Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

I live in Britain. But I am an Asian. What do westerners think of Chinese girls? Small eyes, flat nose, brown skin tone, I want to know under westerners' eyes, the most beautiful chinese girl's look is in what way?
Very sad, I have none of those characteristics. I am the opposite.
On the other hand, apart from chinese, I noticed that some foreigners's wife is Philipino or Thai who is brown skin, long black straight hair, very sexy.
What are the beautiful apperance and characteristics of Asians under their eyes? I want to change my look to be their cup of tea.

2007-09-29 18:05:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 5 yrs, together for 12 yrs. First boyfriend at 20. I want to get out of this mariage for various reasons..i am just very unhappy..too detailed to get into here and explain whole situation. My question is how do i move out or start again? Do i sell the house or rent it out? How do i finally take the step to move out? Every year that goes past i say i will do it but hothing happens..i guess i dont have the confiednce of what is out there..pls help as i just dont know how to do this..pls pls give me some helpful advice...thanks

2007-09-29 18:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

married 5.5 yrs. he is 10 yrs older very fit and in great shape!! treats me well. respectful ect. good to my kids and parents (who aren't well and live with us.) great guy kinda lazy but... has No sex drive!! well, maybe 3 or 4 times in 2yrs. he went to dr. got viagra wont take it. we went to marriage counceling I told him i need intamentcy ya know some type of connection. and I will not wait forever. Well I have a friend who has been there to take care of me where my husband wont! I told my husband. he was upset but... says we will work through it. yippie he has decided to put out more hugs!!! I still feel ..god, I dont know bad. Am I wrong? If he dont want me to go elsewhere you would think he would at least try right? I tell him all the time he is just a man who sleeps in my bed!! we have no real connection. I feel stuck in a no win situation. help!!!!!

2007-09-29 17:59:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My name is Harriet, my boyfriend always complains about the monkey hair on my nipples. I don't mind the hair. Guys, should I let them grow out or pluck them? A girl needs some male advice...

2007-09-29 17:58:38 · 10 answers · asked by diamond mind 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy who i work with who always talks to me and i feel as if we're friends. however, i asked him tonight was we friends and at first he said yeah but then after that he said we're close work associates............then he said don't get it twisted...........so i still don't know the answer to the question..........what do yall think? do you think i should ask for a clarification?

2007-09-29 17:55:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been divorced for 15 years and my ex-wife has full custody of my daughter. She does not have legal guardianship but I think she is applying. My 21 year old daughter is handicapped and is uncapable of making decisions for herself. My question is what are my chances now of getting joint custody of my daughter and how long will it take and approx how much does it cost. I live in NY now but my divorce was from Florida. I would like to hear answers from attorneys or people familiar with family law. THANKS>

2007-09-29 17:46:14 · 9 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

do u like it when us girls smoke weed or cigs...or is it just nasty....wat do you think???

2007-09-29 17:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by He gives me butterfly's 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been staying out till 4 or 5 am almost every friday or saturday for the past 6 months! I am getting tired of it. I have tried talking to him on several occasions only to have it happen again. I even took my daughter and left for a week. He was good for a couple of weeks but now he's at it again! I have done all of the talking I'm going to do- What do you think I should do? I want to leave and get a divorce but what do you think?

2007-09-29 17:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by paulalinettegarrison 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well my question is how can i make ma love higher level cuz i'm tierd to cry every single day and it'g getting boared lol so plz help me out thnx every1

2007-09-29 17:32:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for almost ten years. We have healthy happy children. We are active in our church. I love him, he makes me happy. However, every time the opportunity presents, for example, out of town at a work conference, out with my girlfriends etc, I have the distinct and almost irresistible urge to have an affair. I don't want to end my marriage, I don't want a long term affair, but I want to have sex with other people. I have crossed several lines more than once, though never had intercourse with anyone else. This is not how I see myself, and the guilt always makes me physically ill for several days following the incident. I vow that it is just too much to deal with and the thought of hurting him sickens me. Yes, once again I was at a conference, and there were several attractive men, and I ended up in one of their hotel room. I know it is wrong, but yet, it keeps happening, I feel as though I am losing my mind. I am deeply disturbed by my actions and need advice.

2007-09-29 17:27:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which characteristics below are turn ons and which are turn offs:
1. blonde hair
2. brunette
3. red head
4. brown eyes
5. green eyes
6. blue eyes
7. skinny
8. average
9. chubby
10. ahtletic
11. sweet
12. smart
13. attends good college
14. like rock
15. likes rap
16. likes pop
17. glasses
18. contacts/no glasses
19. experience
20. innocent/inexperiences

2007-09-29 17:25:15 · 2 answers · asked by kiisclubvip1 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this good friend and lots of people think that we would make a good couple because we have a lot of chemestry, however im hesitant because i dont want to risk ruining our friendship. Any one have any advice?

2007-09-29 17:21:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend, julia shared with me recently that she had sex for the first time over the summer. shes only 13, and i dont think she was ready, even though she said she was.

my question is, how do i tell her what shes done is wrong and stupid w/o hurting her and making her not trust me?

2007-09-29 17:16:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dont forget im only 14

2007-09-29 17:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by jassyjmp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when a guy uses that word and says, "i want something LONG LASTING with you.."

2007-09-29 17:02:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with a man for going on 10 years and love him very much...he has never been an emotionaly supportive guy. and i have always thaught when we were younger that it was ok, but now we are dealing with more adult life issues and thaught he would be muture enough to realize when i needed this kind of support. any tips on how to get him to be on sort of the same level of emotion?

2007-09-29 16:55:12 · 3 answers · asked by reddheadnurse 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been on disability for some time so I haven't worked for some time. I go do the YMCA every day to exercise in the pool (I do physical therapy and rehab daily) and I go to medical appointments. I haven't really been able to find a church that I feel comfortable yet. In general I always do better in social situations where we are actually DOING something than one where we sit in a circle and I'm supposed to talk at the right time and everything. I always seem to blow it. (don't follow the conversation that well).

some people suggest doing volunteer work, and I"m doing a few things, but it doesn't make much sense to deliver meals on wheels when I am GETTING MEALS ON WHEELS. see what I mean? but it's a very isolating experience. And I guess I'm just going to be very lonely until I can get on my feet better. My wife died, my family is out of state and I have nobody here. I cared for my wife and I really didn't get to know anyone all that time. trying very hard...

2007-09-29 16:49:36 · 1 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Friends

I find myself falling into the same pattern: I'm in a committed relationship. At some point during work I make small talk with a girl. Not to flirt with her, but just because I find it easier to talk to girls. I don't feel the pressure of having to be manly man because really I'm not. I don't enjoy sports and I'm basically that dick in a jar type of guy who girls confess all their problems to. So anyway, sometimes I would befriend a girl who is extremely attractive. And as much as I love my girlfriend (and she really is my soul mate), that feeling of attraction creeps in and I realize that yes, I'm officially attracted to a particular female friend. At that point, my first reaction is to get real and end the friendship immediately then go out with a guy to a bar and get **** faced. However, what the hell do I tell this girl? "Uh, I'm sorry we can't speak because I can't be friends with hot girls" What the hell is wrong with me? Thank you!

2007-09-29 16:46:29 · 9 answers · asked by That guy... 1 in Singles & Dating

i was sitting down at work and my guy friend started to play with my hair.. i told him to stop but then he kept doing it and then and told him to stop again and he was like"im just braiding ur hair" and then i told him to stop again and then he was like "okay fine" and he stopped and was laughing after...anyways does this mean anything?..we are 16 btw

2007-09-29 16:40:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does anyone know why my tongue hurts, and what are some ways to stop the pain. I was french kissing a lot last night, is it possible I sprained it or something....what do you suppose happened, and how do I stop the pain

2007-09-29 16:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok here is the situation: there is this guy that ive been in love with since the 1st day that ive met him.we were friends for 3 yrs. and then we dated. and then like 8 months after we've dated.he broke up wit me. but we still remained friends. but i still had feelins for him. so i told him how i felt. now he's tellin me that he needs space. he said he's not cutting me out of his life but he just need some space.what ever the **** that means. how could he do this to me. i ve been down for him for too damn long just to throw it all away like that. i miss him so much it's driving me crazy help me?????????

2007-09-29 16:36:48 · 1 answers · asked by blkdiva360 2 in Singles & Dating

okay first my mom recieves my phone bill i went over the texting limit. but its not my fault because this unkwown number kept texting me and i would reply saying stop.. so thats how i went over my limit..okay now some how on the bill it says that i talk on the phone with that number for about 69 minutes. and i didnt she doesnt believe me what do i do.. i need help im in big trouble for no reason

2007-09-29 16:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by Lil D 1 in Friends

2007-09-29 16:33:18 · 4 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is at college right now and im still a senior in highschool. Well every saturday nite they go to this kids apartment and hang out. Well hes not gonna be home for another few hours but i really miss him (only see him about every 3 weeks) and kinda wanna talk to him before i go to sleep. Do you think id be bothering him if i call? I mean he can step outside for a few minutes and talk to me right? We talked today and for a minute before he left but i just want 5 minutes. It should be okay right?

2007-09-29 16:32:10 · 5 answers · asked by hot_pink_sunsets 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i try to be myself but my family make it almost impossible to be myself around them. I have completely different interests then the rest of my family, i mean everyone is different. But my brothers, sisters and my parents are always bullying and laughing at me for what im interested in. For example i like the show Futurama but since no one else in my house does they all poke fun saying how can you like that show, its like this with everything. They poke fun at what i wear, what i watch on tv, what things im interested in. I just cant be myself.
I have tried talking to them and saying it hurts me when they are always putting me down but they just say they are being truthful and keep doing it. I now confine myself to my room all the time and i dont talk to anyone much about anything becuase im afraid they will be nasty to me. How can i be myself without being picked on all the time??

2007-09-29 16:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my spending limit is 35 dollars, she loves books but i dont really like to get her them b/c she has so many , she also loves disney but she owns pretty much everything in the store she also loves jewerly

2007-09-29 16:30:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex of about 2 yrs contacted me to see how was i doing. The point of him missing me came up and he told me i was a very cool person...to stay "golden". What did he mean by that??

2007-09-29 16:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in a month and when planning the guest list...had only 50 invitations to work with based on what my fiance and I can afford. We started with main family members (moms, dads, grandparents, aunts/uncles, and some cousins, and used the remainder for close friends. Now my family feels the need to upset me and critique the family members I did and didn't send an invite to. My fiance and I are paying for our own wedding so I think it's fair for us to invite who we want to spend the day with. Is this wrong of me to assume? My family brings along a lot of drama and I feel like my wedding day should be spent celebrating my fiance's and my relationship and committment....not arguing over distant relatives that didn't get an invitation. Ugh.

2007-09-29 16:26:02 · 34 answers · asked by Burned 1 in Weddings

dating someone who's turning 18 in january?

who has also confided in me that.. he has a history or depression and anger. and he's on antidepressants.

people have told me he's a pervert and is always sweet at first but then really pressures you to have sex with him

he told me he'd do nothing to hurt me

and he's sweet

but i find myself a little afraid of him ever since he told me his isssues

2007-09-29 16:24:44 · 57 answers · asked by lia 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my bf asked me to go to the movies
and well he said that he was expecting a kiss
well with all of my bfs i have never kissed them
so how should i kiss him at the movies

[[pleaz nothing rude i just want to know what i should do]]
thanks

2007-09-29 16:22:37 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Singles & Dating