My husband has been staying out till 4 or 5 am almost every friday or saturday for the past 6 months! I am getting tired of it. I have tried talking to him on several occasions only to have it happen again. I even took my daughter and left for a week. He was good for a couple of weeks but now he's at it again! I have done all of the talking I'm going to do- What do you think I should do? I want to leave and get a divorce but what do you think?
2007-09-29 17:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by paulalinettegarrison 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You said, "I want to leave and get a divorce..." It truly doesn't matter what we think.
2007-09-29 18:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by 8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds familiar, is that just a typical man thing? well like you i used to sit and make myself angry but you only upset yourself. Sit and talk properly make him realise he has responsibilities at home as a husband and a father and not that he cant go out but he cant go on as if he's single, he has a family now and that should come first. But if your the one staying in every weekend while he enjoys himself is unfair. Plan a night out with friends without him and nights out with him when you can, he probably doesnt realise and just assumes you enjoy being at home?
whatever you do dont walk out when ur angry and assume you can scare him into changing. Talk it through and try make it work, dont think divorce is the first step. When the time comes and you have thought it through and really dont want to be with him no more... then pack his bags not yours!
2007-09-30 00:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a lover while your hubby was having fun outside the house. Let say, invite your gardener to stay with you in your house have fun with him until 4:00 AM while your husband doing his thing.
Or you might setdown the chair and open your PC online chatting until 4 AM.
2007-09-30 00:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is playing you for a fool, cause he thinks you wont do any thing about it, well guess what; your days of being walked on are over, you talked to him and he played by the rules for a couple of weeks , so now pack ya bags and move on get the hell away from him , you deserve better !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-30 00:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by bigdaddy9965 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some one watch your daughter and go with him. Stick to him like glue. Find out what he is up to. If he is cheating, divorce him.
2007-09-30 01:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get even? Well, get a divorce and take all he has! First though, you might think about hiring a P.I. to photograph his cummings, er, comings and goings so you can use it against him in court!
2007-09-30 00:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is he going? I mean if he is working the graveyard shift that is one thing. If he is having affairs and spending time at bars that is a big problem. You dont need to get aids.
2007-09-30 00:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by niffer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some money saved up, get an investigator to catch him in the act, keep your head on strait, and leave his ***. If you really want to piss him off sleep with one of his friends.
2007-09-30 00:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Codynova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest to him that the 2 of you go to marriage counseling. If he refuses to go to save the marriage, well, go from there as far as what you want the rest of your life to be like.
2007-09-30 01:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out yourself, get all pretty and go out with friends play his game if that doesn't work leave him and get a divorce you don't need his crap, neither does your daughter.
2007-09-30 00:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by concerned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋