My brother is working on a project on the dinner table. I sat down to eat my dinner when he started yelling at me. Said i was making 2 much noise with my plate and fork!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dude, then he started hitting me. And after that, he scratch me! Right now it's bleeding. What a *** hole!!!!! Well, what do u think?
2007-09-28 15:02:42 · 22 answers · asked by Such A Girly Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's okay, little brothers are like that. I have one too. I'm assuming you're older. Try compromising, like if something like that happens again just leave the table. I know you weren't the one doing something wrong, but if you start going easy on him he may eventually go easier on you. This will take time, but be patient.
It's also good not to hold the anger inside. This is another reason not to argue, because that just makes you more mad. If you need to release the anger try punching a pillow, playing music (but not so loud that you get in trouble or something), just whatever floats your boat. Just try not to take it out on your brother, even if he's being immature. Eventually it just won't affect you anymore, and that's a good thing. You don't want to grow old and still hate each other! Don't worry, things will get better!
Best wishes!
2007-09-28 15:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume it's because Satan knows how our hearts can lead us astray, and what better way to hurt Job, than with his wife, now that she was all the family he had left? I think he thought she could do his job for him. (no pun intended). She must have been a wonderful lady, before the agony of losing her children, all at once. Job was a great man, he would likely have chosen a woman that was his compliment. Pain can make you say awful things. An elderly sister at our hall Sunday, said that his wife's' punishment for losing integrity was that she had to have ten more children, when she thought she was done. :) I also picked up on the point that even though she urged him to give up, she wasn't punished, but received all she had lost back, and ten more in the resurrection, as well. Really good lesson.
2016-05-21 01:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical actions should never be allowed. No matter if you sat down at the table where he was working on a project, hitting, punching or scratching is never acceptable.
Did you ruin his project? If so - ask him how you can make your mistake right.
No matter what - talk to an adult you trust to get some day-to-day guidance.
2007-09-28 15:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's not normal- you need to talk to your parents. If they can't help you talk to a school counselor or psychologist. Your brother sounds like he has some serious anger problems and its not right that he physically abusive. Your brother should NEVER put his hands on you like that. I think the best answer would be family counseling- I think this problem runs deeper then sibling rivalry....
2007-09-28 15:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I have an older sister, she might be the oldest, but she can really be a hassle. Sometimes I think I hate them, and like you, want to kill them, but I would never. I thhink at my age, and I don't know how old YOU re but anyways, Im too young to understand the TRUE MEANING of hate. I would never kill anyone anyways, but sometimes you can get mad and just AAAH!! Freak out!
2007-09-28 15:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat your food on the coffee table? why stress yourself out over little stuff like this when you can just remove yourself from the situation. by the way, sounds like your bro has some anger issues, just tell him that next time all he's got to do is let you know his needs and you'll be happy to compramise.
2007-09-28 15:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by julianna85014 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I'm glad to be an only child :]
But I'm sorry, I understand cause I have cousins that drive me 5 times crazier. They think its good fun to hit me with baseball bats.
2007-09-28 15:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by crystal_of_ravenclaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt that way..I hated being around my brother and tried to beat him up on time..But since then I've moved away and don't have to deal with it anymore =)
2007-09-28 15:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♡♪♫☆Baby Animal♥♡♪♫☆ღ»-(¯`v´¯)-» 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've wanted to kill my brother at least 50 times a month since he was about 1. he's 25 now. so the answer is yes, torture is more effective. just start dating his friends that'll teach him.
2007-09-28 15:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by ANITA N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HATE and KILL are very strong words.
Use them wisley.
I understand sibling rivalry- but could your really be truley happy with your brother dead by tomorrow? (*knocks on wood)
rethink how you word your emotions.
2007-09-28 15:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋