If you could have a woman that was abosolutely perfect in every way for you, what would she be like? Physical features, morals, what kind of things would she do to make you happy? I want to be the "trophy wife" and I think I am getting close but I need some input from other men so I can try to be even better. (My husband loves me and all, but he works so hard and is so wonderful, I just want to live up to my potential and I know there are more ways I can improve). Thank you and God Bless :)
2007-09-29 13:43:57 · 16 answers · asked by ilovemyssgt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you have already reached your goal to me. I wish that I would have even been so lucky to have found somebody who would even ask .
2007-09-29 14:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by farmboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A trophy wife is a thing She is a trophy and will receive as much love as the Rolex or the sports car. To be be the best wife you must first be the best you. You must be loyal, loving, honest, motivated and selfless as a person. You must be healthy attractive and vibrant woman. Once you have become the best you. Then you give yourself to him. He and only he can make the determination of how much he values you. Be careful on molding yourself to an others wants. You may dilute your true self.... good luck
2007-09-29 20:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Savage Henry 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband probably married you because he likes you just the way you are. Making any drastic changes in your appearance or behavior may not be so pleasing to him. Not that there is anything wrong with self-improvement, I'm just saying that he probably already thinks you are a "trophy wife".
2007-09-29 21:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,,Donna Reed, Racquel Welsh,Jennifer Anniston,,, Betty Crocker, Susie Q.
2007-09-29 20:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget being a 'trophy wife' (unless you are 15 to 20 years younger than you potential spouse).
Your guy obviously loves you just the way you are. My advice...try not to change too much. Try to spend as much quality time together as possible (espcially once you have children *IMPORTANT*). Grow together...not apart.
My perfect woman? My girlfriend...completes me...we compliment each other. We may not always 'see eye-to-eye', but we 'agree to disagree'. I will admit that her looks caught my eye, but her inner beauty has kept me enthralled.
Good Luck!
2007-09-29 20:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by CajunAsian 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you might have the wrong understanding of what a trophy wife is.... but in any matter.... maybe you should ask your husband specifically.... he might not be into the things that guys on y!a are into.... or you can just start trying new things that you think he might like.... (like if you think he's lacking something... then try to pick up!) i know my guy wishes i would be more submissive.... and i try... but sometimes it doesn't go right... LoL.... but good luck to you... and congratulations on your happy marriage...!
2007-09-29 21:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, she would look like a supermodel with absolutely no physical flaws. She would be brilliant, holding several advanced degrees and have established international acclaim for her accomplishments. She would be creative, being accomplished in music and the arts. She would be wealthy and finanically astute. She would be entertaining and intuitive. She would be appropriate and engaging in every way. She would find him to be the sexiest man alive and be entirely in tune with his every wish and fantasy. Her skills in the bedroom would make even the most experienced "professional" blush with envy. She would never age in her appearance, finding every way to maintain her youth.
In other words, silly question.
2007-09-29 21:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tim B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would he be a "trophy" husband for you? if you haven't considered that now,would you consider he might be that for you in the future?If so,stop trying so hard,and just be there for him like he would be there for you. Be supportive. But most of all ,be a friend and confidant.
2007-09-29 20:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I read between the lines, you are thinking that you will be loved more if you are "perfect." This indicates conditional love, a love based on performance and appearance. Unconditional love ("I love you no matter what") is what good marriages are built on. It comes from a personal degree of security in oneself and in the love shared with the spouse.
Just be a quality person, a woman of integrity, who takes care of herself and her family and puts her husband as SECOND most important in her life, with only God before him.
2007-09-29 21:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bob T 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that really depends on the individual guy. It's so subjective. In my case, I think the main thing is that I know she made selfless sacrifices of herself for me just as I would do for her. In terms of morals, I would just want her to be a caring person, with more good inside than bad. Loyalty and honesty are important too.
2007-09-29 20:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by the Boss 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some 1 feeding you a bill of goods there's always issues> The harder you try the more obsessed your going to be ay perfection then you won't ever get there> How about being yourself it more fun>>He likes you for you >
2007-09-29 20:51:00 · answer #11 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋