Long story short.... I'm a married woman, i started seeing another woman (while married) She knew I was married!! Things got too serious beteweem Her and I, my husband found out, She became obsessive so We broke things off, He forgave Me after 6 months so my husband and I are back together. In the period that I was with her She made me quit work, She's a very wealthy person. She lavish Me with extravagant gifts, the big ticket items are a 6 carat diamond ring and a $350,000 condo Paid with a cashiers check . I didn't know I was getting this unit until I went to the closing (she bought one for her also) Her and I had a relationship! now a lawyer showed up to my house with a letter saying She practically wants everything back! I never asked for anything. My husband makes great money so She made sure That my lifestyle will not change but get better. What a mess!! I'm going to contact a lawyer on monday but I need some advice to get Me over the weekend (legal advice). Please Help.
2007-09-28 15:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by marinrey1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I bought thousands of dollars in gifts for her also!! I need legal advice not moral advice!!!
2007-09-28 16:29:23 · update #1
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2007-09-28 15:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by dearg doom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she did no make you quit
you did that out your own volition
so own up to your end and quit being a victim
hopefully if your husband is smart he'll sue you too
for "alien of affection"
if applicable in your state
your ex may or may not have a case
she indeed might get all those items back
even though they might be deemed as gifts
as she was expecting something from you and her good lawyer could argue fraud on your part ( she will claim she did not know you were married ) and thus the gifts were given on basis of forming a long term mutual sex relationship with the gifts sealing the deal ( bond ) between the 2 of you
after all marriage is a contract, not love, recognized between 2 consenting adults, and even though you partnership may not be legally recognized, her attorney will argue otherwise and most likely win
2007-09-28 15:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First .. they are going to look at his earnings and his earnings purposes. despite the fact that if he's not working he would be made to pay something. there's a minimum criminal fee. and each so frequently the lawyer everyday will do a assessment of their case and make appropriate variations at that element no count if his earnings is going up or down, if the two one in all them strikes, if he's taking on a sparkling lady chum, etc, additionally i used to be such as you... a astonishing father could do his superb possible and sacrifice any and each thing for his newborn... bodily, emotionally, and Financially. you may no longer feed a newborn on love by myself and besides you does no longer anticipate any much less to your man or woman! that's no longer the Grandparents duty to finacially help This newborn. You and he will would desire to grow to be close acquaintances with this woman or you will sense sorry approximately it heavily for years yet to come again. The courts won't care approximately His debt merely the shown fact that he has a newborn and needs to make a compelled dedication to her wellness, & wellbeing (no longer basically finacially)! whilst he's ordered to take the counseling type i could propose which you look into one to for you would be spending alot greater time along with his ex.
2016-10-10 00:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's name is on the condo makes a big difference. She gave this too you and so she is being a witch because she did not get what she wanted. I would contact a lawyer on monday but her position is not very strong.
2007-09-28 15:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by gator_ce 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK - let's be honest. She bought you with monetary gifts. And you let her. There's a term for that - it's called prostitution and it is illegal.
Give back her stuff and resolve to either decide to call it off with hubby or love him.
2007-09-28 15:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you, a married woman, want to keep the things that your female lover gave you. I realize it was stupid of her, but its immoral of you to keep these gifts. Give them all back.
2007-09-28 16:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to keep everything? I mean, you're not even with her anymore, give it back to her. And she didn't make you quit your job, that's a choice you made yourself.
2007-09-28 15:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by ~Josie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your name is on everything.
She isn't really entitled to things.
That's how I think it is.
But if it won't affect your lifestyle to return those things.
I'd do it with out a fuss.
You do have a husband...
=]
2007-09-28 15:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gorgeous;//♥=] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her everything back. lesson well learned for cheating.
2007-09-28 15:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by yoraima m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋