I like this boy named Mark,i had been flirting with him for multiple weeks and i have known him for a long time. We are going VERY slow, but i like him.
Then Friday night as i am helping with the cheerleading activities because i am on JV, I hang out with this boy, Josh, when i am off duty, who i talked to minorly last year. He was very flirtatious with me and we were very physical with each other. NOT in the explicit way, just hugging, being very close to each other, etc.The thing is that He flirts with other girls, but that night it was all about me mostly, and he gave a hug to two girls who were his ex's but it was brief. We stayed close to each other all night but when he has a relationship its brief. I just don't want to get hurt.
*I try to remember what it feels like when my heart was broken so i dont do it to others.*
Who should i pick, someone who goes REALLY SLOW, who i am not very sure i like anymore, or someone who i have STRONG feeling for in a brief amount of time?
2007-09-29 14:00:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, you say that you like mark, but things are just going very slow. then at the end, you say that you're not very sure you like him anymore. so which is it? do you like mark or not? you have to answer that question for yourself.
then concerning the other guy, josh, you say he's basically a big flirt, who sounds like he enjoys the company of anything female!
guys like josh are fun to hang out with, but don't get your hopes up. he will break your heart, and you'll end up being just another ex-girlfriend who he gives hugs to in his spare time.
I'm not sure that either of these guys are right for you. take some time to think about it. and remember, you don't have to make any major decisions!
I think it might be best if you just keep your options open. then, if you happen to meet someone new and realize that he makes you forget all about mark and josh, you'll be free to be with him.
Good Luck! = )
2007-09-29 14:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both boys are young and just having fun. The truth be known there's a girl right next door to his house he likes.....or down the street or a sister or cousin to a friend that he sees once in awhile.
Boys at this age would like any woman walking down the street in her bikini? To them this would be fantastic. Don't get too caught up in this mind game.
The one guy is very flirtatious probably Most of the time with many girls. Don;t take him serious. Don;t fall for the charms. He uses this on many girls.
Be smart.
2007-09-29 21:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for Mark, y? because having a guy to be slow is good cause not a girl wanna go too fast of a relationship. Y not josh? well because his a flirt guy, but u flirt with Mark right? so sooner or later u will have a stronger feeling for Mark.
2007-09-29 21:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by lily c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the flirty guy very carefully . if he is touchy, feely, huggy, with generally everybody that may be a family trait. he may just come from an affectionate family.; dont think he likes u especially,; also i met one guy every girl he met he would give them an hello hug as he was being introduced to them , women have weakness to being touched. and this was a pick-up technique, an easy way to getting telephone numbers and anything else he wanted. women our skin is very sensitive
and this how we are arroused, and bond with others. so be careful and keep your eyes open.
2007-09-29 21:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by carrie ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. If he's so flirtatious with people, you might get YOUR feelings hurt, not his. As for the slowpoke, you should make the first move! Who do you get along better with? Who do you have more fun with?
2007-09-29 21:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck
2007-09-29 21:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since neither one of them is offering you anything, what is there to choose from?
2007-09-29 21:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do em all! Get as much as you can as soon as possible!
2007-09-29 21:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dead Monkeys On The Wall 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋