If a bunch of married gals went out on the town for the weekend and one of them spent the nite with a guy she met, would you tell her husband or your own husband?
Would you still b friends with her?
2007-09-29 14:13:10 · 22 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, No and No. Just stay out of it!! No one will likely believe you, anyway. Try picking pickier friends.
2007-09-29 14:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by loggerswife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well lets not jump to conclusions are you great friends that would do anything for? (Oh yes I am a guy... over 50) Is her marrige in trouble? Do you guys go away like this often? If yes then did any of you mess around ever? Now lets get to the nitty gritty. What has anyone to gain by squeeling on her? Do you guys havema,mgreat mtime when you go away? Well you know that no matter how you tell your husband, he will read more into it and no more getting maway with the girls, Then there is the family you are going to break up and there probably are kids involved.... I am a man and I* would not want to know that my mwife did this and what I dont know sure is mnot going to hurt me... Please all get togethe talk this one out.... Please dont do anything stupid... Good luck... Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-07 20:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a woman but I would imagine a wife would tell her husband.... any woman who has a normal sound relationship with her husband in my opinion must tell him everything, thats how women are... thats their natural instinct.
Now whether she should tell her husband is a different matter altogether... maybe not!! just because you are married doesnt mean you cant be loyal/faithful to your female friends and keep their secrets.
Again!! If I was a woman, I would stay friends with her.... yes she cheated on her husband, yes! she was unloyal but do I know what goes on behind closed doors in their house? do I know what her husband does when he is out/away?
2007-10-07 19:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by aqua_colgate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell!! if she wants to tell thats her own business. i would stay friends with her but if you cant let this go and it is getting in the way of your friendship with her then slowly ease out the friendship. just say that you are busy when she calls or make up something else. but i definately wouldn't tell her husband. i wouldn't tell my husband either. if it happened one time and she'll never see him again or sleep with him again then what her husband doesnt know wont hurt him. if she wants to tell him she should assure him that she will never do this again and that she sincerely loves him.
2007-10-07 09:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by jody g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her behavior is her own and what she's done is a guilt she will have to live with. I would not tell her husband, as it is not my business. I'd be her friend but I would not welcome any requests for my advice on this situation from her because it again, is not my business. This is someone else's marriage; someone else's life. Be a good listener but keep your mouth shut.
2007-09-29 22:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is sorry for what she did, I would consider being her friend if she is not sorry dump her. I had a friend like that and I wished I dumped her a long time ago. I felt like telling her husband and now he passed away and at a very young age.
2007-10-07 20:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by calm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my own husband, but not her husband. Their life is their own business, so I wouldn't want to interfere. The act would probably lower my opinion of her, which would have an impact on our friendship. But I doubt that I would just cut her off altogether.
2007-09-29 21:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the phrase is What happening in Vega STAYS in Vegas. mind your business. if you are so upset with talk to your friend and let her knew that she totally disrespected your relationship with her and she put you in a precarious position. but mind your business dont tell your husband nothing its not his business either. GodBless
2007-10-07 20:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely tell my husband. but I'm honestly not sure if I'd be brave enough to tell hers. he certainly deserves to know that his wife has cheated on him though.
and our friendship would be over. if she'd cheat on her husband, there's no telling what else she would do. and you really don't want to be associated with someone who doesn't have any self respect, respect for her husband, or her for her marriage.
what she did was low. and I really feel sorry for her husband.
I'd definitely stay away from her from now on. you know what they say, if you wallow with the pigs, you're going to get dirty.
2007-09-29 21:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would not say anything to her husband, but you can tell her that you don't think what she did was right. She will have to live with her own guilt.
2007-10-07 18:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by browneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.
2007-10-06 20:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by shaigirl559 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋