I'm 49 she's 41. answers and advice please
2007-09-28 15:10:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a 13 year old daughter that I bring up on my own and we are very close, she has a 13 year old as well. So, even though I love her, I'm not sure of the affect of two females moving in on something that I've had to work hard on for years. Being a Teen is hard, does she really need me to bring someone else into here life because I of what I want?
2007-09-28 15:49:20 · update #1
Not enough information. The ages you gave mean nothing as far as your relationship goes. If you love each other and are mutually clear on what you both want, then go for it!!
2007-09-28 15:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I would start talking to my daughter about the fact that she would not always be a little girl and that you have started to become interested in maybe making this woman your wife. I wouldn't let her throw a fit if she didn't like it. It is always hard to see your parents move on. I would however start my life with this new woman that was neutral terratory for both of you. meaning both of you start your lives in a new home that neither of you have a past history in. That way it isn't their house vs.my house. It will be "Our house" . Oh and plan on seperate bedrooms for those two girls. It will be well worth the money to give them their own space in a house that you all share as equals.
2007-10-02 22:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, are you asking because you are not sure you want to, or because getting married almost feels like starting over? Fifty is the new 30! However, if she's never been married and is pushing you, don't get into something you are not sure you want.
2007-09-28 22:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by AFM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At those ages, the age difference should not really come into play. Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with this woman? Are you ready to give of yourself and receive her gift to you? Is she willing to become your lifelong partner?
There are more issues than age and you must address them before you decide a marriage is in your future.
2007-09-28 22:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only if you and her know what eachother wants out of the marriage. Do you know each others past at all?What do you exspect from her what does she exspect from you.There are to many divorces now.Just find out every thing about eachother before you do make that long life promise to eachother.
2007-09-28 22:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 21 and he's 36 and I'm fixing to marry him. So I'd say go for it. You are never to far apart. And if you love her that is all that matters. But that is a must have. Don't forget it.
2007-09-28 22:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I think you should. I know its probably not what you want to think about, but you are almost half way to 100. What are you waiting for? Just take the plung. If you guys get along then why not.
2007-09-28 22:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Erica M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love has no age. You should marry her as long as you love her and the feelings are given back to you.Enjoy life no matter what anyone else thinks.
2007-09-28 22:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by ddprincess2006 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should!! WHAT IN THE HELL ARE YOU WAITING FOR....???!! There is nothing sadder and pathetic than seeing a 50 year old single man.!!!
2007-09-28 22:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by timbalita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you LOVE her?
Are you "IN LOVE " with her?
Are you set financially?
All past relationships over and done and dealt with so no other male/female can come between you?
Then yes and enjoy it make it your best years ever.
2007-09-28 22:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋