Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

me and my friend were going out for a month, and he acted like a sage. i mean so gentle and caring and not bothering to comment on other girld. but last week, he and i were alone in auditorium and he kissed me. i thought it was just a kiss so i didnt stop him but he was trying to have sex i sort of ran away from there without saying a word. and now he doesnt even talks to me. no sorry no nothing. i feel so awkward. boys are so selfish and mean what to do of him??????

2007-09-28 15:29:16 · 10 answers · asked by latino_hea255 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad and my mom are in an argument because my mom kept yelling at me and cursing so my dad kept telling her yto stop because he saw what it was doing to me so she wouldnt listen so he grabbed her head kind and shook and it foward and backwards.. is this abuse? even though he was just trying to get her to stop verbally abusing me?

2007-09-28 15:27:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 5'11" and I seem to notice women are going out with really tall guys these days. I saw this girl about 5' 1" that was holding hands with a guy about 6'7"....So am I now considered short to women's standards nowadays? I like this girl that's 5'10" so do you think my height would be appealing to women of this height?

2007-09-28 15:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by Chris720 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and I met this really cute girl in school three days ago. I really like her...

The first day I met her was in class - I was assigned as one of the four leaders and I was gonna call my friend over, but the cute girl and her friends came to my group first. She told her friends that I was really smart. She also sat next to me and we talked a bit, and she drew a small ♥ on my workbook.

Second day, not much, she just said "hey, i noticed you're in my third period."

Third day she asked me where I sit in my 3rd period, and she started to say stuff like "i hate where i sit!". I already knew where she sat, but asked her where she sat just for conversation.

Fourth day she asked me if I had a myspace, and she gave me her email address and made me repeat it so I dont have it messed up. I emailed her but she didn't respond, but then I noticed she wanted me to find her myspace via email address. (im so stupid!) so i added her around 11pm and she didn't accept it yet, because shes not home

2007-09-28 15:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by zz 1 in Friends

2007-09-28 15:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you see a very attractive women, would you speak to her or are you to intimedated to. Is it easier to speak to a not so attractive women?

2007-09-28 15:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by scarletsummer 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. I love him, think about him all the time, sex is the best EVER, but I feel like he's never around. He has a stressful job that requires him to work long crazy hours and be on-call.

I talk to him a couple times a week, and see him usually once a week. I never know when I'll see him next, so when he comes over, all I can think is that he's gonna leave again, and I don't know when he'll be back.

I know he loves me and my kids. He talks about our future; getting a house, married, 2 kids together. It's just that I miss him and I feel lonely alot of the time, but wouldn't I just feel more lonely if I ended it. Am I just too needy? Should I stay in this relationship even though I only get to see him once a week, and feel lonely all the time?

2007-09-28 15:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by kayla 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short.... I'm a married woman, i started seeing another woman (while married) She knew I was married!! Things got too serious beteweem Her and I, my husband found out, She became obsessive so We broke things off, He forgave Me after 6 months so my husband and I are back together. In the period that I was with her She made me quit work, She's a very wealthy person. She lavish Me with extravagant gifts, the big ticket items are a 6 carat diamond ring and a $350,000 condo Paid with a cashiers check . I didn't know I was getting this unit until I went to the closing (she bought one for her also) Her and I had a relationship! now a lawyer showed up to my house with a letter saying She practically wants everything back! I never asked for anything. My husband makes great money so She made sure That my lifestyle will not change but get better. What a mess!! I'm going to contact a lawyer on monday but I need some advice to get Me over the weekend (legal advice). Please Help.

2007-09-28 15:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by marinrey1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-28 15:20:56 · 5 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Singles & Dating

i am in lewisville texas and need a hoop skirt to make my dress "poof" out i found some on ebay for like 33 but i was wondering where else i could look

2007-09-28 15:20:13 · 11 answers · asked by tkdmommy9 1 in Weddings

I cut. My best friend found out and now she doesn't want anything to do with me. She won't even talk to me when I say "Hi". This kind of sucks seeing as we are roommates. Now she tells me she's on anti-depressant medication because of me. Now the extra guilt and stress of losing a best friend is making want to cut even more. I think I will explode if i don't cut, but I don't want to. I can't control myself and i have no one to turn to. And being alone all the time doesn't help. I become more depressed and that makes my cutting problem worse. Help...

2007-09-28 15:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my sis is pregnant...she told her friends, her bf family and a few other fam members our 2 aunts. but didnt tell me or her bro... i was hurt. she told me like 4 weeks in an email after she told them. as far as i know she hasnt told the rest of our fam...she put an announcement on myspace. i think she is being selfish. i was hurt i wasnt one of the 1st ppl she told. but she isnt on the best terms with our mom...( my sister lives in a different state than us) i think my mom has a right to know...my sis never answers her phone. so i dont think she is going to tell my mom. she thought we didnt have to tell mom..when our dad passed away cuz she was angry with our mom...she was one of those parents who played the kids against each other--SO naturally we were upset with her. she just thought we never had to tell her our dad died. i believe she has some issues cuz she didnt even pick up the phone to tell me she was pregnant. what shoud i do???

2007-09-28 15:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by nikkylyn 5 in Family

I'm 49 she's 41. answers and advice please

2007-09-28 15:10:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ever been in love. what did it feel like?

2007-09-28 15:10:26 · 16 answers · asked by on and on we go 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in law is the type if you say I have an idea to make more money, her reply is "I have tried to do that and I didn't get more" I am a gifted sculpture and would like to make a living doing it and she thinks I should work in the store and get on with it. However, on a night out she failed until the next day she had been talking to someone who could have offered me work. When I mention anything that enhances me, she always has a jealous face on. I watched a documentary the other night and she happened to watch a better one and when someone agreed with me on how good it was, she changed the subject.

I feel she is trying to hold me back and it is starting to get on my nerves. I also, play sports and she says things like you won't do it when your are 50 (I am 25 now) I think it is time to either ignore her and do what I want or just keep being bitter.

2007-09-28 15:07:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My brother is working on a project on the dinner table. I sat down to eat my dinner when he started yelling at me. Said i was making 2 much noise with my plate and fork!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dude, then he started hitting me. And after that, he scratch me! Right now it's bleeding. What a *** hole!!!!! Well, what do u think?

2007-09-28 15:02:42 · 22 answers · asked by Such A Girly Girl 3 in Family

if you talk talked to an old friend and you have a mate but all you did was chat and talk about when you all was in shool an to always stay incontact and call eachother for information about varies of things is that disrepectful to the other person

2007-09-28 14:58:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everyday there are fights in my family. Whether it be my mom and dad or me vs my mom or me vs my dad. I find that for the last month i have cried every single night. We fight and we fight to finally i get to the point where i just want to hurt my mom ( inever do) but she makes me so angry and i make her angry. Also she is a big smoker and drinker and this annoys me and she yells at me when i insist that shes had to much. Is this all normal?

2007-09-28 14:56:36 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer l 1 in Family

Ever since my somewhat unhappiness and miserableness in my marriage life, I have lost all my faith in God/Jesus. Sometimes, me and my wife have extreme heated arguements. We both are not putting any effort for each other, whatsoever, in our marriage life. So because of my somewhat unhappiness, I quit living a Christian way of life.

2007-09-28 14:56:17 · 15 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know every women wants to know what does a man really want? How to keep him from cheating and straying away from their relationship?
I'm curious myself. I would like to know how to keep my boyfriend.

2007-09-28 14:54:50 · 13 answers · asked by Some random chick? 1 in Singles & Dating

like a 3 min love song, karaoke style , mediocre voice, or do you think this would be lame?

2007-09-28 14:52:25 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

http://members.comics.com/members/common/affiliateArchive.do?site=spi&comic=fminus

FRIDAY Sept 28, 2007. newspaper comic: F minus.

Maybe he cracked under the stress?

2007-09-28 14:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Last week, I attended my friend's Birthday party. Drinks went a limit up and it played a fate. Me and a friend slept together. We are both married and never done such mistakes before. It hurts me a lot, because I cheated my loving husband. How to tell him about this? Or should I hide this from him?

2007-09-28 14:44:23 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are they really all dogs and the ones that are thought of as "good" really just dogs on the down low?
Be honest(brutally, honest if you have to).

2007-09-28 14:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Some random chick? 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom and grandmother went shopping and my mom disappeared leaving me with my grandmother. She didn't come back for a while ( a few years).

And when she did come back, it wasn't to be with me. She was hooked on drugs and needed to stay with my grandmother.

When she was around (she went to prison twice) our relationship was more of brother-sister (and barely that).

And since she was on drugs and hooking, one thing she instilled in me was that looks were everything. When I was 14, she asked me if I was hard (down there). I said no. Then she said, "I hope you have it better than your father." So, from that point on, I came to believe that women cared only about your physical appearance and sexual prowess.

So that's why I'm such a shallow bastard, if any of you have checked out my other posts.

I was sexually abused, but definitely mentally. These are only some of the early experiences with my mom.

Will I ever get over it, or am I scarred for life?

2007-09-28 14:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She means very well. We both live out in California right now down the street from eachother because both of our husbands are in Iraq together. So, we are on our own for 7months and we hangout alot. We have alot in common and its nice that someones going through the same thing. But alot of times, she just tries to act like my mother. She congratulates me when i go to the gym ( i go everyday ). She always asks me if im getting certain things done while my husband is away and always nagging at me about things.And if there is something i dont get to do right away shell be like " you have to do that soon blah blah blah! " ..The only person who should be asking me if i am doing things is my husband when he calls.....Shes a really good friend but does anyone know what i can do about this? It's driving me nutty!!!!!

2007-09-28 14:36:56 · 3 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Friends

i love my boyfriend to death but there are some things about him that bother me. at first it was that he didn't want me talking to him while my friends are around i accepted then it lead to don't talk to one of my best friends who i have known since she was born next came any guys and now he doesn't want me to talk to anyone not even a hello not even teachers at my school he is really paranoid about getting cheated on and i have told him that i would never do that and i dont want to hurt someone that i love i know why he has these trust issues but i don't know how to break him out of this habit it is affecting our relationship it really hurts me when he falsely accuses me i tell him this then he apologizes and i know he means it but the next day he does it again i am scared to tell him somethings because im afraid he will get mad he gets mad at me for stupid reasons and half the time i dont even know what i did .. what do you think?

2007-09-28 14:36:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean there's this guy named, well, I'll call him "Toey" that I like...should I pass him a note in class that says "will you go with me? Yes no or maybe(circle)"?
Is that a money sort of approach or what?

2007-09-28 14:35:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I have been in love with a woman for 3-4 years that I work with and she doesn't want anything more than a friendship with me. It's hard for me to move on because I see her everyday and I can't get a new job because I am in the military. What should I do?

2007-09-28 14:34:28 · 2 answers · asked by Dave 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex today said that he cheated on me while we went out, i am still likeing him. wat should i do, im not quite positive that is wat he said but im oretty sure

2007-09-28 14:26:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships