LOL!!! This guy has only called me once since a month ago when I gave him my number right? So when I asked hm why he says because its because I put too many restrictions on when he can call (I have kids). Anyway its a long story. Then he says "why don't you call me?" cause I've never called him, EVER. So I called because I sent him this really hott email, but he never emailed me back with an equally hott email and wft I call him and he's playing video games with his buddy and asks if he can call me back! What 37 yr old man plays video games with his friend every other ****ing Saturday? He's the one who asked me to have a relationship with him. Right?
2007-09-29 11:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He emails me everyday but thats it..
2007-09-29 12:17:01 · update #1
he was just having some guy-time (guy, NOT gay =P lol). maybe he didn't expect you to call that night. and even if he did, do you think he should stay home just because there's a chance you might call? it's pretty stupid putting your live/fun with your friend on hold for a call, isn't it? it's normal for a guy to need some space, which includes time with his friends. you know, just playing games, have something to eat, maybe (more like probably) a couple of beers, ...
it's called having a life of your own =)
and as to him telling you to call back later: what do you think his friend would have said if he had ran out of the room like crazy in the middle of a video-game just to talk to you on the phone? they would have teased him by telling him stuff like "oh, now it really shows who is the boss in that relationship" (this being you - and pardon the word relationship if it's still more like a relationship "to be"). his friend would have fussed about it, thinking it was not the "cool" thing to do. this is just the way guys are.
or maybe... just maybe! it was him wanting to restrict you for once on when to call? so you know how it feels when you tell him that it's ok to call from ... to ... but not besides that. i'm just saying this is an option, because actually i really think it's more about him not wanting to lose face in front of his friend - perfectly normal.
hope this helps.
2007-09-29 12:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship is a two way street. If you both don't listen to each other how are you gonna have a relationship?
He asked you to call him so he'd know that you were actually interested in him (which you are since you're sending him HOT emails, right?).
Guys don't want to give up their freedom... so... until you start listening to him and actually call him back and ask to do something together, I think you might find him on the couch with video games every day of the week...
unless of course he really is one of those video-game-addicted losers...
2007-09-29 11:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Petunia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are looking to be in a serious relationship, you should talk to him about it. It seems as though he looks to you as more or less a friend because he would rather play video games than talk to you. Or, he is not interested in you anymore as he was when you first met.
Man Law #4: Bro's Before Hoes
2007-09-29 11:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Gorka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a video game? Would you like to go out sometime?
Sounds as if he's playing the wrong game with the wrong person to me! (Just a lil' joke about going out)
2007-09-29 11:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all you have kid's and most single guy's are not interested in kid's right away,from what you have said b-4 about this guy my feeling is he got what he wanted and you are just on the line 4 him right now! you are another mark in his belt right now. sorry to say it but I've been there! you need to find a guy who has a kid or get damn lucky and find one who will take kid's in his life right now! good luck!!
2007-09-29 23:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should of saw it from how long it took him to get in contact with u after a month of giving him ur number that he's probably not showing any interest...you need to find someone that will give u the attention u need not someone that will be with u when he feels like it...
2007-09-29 11:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha lots of men play video games. the reality is that he finds spending time with his friends and video games a lot more fun then spending time with you. if you really like this guy, you need to make a specific date and time to have "the talk" with him. find out his priorities and what he is wanting from you. you and your time are worth a lot more than his games, and if he doesn't think so...then you should walk.
2007-09-29 11:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by mizztanya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok chill out. it aint that big of a deal. some guys are just into video games...yea he told u to call him...u just happened to call at the WRONG time!
2007-09-29 11:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a male bonding thing. Keeps us off the streets after a few beers. :o)
I'll give you a call. I'm 36. :o)
2007-09-29 12:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by bow_wow_wow_yippieo_yippiea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow uhm pathetic men these days. Uhm is he serious?! GROW UP. or is he making excuses? call him again and try and contact him. what game was he playing....lmao!
2007-09-29 11:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋