I had sex once, a while ago. While i didn't regret it at the time, I do now. It was against my beliefs and really an out-of-character move. I do not wish to continue having sexual relations because i believe that i owe it to my future husband to save myself for him. I have been hearing things of a long process of revirginization... and if anyone has any information on it, or knows how it is done...PLEASE let me know. My heart aches with knowing what a mistake i have made, and i know that i can never completely change the decision i made, but i do realize what i did was wrong, and i have asked for forgiveness. and now i believe this would help me...i guess try to forgive myself.
2007-09-28 15:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by swimmastar049 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while this made up belief about "revirginization" is out there... your vagina is just a muscle... and with out "regular exercise" it tightens again.... the reason people want to save sex until marriage is because sex is just as much a mental act than physical.... (more mental.... in my opinion) so even though there is a way to physically be made a virgin again (by restoring your hymen).... you can not do a similar procedure for the thoughts in your mind... so whats the point.... just look at all the facts that you have now... you had sex... you see that you have a large value on who you are sexually active with..... you've decided to wait... and will value the experience much more with your future husband.... if it comes up... im sure he will understand.... don't be so hard on yourself! good luck!
2007-09-28 16:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revirginization
2016-09-29 07:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know there is no process or medication procedure that can give you your virginity back, it's a given when you are born and if you lose it, it's gone. Don't fret though, you sound like a good person, you don't need to worry about being in trouble with the Big Guy when you die because you forgave yourself and you asked for forgiveness from God. Have a nice day! : )
2007-09-28 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by * 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is forgive yourself and move on, once you have had sex you are no longer a virgin anymore, and it is still okay to hold out until you get married, but revirginization does not exist. So stop being hard on yourself, we all make mistakes, at least you realized it was amistake. So if you no longer want to have sex until you are married that is perfectly fine, just don't beat yourself up over the one mistake that you made.
2007-09-28 16:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual intimacy is something that cannot be undone. But the amazing thing is that we have God's loving grace and mercy that covers us. Don't hide in shame from the Lord, instead come to Him in repentance, tell Him what is on your heart. He knows your heart. You are already forgiven for your sins. You need to forgive yourself, which can be so hard. Cling to God, stay in contact with Him, pray for Him to change your heart, to purify you. The Lord cares for you and wants you to live in His design, He will not give up on you, He will not turn His face. He is there, He is good, merciful, and forgiving with open arms of grace no matter the circumstances.
2015-08-20 04:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regret nothing. Things like that happen in heat of the moment. If you really want to revirginize yourself, there's not really a process to it. Just tell yourself "I gave this up at the wrong time, and now (with your future husband) I'm ready to give it all up to the one I love." Plus, if this makes you feel any better, men don't know how to control their kickstands and they probably could care less if you're a virgin or not because they have sex every other day.
2007-09-28 16:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by LIVE FREE 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a procedure to restore your hymen. But why do that......restoreing it wont take back the fact that you have had sex. you will always know...and besides its a lot of money for something you can bust ona bicycle or something. You know according to how you believe you were wrong......accept it and make it better,....your worthy of forgivness so forgive yourself...im sure your future husband will love you for you....not because your a virgin.
2007-09-28 16:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Reviriginization, that's not real.
Sorry, but you have to live with the mistake you made. It's just the way it is, just save yourself from now on and your future husband will definitely understand you made a stupid mistake and will accept you as is.
2007-09-28 15:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by thats it 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called a hymenectomy where they reattach the hymen. You can have that done, but it won't ease your mind. You know you're not a virgin. I would hope that even if you have this done, then you'd be honest with your future husband and tell him the truth about it.
2007-09-28 15:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BAAH! WHAT DO ANY OF YOU KNOW! IT IS A REALITY JUST NOT BY THAT NAME!
THE PROCEDURE IS CALLED A HYMENORRHAPHY!
IN FRANCE IT'S FREE TO FEMALE CITIZENS WHO ARE RAPE VICTIMS!
I've sent an e-mail to her user name@Y!.com detailing en-masse with this subject.
P.S. anyone can have memories erased IF, IF, and only IF, they MENTALY CONSENT to be hipnotized BY A LIVE PROFESIONAL.
2007-09-28 17:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋