this month I told everone my situation with this girl I was dating. Most everone out there told me to tell her the truth and I did it. She walk away from me about 2 weeks ago heard from her recently. she still wants to be friends with benefits with me.Honestly is the best policy MY QUESTION TO YOU ALL do you think she might try to trap me or try something more revenge full towards me?
2007-09-29 13:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by John g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I been seeing this girl for the last month and a half. last night I hit the jackpot with her more then once. She's a sweat girl however I DONT WANT to hurt her feelings I want to keep her on the sidelines for a while but I dont want to be to obvious doing it. I also dont want her to know what Im trying to do either. When I was first seeing her I knew 2 month earlier she had a bad break up with her boyfriend I dont want to dump her totally I dont want to screw with her head either. I just want too keep her on the shelf for a while to give me sometime to see If I still want to go with her. She's wants to buy me rollerblades at modells for me so we can go skating In the park together. I think she wants a relationship like a couple like she had with her last boyfriend. I dont know what I want to do with her right now In all honestly I just wanted to have sex and I did. I respect this girl I dont want to HURT HER FEELINGS. any advice
2007-09-29 13:55:58 · update #1
I KNOW GIRLS CAN BE VERY DECEITFUL!!!
2007-09-29 14:13:20 · update #2
i honestly think that you're a player and a user and you deserve what you have coming to you, ESP if you hurt her knowing all that she's been through....she might be deceitful but SERIOUSLY she might be after a real relationship and you are leading her on....
2007-10-07 13:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. It is guys like you that make it hard for most of the rest of us. If you say really respect her, and you don't, you'd tell her the truth (as you say you are a truthful person). Tell her you really don't care to have any relationship with her. If you are worried that she will extract some pay back, she sure might if she finds out you were just stringing her along as a delayed "hump and dump". She will certainly feel more hurt and used and more likely to want to get some pay back because she will feel more the fool than she would if you just be honest and tell her you played her and she was dumb enough to fall for it (as all too many girls are). If you are friends make it certain there is no sex involved and gifts only for b-days Christmas etc, and set a dollar limit.
2007-10-07 20:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the saying "what goes around comes around like a donut" well if not, it is something to live by, I think you are so wrong, how could you hurt someone like that just for your own gratification? Most people do have feelings and emotions and apparently YOU DONT. You should be ashamed of what you have done, and you should be more ashamed to even tell anyone what you have done!! The heart is the most important and valuable thing of a human, and you have tried to destroy one. That is what causes low self-esteem and problems in people when they are done like you did her. Then everyone gets upset when she shows signs of what you have done, I am really saddened by what you have done and I hope that you learn from this, I hope that one day you feel bad for what you have done and decide to never ever do it to another human again. I hope your conscience rides you to the point of no return.
2007-10-07 20:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by smilie9862 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes hoping that this friends with benifits could possible turn into something more. Havent you ever watch "True Life: Friends with Benifits" on MTV. Both situations ended up the same. One peson always wanted something more.
2007-09-29 21:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well with females they tend to let the emotional override their physical state when it comes to sex. If sex is all you're wanting then you need to just be straigh forward with her and tell her this so she doesn't think there's more going on between you. For us females there's a deep connection when we're involved sexually with a man, there's more emotion to it for us than there is from men.
2007-10-07 20:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by angel_baby0824 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. Maybe she wants you to get her pregnant or something... Just be careful, some girls can be really deceitful....
2007-09-29 20:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by browneyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe maybe not. You just got to let it all play out. besides if she does get revenge you can always get yours too. im sure you will think of something.
2007-09-29 20:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by MissMystery17 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HOPE SHE DOSE GET REVENGE AND GETS IT GOOD. YOU SEED SHE WAS A SWEET GIRL YET YOU WORK HER FOR OVER A MONTH JUTS TO GET IT ONCE THEN YOU WANT RID OF HER,YOUR SCUM AND YOU DESERVE THE WORST OF WHAT YOU GOT COMING TO YOU.SEE YOU IN HELL BRO
2007-10-07 20:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by br549242 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey a**hole, if you didn't want to hurt her feelings you shouldn't have taken advantage of her.
2007-10-07 20:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋