Im gonna whine for a moment here. I am taking 5 classes in college and I am trying to move out because my family nags and Im a scapegoat for their problems. The apartments in the area close to school are SO expensive and there are no jobs around that would help me support myself, now I got extra resposibilities at school too. I am so overwhelmed, I want to leave so badly and be alone. My car is old, so working/living far is just not an option. One area I like has some apartments but they're FULL of DSHS people paying only $50/month ... this is unfair. :( someone guide me. xoxo Oh yea and I got some medical condition no one can diagnose :(
2007-09-28 16:05:20 · 4 answers · asked by Lol L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're feeling overwhelmed, and that's understandable. You are not in a position yet to leave home, so you may have to tough it out a little longer. It's important that you finish college. In the meantime, just try to limit your interaction with the family members who are creating problems for you. And when you think you can't do it for one more day, sit on your bed and breathe deeply and pray.
2007-09-28 16:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you can do right now while you're at home is look for a job to make some money so you can start saving. You can't move out unless you have the money to support yourself & things can get expensive. If you can't find a job around you, maybe you could do something to make money like work in the neighbor's yard, baby sit or help someone type or learn how to use their computer. As for the living situation, look around to see if anyone in your area is renting a room or wants to share a house. That could cut the expenses in half. Good luck & I hope you're able to find out what's wrong medically so you can do what you want to do in your life.
2007-09-28 16:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by S J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you make yourself the scape goat........ everything is wrong with you......... and you get upset because other people have the apartments and pay low rent and you can't have one........ how petty and selfish......... next time, don't take so many classes..... then you will be able to keep your head above water, learn how to say no and get over yourself.......... good luck with the mystery illness
2007-09-28 16:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by bizzymom38 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you like some cheese with your whine?
2007-09-28 16:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋