Family & Relationships - 28 September 2007

2007-09-28 16:31:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

O.K. Folks a divorce party is much much cheaper than a wedding, right.

A wedding costs at least $45K today here in Los Angeles.
A Divorce party costs around $700 $1000 if you are having a full sit down dinner for 30 people with drinks, hours durves.

Why don't people plan divorce ahead of time, to save money, and to be cautious and wise.

Most of my friends are divorced, and that percentage about 50% of marriages ending in divorce is not accurate!!! IT'S MORE LIKE 70% ARE GETTING DIVORCED!!

2007-09-28 16:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

2007-09-28 16:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by Random 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

where do i start? wow i dont know i have alot of stress and alot of things that are on my mind. first of all im married for less then 6 months now and my hubby and i own our on stores. (uplinkgaming.com) & (secondstopclothing.com) anyway we work ALOT from the time we get up until the time we go to bed. im 23 he is 24. we have had uplink for over a year and we just started second stop.

im stressed out alot the last month about our relationship. im not happy with us as a couple at all anymore. i dont feel like we have much of a relationship because it doesnt feel like we are a couple anymore. sex life sucks. we dont do things couples should do together. all we do is work and thats all we have time for, work and sleep. i have told him many times how i feel and its like he doesnt care or something ok he does but only for a few days and then its back to not giving a **** about working things out.

i dont know how to fix things with us. anyone have any tips?

2007-09-28 16:15:16 · 22 answers · asked by Ashley H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm thinking about trying to ask her out. She is probably one of the most unattractive girls I have ever seen in my life. Obviously, I'm not doing it because I feel that way about her. I'm really doing it to prove to myself that I can get a girl. If I get rejected by her, It is going to be like a nuclear explosion going off because It means that I'm never going to get a girlfriend. There is alot at stake here. I had a discussion with my friend about this, and we both agree that I should not go that route. I should just be her friend. I want to know what you think. Do you think I should try to be her boyfriend? Why?

2007-09-28 16:11:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a question, me and my crush sit next to eachother in biology why has he never looked down on my boobs? I have never seen him and its weird most guys look at your boobs but no my crush looks at me in my eyes. One time i was talking to him and he was looking at me in the eyes then he looked at my lips and then he said why are you rubbing your legs(cuz i was my thighs he was making me nervous but i didnt say that instead i just smiled and said idk) what do you think he thought and was has he never looked at my b---s does he check me out when im not looking or what? one time i looked at a girls butt real quick and he called me out on it i didnt even know he was looking, then another time he asked me if i would ever do my friend i was like what you perv!!!!! but why has he never looked at my boobs and why has he asked me if i would ever do my friend and why did he catch me lookin at some girls butt were 15 in highschool

2007-09-28 16:08:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-28 16:07:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im gonna whine for a moment here. I am taking 5 classes in college and I am trying to move out because my family nags and Im a scapegoat for their problems. The apartments in the area close to school are SO expensive and there are no jobs around that would help me support myself, now I got extra resposibilities at school too. I am so overwhelmed, I want to leave so badly and be alone. My car is old, so working/living far is just not an option. One area I like has some apartments but they're FULL of DSHS people paying only $50/month ... this is unfair. :( someone guide me. xoxo Oh yea and I got some medical condition no one can diagnose :(

2007-09-28 16:05:20 · 4 answers · asked by Lol L 1 in Family

what i mean is teenager.and he ask you to buy him motor bike are you agree?

2007-09-28 16:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by anier 1 in Family

We have been together for 5 years we also have 2 children together, he says my oldest son is his even though it's not. He has decided that He loves me but is not in love with me. and doen't want to Marry me?

2007-09-28 16:03:39 · 30 answers · asked by chris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, my best friend of my has started up an affair with someone she had one with about five years ago. I know the marriage of 7 years is on the skids, has been from the beginning. anyway, do I mention to her that I know what is going on or wait 'til she says something? We are going to dinner (just the two of us) tomorrow night! do I act as nothing is wrong or do I try and bring up the subject?

2007-09-28 15:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had sex once, a while ago. While i didn't regret it at the time, I do now. It was against my beliefs and really an out-of-character move. I do not wish to continue having sexual relations because i believe that i owe it to my future husband to save myself for him. I have been hearing things of a long process of revirginization... and if anyone has any information on it, or knows how it is done...PLEASE let me know. My heart aches with knowing what a mistake i have made, and i know that i can never completely change the decision i made, but i do realize what i did was wrong, and i have asked for forgiveness. and now i believe this would help me...i guess try to forgive myself.

2007-09-28 15:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by swimmastar049 1 in Singles & Dating

Its like she doesnt get it. She basically ruined my life and shes evil. I just want her to stay away from me!

2007-09-28 15:54:01 · 14 answers · asked by Chips 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-28 15:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by molovekayak 1 in Weddings

sarcastic answers. my hair is curly and long and I don't know what to do with it ?????

2007-09-28 15:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have a good relationship, for the most part, but he has not worn his ring for a while now and i have asked him to..... anyone else have this problem???

2007-09-28 15:50:23 · 22 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Weddings

my one friend's friend told me I was... now this is a pic of how I usually look but by no means is this my best pics http://s80.photobucket.com/albums/j199/Hulabulatula/?action=view¤t=Blah1.jpg and was taken at like 1am :P and heres a nother http://s80.photobucket.com/albums/j199/Hulabulatula/?action=view¤t=l_00a17fa474127e4d5748273c23d184c9.jpg Please be honest even if its mean just tell me the trueth

2007-09-28 15:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3 in Singles & Dating

is it ok a couple of a white guy(me) and a chinese girl(she) xD
im 15, 5'11,
she is 16, 5'5
shes not exactly hot, but for i still love her(were great friends) so tell me if its ok

2007-09-28 15:49:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I'm 15 and I have no talents what so ever. All my friends have these super awesome obvious talents and then theres me....talentless me. Like, I'm positive there is nothing special about me. Everything I do I suck at. And I'm not one of those that just quits I actually work at stuff and try to be really good at it, but then other people start doing it and they are sooo much better at it then me that the only sane thing to do is quit.
I'm not super pretty, can't sing, draw, play and instrument ect... everyone thinks I'm so confident and stuff when I really feel like such a talentless loser. So. Enough of me whining. What is my freaking talent?! How do I find it? Am I just destined to be an un-special talentless girl? Thankks in advance.

2007-09-28 15:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am currently a 14 year old male, attending highschool as a freshmen. this guy is hispanic and puts me down a bit calling me a chino every single day, which u get the idea of me being asian). I don't believe there really is a "best race" but this guy just goes around P.e saying "MEXICANS are the best" "mexicans are better then those stupid slanty eyed chinos" I felt a bit angry..decided to go up to him and say "hey how would you like it if somebody said asian's were the best and called you a stupid dirty beaner, how would you feel" (sorry everybody for using this word) but instead he says.."whatever, mexicans are better then chinos." then he starts to slant his own eyes to try teasing me. I really didn't care much and decided to walk away. Then i saw him walking up to other people, which looks like hispanics. He asks them, "hey which is better, Chino's or Mexicans" then obviously those hispanic people would say, mexicans. I don't know what to do with this guy. wat should i do?

2007-09-28 15:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you every felt that you're "blocked" against love?

Me, I've been hurt before and for whatever reason, I wonder if I have some sort of "block" that keeps things from working. It seems like the guys I meet are wrong for me, but if I really like someone I am self defeating and it never seems to go anywhere because I end up being too shy, or too forward, too anxious or whatever. It's like I protect myself from the one thing I want (to love and be loved!)

I want to be open to love but I don't know how. This might also have to do with my father leaving when I was very young. Other than therapy, how to overcome?

2007-09-28 15:45:42 · 3 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told I have some family in Japan, I know some things about it, and some things i don't know. I live in the US, and thats where my mother had me. She is from Japan, but came here 40 years ago. anyways my mother never told me much about my family, and I want to find out how to get information. I can't ask her because she is dead now. So I don't know what to do. help me please.

2007-09-28 15:42:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im in college 2nd year, and i wanna ask out this girl... she's not a prof, but she's like the coordinator or teaching assistant... shes older than me, probably by 4-6 years...

im going to ask her out no matter what.... but i wanna know....
do u think she will be:
a) flattered that i asked her out
b) think im trying to prove something
c) gonna use her
d) embarassed for us both and quit her job

2007-09-28 15:42:18 · 24 answers · asked by puaporn3 1 in Singles & Dating

9 m. pregnant. feeling stress about my hubby family. his family treated me nice . but then a few incidents that happen.1.was i had a fight with my hubby so i look for my mom in law comfort, instead she came with an attitude demanding to know all the details an saying she made the decision for us to break up.later me an him reconcile,an she appoligize so i accept.2. i was planning my baby shower with her.but then she kept making excuses an leaving it for the last minute.then she finally came around but instead of telling me the details she left me in the dark an kept telling my hubby the details.3.at my b.shower.all my family was there his family was there .but his family didnt want to be anywhere near my family givng them dirty looks.an throwing me indirects.even treating my nieces badly.but why since his family never new my fam before.so anyway we since then havent talk to them. now there leaving hate message to me an my mom.like i have a tumor in my head.going to his job. an more

2007-09-28 15:40:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am just looking for some dates. I have been told I am very good looking, a babe, etc. Will I be able to pull some off or are girls wary of certain guys online?

2007-09-28 15:38:07 · 27 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently noticed that $40 have ben taken out of my money tin I have in my room. He has taken money before and it had been returned. (he did this to his brother) Well I must have asked it in the wrong way because now my family is thinking I misplaced the moeny. He was in my room saying the family cat ran under my bed. When he left I found $40 missing. I confronted his mother (my aunt) and things went downhill from there. Next thing I know I may have misplaced the money and blamed him, I may have spent the moeny. After the blow up she gives me $50 plus dollars and throws the rest of her money at me. I gave her the money back but she stil made me feel like a heel about it. I told her from now ON I will NOT mention anything if I find more missing. EVER. They still think its me misplacing it. How do I handle this? Yes I should not assume but he has done this before. I am thinking of getting a metal box with a key....or just depositing all money in the bank except for $10. any ideas?

2007-09-28 15:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by chubbazbubba 2 in Family

2007-09-28 15:33:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here is the deal. . . I'm 16 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He is the love of my life. We have vowed to save ourselves until marriage, so yes I'm am still a virgin. Anyway. . . it kind of scares me to think about our FIRST TIME because neither one of us has any experience. We don't know what we're doing. Now don't think that I don't get know what sex is and stuff. I'm just nervous i guess because I want to satify him. He made the joke that it won't matter if I know what I'm doing or not, but I really want to be ready. Is this weird and how can i learn more without actually being in the act???

2007-09-28 15:33:33 · 29 answers · asked by lovin_jesus03 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately my parents been pushing me to the breaking point. I am a full-time student and will be getting a part-time job on Monday. I do SO much for them. I clean the entire house, cook dinner when my mom doesn't feel like it, go run eranes for them, take care of the animals, mow the lawn, EVERYTHING! But it just seems like whatever I do is never good enough. They always have something to complain about. Also, sometimes my mother says really mean things to me like; if my boyfriend calls around 8pm to hang out. She says how I will be an ediot, run over there, screw him, then come home. Just mean things like that that really hurts. Plus, my dad does not do a single thing! He doesn't stand up for me or anything because he's afraid my mom will leave him! Anyways, I am 21, should be graduating from college next year in May (this is my last semester). My boyfriend has his own place and wants me to move in with him. I am too scared to tell them how I feel about anything.

2007-09-28 15:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, so theres this guy who moved from china about 1/2 a yr ago and now he has friends that he kinda hangs out with. We'll say his name is John. this new school year we saw each other, and he smiled and waved and said hi. i said hi back. So this one day John was sitting with his friends and i walked by. his friend saw me and whispered something to this guy, and they stopped talking and looked at me. John smiled and waved hi to me. He always smiles and at me when we pass each other. Today he started a conversation with me even though he doesnt speak much english.... do you think he might like me?

2007-09-28 15:30:17 · 9 answers · asked by Ophelia 2 in Singles & Dating