where he has been. He tells me I am crazy but the feelings are so strong.
2007-09-29 14:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hire a Private investigator.....
2007-09-29 14:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are overreacting. An alibi is just a paranoid way of saying "a good reason." If you really don't trust him, hire a private investigator to track him down when he is out with an alibi.
2007-09-29 14:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALERT most of those feeling are right cause the partner knows the husband and his routine, what he like, etc and if he change something drastic in his routine that means is something is wrong such as he is taking more time to clean up, exersice, working late when before he doesn't, the new style of his clothes, the way he express, etc. Watch your back and your husband.
2007-09-29 14:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Charmed_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he treating you differently? Wearing colgne when he normally doesn't? Do you make love less often? Or did you seldom to begin with? Trust your intuition. It's usually right unless you are terribly insecure.
If you are 90% sure and this is unacceptable to you hire a private investigator. He'll get to the bottom of it. Good luck!
2007-09-29 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Marissa M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is sad, but you should follow him if you are ready to handle the truth. Most of us are very perceptive about the behavior changes of the men we live with. If your gut tells you yes, and his behavior tells you yes, then you owe it to yourself to find the answer. Confronting him will not help, you must catch him. Even when you catch him, he will deny it happened. You deserve to know, so you can get on with life. Life is short, don't allow yourself to be second best to anyone's selfishness.
2007-09-29 14:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you go out and find a nice alabi for where you'd been? I wonder if he'd notice? If that's the case, what's the point of your marriage? Ask him, what's the point of you staying married to him, if he doesn't ever want to be around you?
2007-09-29 14:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Xanadu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your intuition is really screaming out at you... and your intuition is always right. Sounds like before you start accusing, try to do some of your own homework (aka spying) ... cell phone bills, computer history, times/dates he is gone, go through his car if possible... I sincerely hope you find nothing!!! Take care and good luck.
2007-09-29 14:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by MOI 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm thats a tough one, maybe you can try spying on him! i know that sounds immature, but if your feelings are real strong then you need to know. but only if you are basing it on very good reasons, and you arent jsut some pycho jealous wife
2007-09-29 14:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by LuckyMama06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to marriage therapy.
2007-09-29 14:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
peter, you have a husband????? Which state did you get married????
Is this a joke?
2007-09-29 14:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Matigas 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋