For years women have not always been honest about being on the "pill". Now a male birth control option will soon be available to men. So is it ok if the guy lies about it? Is it ok if the guy says he's not on male birth control but all along is? Is it ok if the woman or wife really doesn't get to know his true intentions?
Source on Birth Conrol for Men: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21038295/wid...
Check out my YA question "Ladies--Ever lie about being on or not being on the pill".
"That's Life" conducted the "National Scruples and Lies" study surveyed 5000 women and you can read an article on lying about BC and other things such as parentage at
http://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/n...
For those of you who want an opinion from Feminists.com about women lying and this whole issue with male BC go to http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2005/0420sacks.html
2007-09-29 20:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because others does something bad doesnt make it right.
But only one answer here matters: yours. Do you think its okay?
2007-09-29 20:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not o.k. if anyone lies. This seems to be an issue which has deply affected you personally since you've asked so many questions about it. Perhaps you should speak to a counselor to resolve it, and if you have an unplanned child, take care of him and try to do better to prevent such things in the future. It is a horrible thing to lie about being on birth control. I have a friend whose ex did that to him. It's just as bad as a man putting a hole in a condom (seen that too).
2007-09-29 20:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you, when a man loses his virginity its less of a deal in society than when a woman does. Unfortunatly, this is because of the higher likely hood that females can get pregnant so people would generally prefer females to keep their virginity. I do agree with you though I wish it would be an equal pressure/consequence for both
2016-05-17 07:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um since when is lying ok? if one is lying to another they dont respect that person...let alone LOVE him/her. if a guy or gal has to lie in marriage about these birth control pills...then they shouldnt of gotten married in the first place.
another thing....if you dont want children...first of all let your gal know of course...just get fixed.it'll save you moeny cuz you wont have to keep buying pills & condoms all the time.
& then just get untied when you're ready for kids
2007-09-29 21:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Candystar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying, and especially lying to the one you're supposed to love, and especially lying about something as important as creating another human life, is never never never OK. Not under any circumstances.
2007-09-29 20:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously dude... you are asking if deception is moral? Do you really need a validating consensus to convince you?
I have dumped women for being deceptive toward me... I dont want malicious, selfish, garbage in my personal life
2007-09-29 20:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure i think its ok...i dotn know any guys that would want to get a chic pregnaunt...so the theory or a guy lieing about BC to get a girl prego is highly unlikly.........the old keep a N*gga baby
2007-09-29 20:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ispeakfreely 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It wasn't and still isn't alright for woman to lie about it. Do you ant to lie about it and by accident(?) make her pregnant?
2007-09-29 20:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are ya?
2007-09-29 20:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋