ok, so there is this guy that used to like me, and i never really liked him, and then he decided he didnt want to like me anymore, but now i like him! its not juts becasue i miss getting the attention , im always on his facebook looking at his pictures or reading about his things or what ever. i know kinda creepy but i really like him. there is this other girl there who kinda seems to like him too!:'( i dont know what to do. and also i know this isnt good but, if he were to ask me out, i might even say no! just because i dont want other to think of how i went out with him! hes kinda. less popular, and more loserish > hes kinda annoying, shorter (2 inchesish, but i dont care, im not that shallow), and people just dont like him that much. i went out with him for a VERY short period of time in the past and people gave me alot of shi* for doing it, so i dont know if i should tell him i like him, or what!
please help me!
2007-09-29 14:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by ain't nobody but me.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU NEED HELP! GROW UP!! YES..... YOU ARE THAT SHALLOW!
This guy likes you? ha!
He must not know you!
You need to look in the mirror, Your not all that!
If I can see this..... Be sure he will too!!!!
2007-09-29 14:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really don't know what you want. One minute you like him, and the next you don't. It also sounds like your still very influenced by what other people think. It takes a lot of time to learn that everyone else doesn't know whats best for you. Those same people who are judging you, because your dating a less "popular" guy, are probably the same people who will end up in bad relationships themselves. Follow your heart. If you don't know what it's saying then it's best you take some time to figure it out.
2007-09-29 14:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a clear answer but I have given the question to the Lord just like you. Then when its time I go on my feelings not what makes the most sense sometimes. I believe the Holy spirit is in me so I go with that. Its easy to tell if you chose wisely or not. Remember even if you screw up and you make the wrong decisions God can still bless that path and if God wants you someplace you will find your way back around.
2016-05-17 06:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last one, you're playing games and there's nothing worse than someone playing games in a relationship. Either you like him or you don't. AND don't like him because you find out that someone else is interested. That's lame. Well, what I would do if I were you is leave it alone and let the chips fall where they may.
2007-09-29 14:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by for7949 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say, except that all of this drama is giving me a headache. You sound very confused though. But I can say, that if you rattle on like you did here when you are with him ... it is understandable why he runs from you.
2007-09-29 14:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BITE THE BULLET and go out with him.
He MIGHT turn out to become very Popular and who can he then give credit? - YOU!
Stop being so superficial!
2007-09-29 14:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a life changing decision. This is petty high school crush stuff.
2007-09-29 14:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should it's tha best thing to do
2007-09-29 14:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-29 14:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋