What is a beautiful Chinese female look under British's or westerners' eyes?

Question

I live in Britain. But I am an Asian. What do westerners think of Chinese girls? Small eyes, flat nose, brown skin tone, I want to know under westerners' eyes, the most beautiful chinese girl's look is in what way?
Very sad, I have none of those characteristics. I am the opposite.
On the other hand, apart from chinese, I noticed that some foreigners's wife is Philipino or Thai who is brown skin, long black straight hair, very sexy.
What are the beautiful apperance and characteristics of Asians under their eyes? I want to change my look to be their cup of tea.

Maybe my problems are: no good figure, not tall- only 148 cm, too old (38), not beautiful enough (my eyes are brown and big, a small straight nose, some freckles, white to yellowish skin tone, high cheek bone, no long legs, Small breast!!!!, a Chinese) , I have no typical chinese look and only get small breast!!! helpless and hopeless!

my face shape is oval. I have long straignt black hair . I am petite in size.
I have no small flat almond shaped eyes. My eyes is brown and have double layer on eyebrow which make it look not small. I don't have to apply eyeliner to make it look bigger. I am very thin. I only weigh 38 kg.

Hi, Sexi lexi and others,
Lexi said: "My bf's ex was Asian. There was nothing pretty or exotic or sexy about her. She was rather plain. She wore no make up, had a huge nose, and flat face."
That is exactly I am worried about. Westerners seem to like the type of Chinese who got flat face, huge nose and consider as ugly even under chinese's eyes. You know, Chinese people can see that the type of Chinese girls which most westerners like are ugly, we found this phenomenon very common. I am not that type of "ugly" look, that is why I think I have no chance to meet a good western better half.

I suppose all of you here are westerners.
Any chinese female celebrities do you think are beautiful or have typical chinese look?

Answer 1

I'm sure you look beautiful. I am a white girl and I think white men find Asian women very exotic and sexy. It's a look that no European girl has. You do not have to be Thai or Phillipino or have dark skin. Wear make up that will accentuate the shape of your eyes. Grow out your hair to be long and wear it down often (no ponytails or buns). Wear clothes that bring out your figure. I'm sure that's something men will appreciate.

You sound very pretty! High cheek bones are considered very attractive. So is being thin. Big eyes can be sexy. You don't need big breasts if you are petite. You just need to be proportional. As for the age, just find an older Western man. For example, if you find a man who is in his 50s or 60s you are still going to be young to him.

But sometimes it's not so much about the physical look as it is about what we think the Asian culture is like that we find attractive.There is something mysterious to us about the Orient. We are attracted to the culture which appears reserved to us and therefore mysterious. And maybe a little bit dangerous in a sexy way.

But you also have to understand that some white men might be attracted to stereotypes of Asian women. The view some Europeans have of the Orient are colored by inaccurate portrayals in art and Hollywood. So make sure you are not dating a man who is fetishising a stereotype and not really trying to get to know you as an individual.

This websites talks about how Hollywood stereotypes Asians:

http://www.manaa.org/articles/stereo.html

http://eyecandy.ucsc.edu/archives/2006_spring/memoirs-of-a-geisha.html

The stereoypes are unfair but still color the way people see Asian cultures.

Answer 2

Beautiful Chinese Eyes

Answer 3

Aahh! Why are you so down on yourself? You are old enough to realise that beauty is in the eye of the beholder? You must have noticed there are millions of ugly females out there who have partners who love them regardless. Come on get some confidence

Answer 4

if you think you have to change your looks to be "there cup of tea" you are lacking in confidence big time as the saying goes its the inside that counts i found that people who goes by looks end up been the 1s on their own and ends up going for people with inner beauty and a good personality how offen can u say youve seen a "good looking couple" every1 has a unique look for a reason.

Answer 5

Tolkien described Orcs as "...squat, broad, flat-nosed, sallow-skinned, with wide mouths and slant eyes; in fact degraded and repulsive versions of the (to Europeans) least lovely Mongol-types."(Letter 210)

Answer 6

Don't change to be something you're not. You're beautiful for who you are, because everyone's different and unique -that's what makes a person individual. You need to know that before you decide to do anything. People should like you for who you are, not what you are.

Answer 7

She has small flat eyes which are almost almond-shaped. She has flawless silky skin, the colour of milky coffee. She has long raven-black glistening hair. She is very small and dainty but perfectly proportioned. There is something mysterious about her, which you can never fathom, like a pool of deep water at night.

Answer 8

stop the worry beauty comes from within

Answer 9

a lot of us have not contented of what we have, but we to be proud of what god gave us, because it is a gift. Be thankful that we are complete or normal.

Answer 10

I'm Taiwanese.
but i have large eyes w/ epidermal fold, skinny long nose, really pale skin, and cheekbones. people often mistake me for being half white, or, if i wear eyeliner, slavic. but i really think that it runs in the family, becuase i also have alot of european-looking people in my family.

on the other hhand, i have some asian (taiwanese) friends that match the stereotype. as i said, it depends on your genes