ok.....so first i go to private school, then public school, then volleyball, then soccer, then homework, then shower, then bed. I don't even have time to eat anymore. Between classes i try to squeeze in homework. i don't even consider lunch. i have to do homework. O...and plus a boyfriend. I refuse to give up the sports. each team doesn't have enough players and if i drop out they loose the team. my bfs to sweet to break up with......but i never get to see him. :p-( and my parents are freaking.......o and im in the 7th grade!!!
2007-09-29 14:16:29 · 15 answers · asked by boycraze_411 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait until you get into college. : ) On a typical day I woke at 4:30am, commuted to work. Went to class at 1:30pm. Drove back home to wait tables until 11:00 and study my materials for the next day.
Your not alone, but you are young, and trust me, it doesn't get any easier. Make sure you take time for your boyfriend and your friends, while you still have it. Believe me, you do.
You say you don't have time. Sometimes this has to be something you plan in your schedule, and you have to be willing to make it.
2007-09-29 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you're either making it more complicated then it needs to be, or you're very dramatic. First, don't skip meals. It completely drains you of all your energy and that will only add to your stress. Second, I don't get why you go to two schools. At school use your lunch break to go to the library and eat lunch and do homework. I know you said you don't want to drop sports, but you're going to have to drop one of the teams. Six of my friends at school are on my soccer team and on the school volleyball team. The rest of our soccer team is pissed at them because we have to forfeit games due to volleyball.
2007-09-29 14:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Just Me ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do at your age is just cope.
Make a guy friend that you can talk to. Or talk to your girlfriends about your problems. (however just remember that anything you tell them is no longer a secret)
Its tough being young. things are only going to get tougher. if you can make it through the next few years you should be alright.
Boys come and go. Just remember Family is there for you no matter what.
Why not do your homework at home instead of talking to your boyfriend on the phone ? :P
2007-09-29 14:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by ghost_of_staley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww....just wait until you have to follow this schedule:
6am out of bed
6:15am - get 3 kids and hubby up, in the shower and dressed
7:15am - make breakfast
7:30am - do the breakfast dishes
7:45am - get everyone on the bus, to school, to work and drive to work yourself.
9am - 5pm - work all day
5pm - drive towards home
6:15pm - pick up kids from day care
6:45pm - get home, start dinner, listen to the kids' day
7pm - get kids started on homework
7:30pm - eat dinner
8pm - clean up kitchen, have kids finish homework, start laundry, spend time with hubby
8:30pm - get kids in the bath and into bed
9pm - clean house, check phone messages, check mail
10pm - take bath and go to bed
6am - start all over again
2007-09-29 14:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you are doing too much, you need to seriously think about letting something go. I understand not wanting to let the teams down, but you have to do what's best for you. One of my sister's had a stroke at 15. She was way too stressed out. I wouldn't want this to happen to you. You're only a middle schooler. It's ok to be active, but know your limits. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-09-29 14:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by ndd77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell, your parents about this stress , you should try and cut down on some of the sports if your willing to sacrifice those to make some achual time in your life i mean your a kid no offence you should have lot of free time and have at least a little fun i mean by your decription its work, work work so just try to cut down and also eat your body needs the food, thats another reason why your over stressing
2007-09-29 14:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by SK8er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ridolia Root
2007-09-29 14:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Savage Henry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut one or more sports out or other activities before it gets you really down and you'll be forced then to give up the lot.
Teams will just have to cope without you.
Your health is more important.
2007-09-29 14:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREATHE!
Thats the first thing to do.
Take things slower.
Your only in the 7th grade.
Live your life.
Don't live up to what other people want.
It's your life.You'll have to live up to other people when you are OLDER.
These are the best years of your life honey!
Live it Up!
Trust me when I say this.
Live life for you.
Not anybody else.
2007-09-29 14:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nichole(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD SWEETIE THATS ALOT! OK TRY AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF FIRST TAKE A BUBBLE BATH IT HELPS THEN TALK TO YOUR BF DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL SO HE UNDERSTANDS EVERYTHING THATS GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE THAT WAY HE CAN HELP YOU AND SWEETIE TRY TO EAT LUNCH ITS VERY IMPORTANT YOUR VERY BUSY YOUR MIND AND BODY NEED TO BE HEALTHY TO YOU DONT WANT TO GET SICK EAT LIKE A SANDWITCH AND SOME MILK YOUR STILL GROWING YOULL BE FINE TAKE IT EASY TAKE CARE SWEETIE!
2007-09-29 14:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by Q678 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋