2007-09-29 14:12:34 · 3 answers · asked by dreamweaver 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if you spoiled them and could never say no, you shall learn now. let them do their own mistakes, have a hard time and they`ll turn around. but you have to be strong, it`s not easy to let your own kids lives it`s own trouble but you shall do, it`s the only way to learn. you can only learn from mistakes not from successes
2007-09-29 23:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what my mom told me......
"The day you move out of this house, you're on your own."
and I have been since I was 16. I've been married 9 years. I have no children. Bought my first house when I was 20, and got an education.
I know it may sound a little harsh, but they were the best words I have ever heard. She is a great mother, and we are very close. She taught me that I don't get handouts, and I HAVE to make it. I did..... and it feels great that I did it on my own.
2007-09-29 23:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Y U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your grown up are irressposible its YOUR FAULT And now its to late to raise them
2007-09-29 22:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋