i am so insecure about myself that i dont even participate in school events like homecoming games prom ect.im always ashamed i dodge from people because i afraid of what they may think.how can i stop caring what people think.the only option for me is to fix my self into being pretty.but i cant change that.so now what? i know i cant change mentally first.
2007-09-28 13:05:48 · 2 answers · asked by yoshi_gurl08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look, im exactly like u. u have to be proud of yourself or no one else will be. envision your self how u want to be, and it will give u confidence (if that makes sence). the first step is to list all of your good points. it will make u feel better. it doesnt matter what people say or do, or what u do to yourself, you are always goingto be you whether n e one likes it or not. u dont live for others, u live for yourself. dont ever forget that. u were made the way u are for a reason. and as long as u realize that, things will get better. i was the same exact way, but now, i look in the mirror and all i see is beauty, inside and out, because i had confidence and stop letting people bring me down, because i knew i served a greater purpose than pleasing others. good luck, i hope this helps
2007-09-28 13:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by nina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't try to be what "they" want you to be--always just be yourself, and they will come to you. Doing what you do best--being yourself--is what will attract them to be your friends.
2007-09-28 20:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋