I am in a relationship with a married man and I need advice I love him.
2007-09-29 12:24:28 · 21 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You love him but, he is using you. even though he might tell you he loves you he is married and has a family..How would you feel if you were married to this man and he was cheating on you? It doesn't feel to good...Remember what comes around goes around.....Get out now leave him be find a single man......
2007-09-29 12:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It can happen - I was married and fell in love with another man in the last few months of my failed marriage, and we wound up married.
However, that is seldom the case. How long have you been in the relationship? Has he left her for you yet? Why not? How many excuses do you get? Is it for the kids? BS - no kid wants miserable parents. Is it for the money? Crap - sure she'd get some, but if money is more important than you , that's saying something. Is she sick and dying and only has a few years left? Really? For how long now? Where's the proof?
Get what I'm saying? It CAN happen, but usually doesn't. You need to look at this REALISTICALLY and decide if he's ever going to choose you, or if you're going to waste your life on somethng you won't have.
2007-09-29 12:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by lisa w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as this topic is talked about on here and on TV and written about you would think you know better then to let yourself get caught in a web of lies and deceit. The man has a wife for god sake what do you think they do when they go to bed at night sure i know he told you they don't sleep in the same bed and hadn't had sex in so long he can't remember. Any of this ringing a bell and when did he say he is leaving his wife. Even if he does odds are he will run back to her as soon as your newness wears off. Don't hurt his wife who by the way has never did anything to you,walk away now with your dignity while you still can.
2007-09-29 13:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be judgemental but you need help, Why in the world would you mess with someone else's husband. What is in it for you Sex? Please that is pityful, that you would devalue yourself to try and believe you can have what someone else has devoted their life too. Does he love you maybe but he has no self love that he would lie to hisself,wife you and most of all God. Temptation is one thing. Get a life move on his wife should find you two together and see what he will do. Think about that then do you really think he loves you then?
2007-09-29 14:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is no future for you to be in love with a married man, Ive been there and when this man finds him self getting closer to you he will drop you like a hot potato for fear of loosing his wife. He may fall in love with you but walking away will be easy because if its cheaper to keep his wife than you will have to go.
best of luck
2007-09-29 13:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the more important question is what type of man cheats? I have simple rules I set for myself and the most important is I never mess with married people. It's not only the moral issues but honesty and integrity. I just don't think people who cheat have these things also what goes hand and hand with cheating...lieing.....no thank-you....
2007-09-29 12:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do not leave him as he already married man, then you are homewrecker, who lacks to respect the already established family. Did your community or your whole world empty of guys who were bachelors yet?
There are a lot of men not yet committed into string attached to select from them for your own good.
2007-09-29 22:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to say I never would go out with a married man...for obvious reasons...that was until I dated someone whom had told me he was single but wasn't at the time. He got a divorce and we are dating but I have not gotten over the fact that he told me he was single when in fact he was still married legally at the time. Good luck.
2007-09-29 12:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Veevee 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I would never fall in love with a married man. Don't ever done such of things.... You will get it back when you got married later.... what goes around and will comes around too....
2007-09-29 12:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by blueice 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry girl, you are in for nothing but heart ache. You are just a fling to him. And even if he did leave his wife for you, which is almost never the case, could you really trust him not to go after another woman? I say leave him now before you ruin your life forever.
2007-09-29 12:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋